I can still remember that afternoon, my father called me to his room and said he would be travelling and never return home. With tears in my eyes, i asked him where he was going. He showed me some green like card and told me he will be travelling abroad that evening. My mum was just sitting and shè wont answer my questions. I was just 9 then.
At 15, i started the quest and search for my father. My mum said he changed his number and he is now married. I have even contacted some of my uncles i.e his brothers and they gave me the same answer.
Now that i'm almost through wit school. I need a father.
I just want to see him again. I wish he can read this post and come back

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Sorry for your predicament! I wish you the best in your search!

Ask your mother who your real father is. If she is sure he is the one, then go to his family and ask for his whereabouts, that they should tell him that you want to speak to him. Be persistent about it, and they will definitely give you his contact. A child will always find its father.

baby_123: A child will always find its father.

You are right. It's just so unfair on the mum.

Making it appear like she couldn't finish the job.

jeffizy:
You are right. It's just so unfair on the mum.

Making it appear like she couldn't finish the job.

As long as your father is not dead, by Nigerian standards, people will ask who and where he is. After all, you cannot fall from the sky. Worse is when it is time for marriage. It is better to claim the father is dead, than say you dont know where he is. Who will want to marry into such a situation? Sad but true. If a woman goes out of her way to cause problems between a father and his child or vice-versa, the person is setting themselves up for disappointment. This is why, when you have kids by someone, you are tied for a lifetime. Best thing you can do for yourself is get the other person involved in the child's life in every aspect. No carry load alone if you can avoid it.

You are right once more.

Maybe you should ask your mum for his pix (a clear one o) and post it here, before you know it, it will go viral on the internet- some newspapers may even publish it.
You could go to NTA (since they no longer have shows to broadcast at 9.00pm on Sundays), they will gladly help you.

When you find your father, thank me later.

thanks for your contributions. Rilly appreciate.

@Hemartins

Child are you really serious about this? I am wondering whether it is a fake thread someone started to stir people up, if you are seriously looking to find your father I just want to say that you may find him if you try hard enough.
You may have to dig deeper within your family but if they are not co-operating or do not even know where he is you may find him yourself perhaps through resources in the internet and in forums. You have to know the country or continent he is in first and armed with his name, you can search in the net and ask Nigerians living in the same country he lives in after him.

I am wondering why he hasn't made effort to communicate with you? It must be hurting that he is absent, I am sure he still thinks about you and may have been incapacitated from reaching out by one thing or the other.
An American girl who was stolen at birth somehow luckily found her mother by searching around in the internet. I hope you reunite with him.

If you know his full name, which i believe you must, then, type his name on google search, the google will link you to all areas where his name can be found.


Wishing you best of luck in your search.

greatgod2012: If you know his full name, which i believe you must, then, type his name on google search, the google will link you to all areas where his name can be found.


Wishing you best of luck in your search.

God bless you.
Check for his name on google
U dont really have to bother ur mum cos u were old enuf to know ur father and u were all together and he discussed wit u be4 he traveled.
Contact his family and demand d u want to knw d country he is .
If dey aint cooperating, it simply means he has instructed them not to tell anybody his where about.
Tell them dat anytime he calls becos u r such he communicates with anyone of them that you are interested in getting in touch with him.
By the time u disturb dem very well, dey will b forced to tell him abt u.
Please dnt let ds issue bother u now be happy and make ur mum happy since didnt give birth to u out of wedlock.
Pele God will see u thru

thanks. I will do as you have said.