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| Time To Settle Down? by gallantbabe2013(op): 2:11pm On Apr 07, 2013 |
Well my people, am a uk based lady looking for uk based male wanting to settle down . All my friends are married and the most annoying things is that when i call them they always tell me " oh please i will call you back later am chilling with my hubby"  . Now how rude is that? anyway is time for me to be Mrs Somebody lol. Am looking for the right man and i need to start saying " oh i will call you back later am chilling with my husband and kids  . Please get in touch any male from any part of nigeria is welcomed but please i would prefer a Christian so Muslims don't need to apply i hope i get some responds soon . thanks and God bless you all |
| Re: Time To Settle Down? by greatgod2012(f): 2:19pm On Apr 07, 2013 |
gallantbabe2013: Well my people, am a uk based lady looking for uk based male wanting to settle down . All my friends are married and the most annoying things is that when i call them they always tell me " oh please i will call you back later am chilling with my hubby"if the reason you typed up there is the reason for your getting married, then, my sister.......you are so so wrong, and getting married for the wrong reason can be frustrating, i tell you. May God help you. |
| Re: Time To Settle Down? by jeffizy(m): 2:24pm On Apr 07, 2013 |
i admire your courage. Well, your name says it all. O yes. You will get more than enough responses. But most will be from guys with ulterior motives here online. You will have a better chance at a naija party over there. The church is a good place too. Lastly, dont climb a donkey because others are on it, when the horse is there..lol. Best of luck gurl. 1 Like |
| Re: Time To Settle Down? by Nobody: 2:25pm On Apr 07, 2013 |
gallantbabe2013: Well my people, am a uk based lady looking for uk based male wanting to settle down . All my friends are married and the most annoying things is that when i call them they always tell me " oh please i will call you back later am chilling with my hubby"At least you said you are looking for the right man. There may be just be a glimmer of hope for you yet. Good luck with your quest.  Yeah...what greatgod said. 1 Like |
| Re: Time To Settle Down? by Gboliwe: 2:26pm On Apr 07, 2013 |
You should know why there is an institution called marriage. If you jump in, be ready to jump out and that is the menace society is fighting already. Do not be the problem, do not be desperate and run before crawling. Take and enjoy life in its stages. Best wishes |
| Re: Time To Settle Down? by jeffizy(m): 2:28pm On Apr 07, 2013 |
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| Re: Time To Settle Down? by Nobody: 2:36pm On Apr 07, 2013 |
@OP the reason why you are not married yet, and the possibility that you wont anytime soon (unless you settle for the first guys that comes your way, out of desperation) is written all over your first post. marriage ko, my rage ni! 1 Like |
| Re: Time To Settle Down? by aadetoyin(f): 3:40pm On Apr 07, 2013 |
U want to get married for a totally WRONG reason! If u get married and u re not happy or fulfilled, will it be worth it. U should rethink again and if its just to flaunt to ur friends u re seriously SLEEPING ON OKADA |
| Re: Time To Settle Down? by jeffizy(m): 5:27pm On Apr 07, 2013 |
aadetoyin: U want to get married for a totally WRONG reason!Lmfao. |
| Re: Time To Settle Down? by Nobody: 8:52pm On Apr 07, 2013 |
Op,you are going through this wrong way... In one of my situations .. I av this aunt who is married. We've not seen like ages due to our busy schedules. She has a business of her own with family to attend to, and I have a biz of my own too but still single.. So she called me out of the blue : hello little sis, it's been ages av seen u, when do we hang out and revive our bond. I told her any Thursdays, cos that's when am always free and possibly some weekends. So she choose a Saturday. I called her on Friday to recon firm our meeting and guess what? She says, oh sorry I forgot its my husband's birthday and I have to be with him all through the day.. I was like? Ok, can't we see in the morning , then u can be with yur hubby towards afternoon/ evening.. She says, she can't..she has to cancel. I felt hurt, but let it go.. After like three weeks, she called again, when do we get to see nah? I told her that she shud be patient, my work schedule is tight and you know I have to settle down ? And my bf can be demanding with my time.. And she should give me some time to really settle then I will feel at ease to come play.  I just said that to make her realize, she's not the only one with a guy, even she is married and am single... But that will not make me push outrageously for marriage. So, op chill...don't rush getting married... No matter the indirect or direct pressure and pls not on a forum looking for a husband... Pls don't. |
| Re: Time To Settle Down? by biolabee(m): 4:35pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
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| Re: Time To Settle Down? by jeffizy(m): 6:10pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
biolabee: *** subscribing ***Where have thou been? |
| Re: Time To Settle Down? by coogar: 6:18pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
gallantbabe2013: Well my people, am a uk based lady looking for uk based male wanting to settle down . All my friends are married and the most annoying things is that when i call them they always tell me " oh please i will call you back later am chilling with my hubby"so you basically want a husband to show off to your friends not necessarily because you are mentally ready to marry? good luck on that.......i have an albino dude in your country, holla at me if you are interested. he's 29 and an investment banker. 1 Like |
| Re: Time To Settle Down? by biolabee(m): 6:18pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
jeffizy: Where have thou been?Dear sir thanks for the asking Been on vac with the fam |
| Re: Time To Settle Down? by biolabee(m): 6:19pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
coogar: so you basically want a husband to show off to your friends not necessarily because you are mentally ready to marry? good luck on that.......i have an albino dude in your country, holla at me if you are interested. he's 29 and an investment banker.Wet in person no go hear from woman In the future I foresee women who will pre order males clones for entertainment |
| Re: Time To Settle Down? by Rocktation(f): 7:13pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
My dear, you might never be as mentally ready, as a lot of people would deem fit. There's really no standard by which everybody can actually measure their mental readiness. People do things for different kinds of reasons, and that my reason worked for me, is not enough to make you think that it is the right or best reason and that it must work for you. Noo. Most of the time, our resolutions are influenced and our paths are formed, by the happenings around us. If you look around right now and truly believe that it is time to face life a little differently, then oh yes, it is. Do not tie your hopes to being caught in some kind of mystical whirlpool of emotions that must surmount the ones you're having right now. Go for what you want, if it refuses to find you. It's not desperation. It's go-getting. I wish you luck. |
| Re: Time To Settle Down? by kay9(m): 7:20pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
*comes in and reads thread* *runs outside* *runs back in clutching popcorn and kunu* *sits down happily and waits for the fun to begin* |
| Re: Time To Settle Down? by gallantbabe2013(op): 7:31pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
Thank you all at least a glad my country people are still very kind and decent . I can barely see any insult or rudeness in any of the responds which is really good -_- . To my sister that suggested church n parry thanks for the tips I will start looking for free parry to look for a man ehi-_- looool . Am still looking husband sha anyone interested should email me at dorisweldon@yahoo.co.uk . Thanks n keep the comments going I love you all |
| Re: Time To Settle Down? by coogar: 7:37pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
gallantbabe2013: Thank you allwhere are your pictures? |
| Re: Time To Settle Down? by gallantbabe2013(op): 7:40pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
coogar: where are your pictures?
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| Re: Time To Settle Down? by Nobody: 7:42pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
^ Nice! |
| Re: Time To Settle Down? by baby124: 7:45pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
LMAO! I was about to suggest coogar! Hes already working the babe. o girl, you get mind o. Rora shey |
| Re: Time To Settle Down? by biolabee(m): 7:48pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
kay9: *comes in and reads thread*I feel you brah Brings some palmie and double screen tv to watch the mancunian derby at the same time Lol |
| Re: Time To Settle Down? by coogar: 7:48pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
[quote author=baby_123]LMAO! I was about to suggest coogar! Hes already working the babe. o girl, you get mind o. Rora shey[/quote]since you married your friend off to an indian chief, coogar has to improvise. @ gallantbabe, a gun for coming home late? what would you do if you catch him pants down with your best friend? yank his head off? |
| Re: Time To Settle Down? by gallantbabe2013(op): 8:03pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
i won't kill him no i won't!!!! because is not going to be fair! but i will cut his manhood off and make sure the work Bleep never comes to his mind again . coogar: since you married your friend off to an indian chief, coogar has to improvise.
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| Re: Time To Settle Down? by gallantbabe2013(op): 8:07pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
so basically a friend of mine married a dude 45 years older than her and when i asked her " but nne maka why" she said my dear o ije love -_-  . but i rather remain single than anyway let me keep quiet . ifeoma(my friend ) am not talking about you just incase you see this post at least your husband is only 40 years older than you so yours is better . |
| Re: Time To Settle Down? by baby124: 8:12pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
gallantbabe2013: i won't kill him no i won't!!!! because is not going to be fair! but i will cut his manhood off and make sure the work Bleep never comes to his mind again .You are perfect for Coogar. I really like you. You are liable to keep him on his toes. This is great, who would have thought Coogar will be this lucky. |
| Re: Time To Settle Down? by Nobody: 8:14pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
gallantbabe2013: so basically a friend of mine married a dude 45 years older than her and when i asked her " but nne maka why" she said my dear o ije love -_- You're a hoot!!Ok, you can give it up now. Which regular poster are you? |
| Re: Time To Settle Down? by baby124: 8:27pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
jidegirl12: ^^^ Bingo!lmao! Jide always on point. Abeg leave am, Tgirl don get rules o. Banning galore.  1 Like |
| Re: Time To Settle Down? by dayokanu(m): 8:39pm On Apr 08, 2013 |
Coogar is single |
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