busar: An 18-year-old boy, Olanrewaju Kayode-Aremu
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He lamented that since his arrest, family members, including his mother, had refused to visit him.

He said, "My mother has not come to visit me since I was arrested. I want her to get me a lawyer. I am still very young. I killed him because I wanted to be free. I did not know I would be arrested. I thought nothing would ever happen to me.

"I am not happy in detention and I want the police to release me; I have suffered enough. I am not happy in the cell."

Afam4eva: I even thought he was gonna give a very good reason why he killed his father that will make me support him sef. What a dunce. The only reason i will fault his father is for not taking him to a mental home early enough.

staicey:

You mean there's a chance of you supporting him kill his own father?

Afam4eva:
It was a tongue-in-cheek statement. I don't support the killing of any human being but i was expected a better case from the guy. The reason he gave was stup1d and he deserves to be shot with his mouth wide open.

Btw, i think you're beautiful. Just glanced at your profile pic.

staicey:
Okay I get your drift now. Team# no man is entitled to take the life of another
Thank you for the compliment.

Afam4eva:
You're welcome, Warri girl.

staicey:
Warri? Where did you get that from? I'm not warri, though but I'm deltan

Afam4eva:
I sha know you're either urhobo or isoko? I'm i right or right?

tbaba1234: Mr Druid,

Many of the things you said are very faulty. I do not understand, your fixation with black magic.

1. The boy said, he didn't know what came over him but he also said he killed him to be free. There was no black magic at play here, what you have is premeditated murder. A dumb murderer. Nothing to do with polygamy or black magic.

2. Polygamy is NOT a curse. In history, societies (including christian societies) needed it for survival. The wives and children provided labour that cultivated farmlands.

3. My grandfather was polygamous and it was fine. The children from the home still get along fine. So while there might exist the occasional conflict, polygamous families are not always as stereotyped.

4. The mother not visiting him simply shows a woman pissed off by the cruelty of her son. IT has nothing to do with magic.

5. Maybe, she was shocked beyond words at the actions of her son.. Perfectly understandable reaction... Not everyone will scream when they witness a traumatic event.

NO ONE IS BEHIND ANYTHING. THE BOY KNEW WHAT HE WAS DOING.

druid06: [b]Very unusual story indeed but there's nothing new under the sun. It's sad to see how a disgruntled young mind has shattered the whole family's joy. There are some points I am going to make which might sound unreasonable to some especially those not from a polygamous home.

Like the boy said, the problem started when the fathered married a second wife. I have friends who shared with me their experience coming from a polygamous home and one even mentioned he was never going to marry another woman apart from the only woman in his life even if she can't bear children. There's always jealousy brewing amongst the wives and children from a polygamous family that sometimes they use diabolical means to charm the other wives children to be lesser in respect to their own children.

Remember the line where the boy said he did not know what entered him that faithful day, this is an example to show you he was under the influence of an evil spirit probably done by the second wife or the influence might be from the mother.

Another point is that he mentioned problems started after the dad took another wife and the teenager in particular started having feuds with his dad. He was once close to the dad and after the intake of a new wife, they couldn't stand the sight of each other with him being the first child of the family.

Another suspicious act is the attitude of the mother towards her own son. I understand what the little boy did was a very sinful act and in some traditions, it's a sacrilage but all mothers usually stand by their children whatever the crisis or consequences is. So the mother not visiting him while in custody to stand by him shows an evil force lurking somewhere in that family.

The part that first raced the first red flag in my mind was the boy's assault to the father. The mother saw her little innocent boy stabbing his father and she stood there doing nothing. Other women would scream and call for help or run towards the boy dragging him away from the father but she stood there doing nothing..

So it's either the boy's mother is behind all these because she's angry and jealous with her husband for taking in another wife and she used her first son as the sacrifice for the destruction of the family or the new wife is the problem behind it all..

To all the men and future father's out there. Do not be tempted to take in another wife no matter how wealthy and influencial you are. Women that are jealous can kill and destroy.Polygamy is a curse and it's an old pratice by our ancestors to show/brag to the society how wealthy they were. Stay away from it. My advice.[/b]