kulyie: lmao.that was one of the reasons i broke up with my ex.his mom was telling me i should call his little nephew of 4year old brother jide when i get married.i tried to bury the shock,when my dad investigated into the family,he discovered that they treat their wives like sh1t,omo i took to my heels o

kulyie: lmao,thats the best thing any woman can do to herself.inlaws have the tendency to disrespect you after marriage if they notice you are too desperate to marry their son or try to please everyone.best thing.give them their respect,create boundaries,call the peeps who are older than you aunty,the one that is not older than you,find a nick name for her and never use ma or sir for anyone that is not older than you.as simple as that

jeffizy: Women dey vex o.

kulyie: lmao.that was one of the reasons i broke up with my ex.his mom was telling me i should call his little nephew of 4year old brother jide when i get married.i tried to bury the shock,when my dad investigated into the family,he discovered that they treat their wives like sh1t,omo i took to my heels o

greatgod2012:


in my hubby's family, i only call those who are 20 years and above aunties and brothers and less than 20 years their names, there was a day i was talking with a 15 years old girl and one of my SIL, their mummy's first born was saying "see how you are talking to your iya oko", i answered her, who is my iya oko, shes my younger sister, i now faced the girl and asked......."are you my iya oko, she said no, if i call you aunty, will you answer, she said "olorun maje, mummy mi niyin", i embrace her and said....thats my girl, i then faced my SIL and asked, can you see now, they are all my younger sisters and brothers......

yellowpawpaw: . Sharp mind! Kudos!! This name calin is so annoyin!what is in it?even as a mother,I always tell grown ups to call me by my name.too much pride! Abeg some pple should grow up! I've even seen younger sibblins calin their sis(16)aunty! that means if I find myself in that kind of family mistakenly,d 4 don pursue me b dat!that reminds me of one elderly man that asked me what of daddy after my weddin not knowin he mean my hubby! Una de try o!I no fit abeg.

mai nadia: I am d last born so i didn't even see anybody †̥☺ call me anty sef... Am used †̥☺ my beautiful name... Let no any 'iyawo' spoil amm for me joor cos dem marry my bros...
Karma is a bi.tch..wt you do †̥☺ your SIL and BIL, dem go do for you too!
ℓ̊ went for a frends wedding where i ws †ђξ 'best lady'...during †ђξ dancing time,†ђξ brides SIL came †̥☺ change money from me, she ws reluctant †̥☺ gve me †ђξ money she changed but i colectd it O and evn told her it hasn't reachd..†ђξ bride heard us and signald me †̥☺ jst lve her and let her be...but i made sure i coletd everytin (wetin be my own sef)
†ђξ bride is from a vry vry rich family, †ђξ groom vry ok too but family jst there (dey are sha nt beggers)
After †ђξ wedding †ђξ bride told me †̥☺ divide her money into 2 part and gve †ђξ SIL cos she asked her †̥☺ gve her so dt she can keep it safe wt her and dt she wl gve her wn dey gt home :O i tried †̥☺ convince her but she was adamant cos she didn't want any problem wt her SIL... †ђξ SIL also asked her (bride) †̥☺ cal their last boy (BIL) wt †ђξ 'bro' title..(Rubbish) †ђξ BIL na smal boy and wl nt dare cal brides younger sibling by their names sef. She obliged †̥☺ all ds nonsense all in d name of 'i dnt wnt wahala' but dts her problem sha... Tnk God sha dey are out of †ђξ country now odawise am sure she wl av bn their slave all in d name of 'i dnt wahala'

aadetoyin: For me I feel it is the job of the husbands to defend their wives and correct their siblings. It amazes me when some young ladies tend to frustrate their SIL because they will also get married n should expect such treatment.
My hubby is the last born so its even harder for me to deal with his nieces and nephews who come visiting but sincerely I don't do the Uncle n Aunty crap at all cos it doesn't mean I respect u.
My hubby has a female cousin dat expected me to call her aunty so I don't even bother calling her name wen she is around and I stick to speaking English with her so she knows am not takin crap so she hardly visits and doesn't call me which is fine by me.

One of his male cousins even lived in our house for about a year and I call him his name cos we no be mate and I can't pretend.
And when he even wants to start his trouble, my hubby is my defender o. He puts the boy where he should be. My hubby told him straight that I am the madam of the house so he beta behave which actually put things right.
So husbands pls help ur woman, she has to be respected after all she is also someone's daughter.

biolabee:

Na soooo

yellowpawpaw: Is is this what most DILs suffer? Oh,we r so so backward!

kulyie: biola how na

HotNaijaBabe: Hmmmmn, kindly tell what part of ibo u refer to..cos my guy is ibo(and I'm not from his place)..

jeffizy: Women dey vex o.

HotNaijaBabe: No, I'm not ibo. But bf is from Anambra state.

Amelian:

Why women no go vex, when some in laws behave like they are doing the. Woman a huge Favour by marrying their sons..when it's even the wife, they should adore and respect cause she is the one who will give birth to so many generations to come...but cruel mindset of some In laws will not make them see reason... No in law will disrespect me or belittle me, sha..I will be good to them , but I won't step beyond my boundaries ,likewise them too.. Respect is reciprocal.