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Re: Please Advice A Bed-wetting Nairalander. by kingjoe(m): 1:33am On Jul 09, 2013
Ab025: @op.......see a doc, ASAP.

If ur "bed-wet" is urine at d age of 22, see a doctor.....bt if it is siemen, then it is natural
u mean siemen phone ??isnt it too big,sorry its semen.he clearly stated bed wetting.@op,u hv some good suggestions above.just try it will stop.
Re: Please Advice A Bed-wetting Nairalander. by timilehing(m): 2:50am On Jul 09, 2013
profjustine: Use pampas
Na wa for u o
Re: Please Advice A Bed-wetting Nairalander. by Ivynwa(f): 3:03am On Jul 09, 2013
Poster did not state clearly whether his bedwetting is urine or seminal fluid. Some males that don't know about wetdream(discharge of seminal fluid/sperm while sleeping) may mistake it for bedwetting/urinating on the bed at night.

Poster if what you discharge on your bed is urine, then go with the advise of the person that advised you to use alarm to get your body accustomed to timing suitable for you to pee. You will be surprised at how you will get used to waking up in good time without alarms after 2 or 3 weeks of practising that. If it is seminal fluid/sperm that you discharge, just know that it is a healthy occurence that happen to other male folks too. It is kinda nature's natural way of relieving you of se*xual energy as you said that you are still a virgin.
Re: Please Advice A Bed-wetting Nairalander. by tj4luck(m): 3:53am On Jul 09, 2013
hw ar u little bro. I had d same experience. I wil b 30yr ds aug. i started bed-wetting since day 1 till around 28yr of age. although mine is abt 2 pridicaments i do bed-wet & also an impotent not ordinary though cos i've gone 4 medical check up @ lautech teaching hospital osogbo& nothing ws found amiss. I av been praying to God,looking 4 a solution going frm babalawo to church complaining only abt my being impotent no solution till ds time am comenting. But about my bed-wetting i also dreamed of urrinating on d ground or anywhere whenever it would happen & when i woke up suddenly i found my body wetted i would quicly stand up find some cloths 2 clean up myself sometimes i thought of using rubber band 2 tight up my thing or wearing condom b4 go 2 sleep though never used dt. it got 2 d extent dt i wished myself death & as per how or what i used 2 curb it nothing in particular especially abt ds bed-wetting issue i never used anything 2 curb it cos i could not think of anything as a solution,cud not discuss it with anybdy i only wept in silence& pray 2 overcome it 1 day and i eat & drink d same thing now at anytime in d same way i used 2 then @ anytime. now it's been going 2 almost 2yrs nw nothing has happened 2 me since den i pray u overcome urs 2. And about my being impotent please i've been looking 4 ds medium 2 solicit 4 help. I am still impotent & i av gone 4 medical check up nothing ws missing please if there is any help u can render i wll b gr8ful ppl ar luking @ me to get married. & if u av anything u can help wit, u can call or text 08103507436. 10x
Re: Please Advice A Bed-wetting Nairalander. by texaco1: 4:33am On Jul 09, 2013
tj4luck: hw ar u little bro. I had d same experience. I wil b 30yr ds aug. i started bed-wetting since day 1 till around 28yr of age. although mine is abt 2 pridicaments i do bed-wet & also an impotent not ordinary though cos i've gone 4 medical check up @ lautech teaching hospital osogbo& nothing ws found amiss. I av been praying to God,looking 4 a solution going frm babalawo to church complaining only abt my being impotent no solution till ds time am comenting. But about my bed-wetting i also dreamed of urrinating on d ground or anywhere whenever it would happen & when i woke up suddenly i found my body wetted i would quicly stand up find some cloths 2 clean up myself sometimes i thought of using rubber band 2 tight up my thing or wearing condom b4 go 2 sleep though never used dt. it got 2 d extent dt i wished myself death & as per how or what i used 2 curb it nothing in particular especially abt ds bed-wetting issue i never used anything 2 curb it cos i could not think of anything as a solution,cud not discuss it with anybdy i only wept in silence& pray 2 overcome it 1 day and i eat & drink d same thing now at anytime in d same way i used 2 then @ anytime. now it's been going 2 almost 2yrs nw nothing has happened 2 me since den i pray u overcome urs 2. And about my being impotent please i've been looking 4 ds medium 2 solicit 4 help. I am still impotent & i av gone 4 medical check up nothing ws missing please if there is any help u can render i wll b gr8ful ppl ar luking @ me to get married. & if u av anything u can help wit, u can call or text 08103507436.10x

My guy u have three options
1. Keep the problem to urself
2. Go to church for prayers and deliverance and attack the source of the problem
3. Get a confirmed alfa or woli that will appease the spirits attacking u,the issue which many nigerians are overlooking is that no matter how hard we try to be western we are and will always be africans,my bro originality still dey work for people .
Re: Please Advice A Bed-wetting Nairalander. by omiobo: 4:36am On Jul 09, 2013
adconline:
You didn't offer any help but only prayer. Prayer without GOOD work is in VAIN!
Oga me offer prayer, you offer work. All join
Re: Please Advice A Bed-wetting Nairalander. by adconline(m): 5:17am On Jul 09, 2013
omiobo:
Oga me offer prayer, you offer work. All join
Keep deluding urself!
Re: Please Advice A Bed-wetting Nairalander. by a1solution: 5:35am On Jul 09, 2013
[quote
author=tj4luck]hw ar u little bro. I had d same experience. I wil b
30yr ds aug. i started bed-wetting since day 1 till around 28yr of age.
although mine is abt 2 pridicaments i do bed-wet & also an impotent
not ordinary though cos i've gone 4 medical check up @ lautech teaching
hospital osogbo& nothing ws found amiss. I av been praying to
God,looking 4 a solution going frm babalawo to church complaining only
abt my being impotent no solution till ds time am comenting. But about
my bed-wetting i also dreamed of urrinating on d ground or anywhere
whenever it would happen & when i woke up suddenly i found my body
wetted i would quicly stand up find some cloths 2 clean up myself
sometimes i thought of using rubber band 2 tight up my thing or wearing
condom b4 go 2 sleep though never used dt. it got 2 d extent dt i wished
myself death & as per how or what i used 2 curb it nothing in
particular especially abt ds bed-wetting issue i never used anything 2
curb it cos i could not think of anything as a solution,cud not discuss
it with anybdy i only wept in silence& pray 2 overcome it 1 day and i
eat & drink d same thing now at anytime in d same way i used 2 then
@ anytime. now it's been going 2 almost 2yrs nw nothing has happened 2
me since den i pray u overcome urs 2. And about my being impotent please
i've been looking 4 ds medium 2 solicit 4 help. I am still impotent
& i av gone 4 medical check up nothing ws missing please if there is
any help u can render i wll b gr8ful ppl ar luking @ me to get married.
& if u av anything u can help wit, u can call or text
08103507436.10x[/quote] visit Rapdspell cult and thank me later.
Re: Please Advice A Bed-wetting Nairalander. by omiobo: 5:58am On Jul 09, 2013
adconline:
Keep deluding urself!
Thanks. U too!
Re: Please Advice A Bed-wetting Nairalander. by olamind15(m): 6:34am On Jul 09, 2013
man u nid a spiritual counsel nd a deliverance
Re: Please Advice A Bed-wetting Nairalander. by chukaya: 6:45am On Jul 09, 2013
[quote author=omiobo]I don't know about medical solution to your predicament but I know of a solution which is Prayer. You have the power to bind the forces behind your problem if you have faith.
Try and meet any medical psycologist around u,cos d problem s not spiritual buh psychological
Re: Please Advice A Bed-wetting Nairalander. by DexxyAlebs(m): 6:53am On Jul 09, 2013
While i was much younger they never allowed me take coke, juice or even wine while everybody was taking it close to bedtime it was so embarrasing that after it all most times d deed wld still be done, but until i personally prayed to God and learnt how wake in the middle of d night until then prob never stopped
advice;
reduce water in take at nyt i.e water, juice, coke etc
adjust your sleep pattern i.e u slyp too much?
Pray to God i.e the most important tin and d key to all doors
Re: Please Advice A Bed-wetting Nairalander. by chukaya: 6:55am On Jul 09, 2013
please prayer can do it....buh bed wettin s more of psychological problem nt spiritual ok?
Re: Please Advice A Bed-wetting Nairalander. by tj4luck(m): 7:15am On Jul 09, 2013
texaco1:

My guy u have three options
1. Keep the problem to urself
2. Go to church for prayers and deliverance and attack the source of the problem
3. Get a confirmed alfa or woli that will appease the spirits attacking u,the issue which many nigerians are overlooking is that no matter how hard we try to be western we are and will always be africans,my bro originality still dey work for people .
10x. But u must no it is nt possible 4 me not to av visited any place most jst seem me as a 419 all i nid is how 2 recognise good ALFA,PASTOR or IFA PRIEST. If some1 can jst direct me 2 1 i t wll b vry much appreciated. 08103507436
Re: Please Advice A Bed-wetting Nairalander. by cacadu: 7:15am On Jul 09, 2013
Be it spiritual,psychological or physical problem,here is the solution.find a legion of soldier ant anyday,anytime ,anywhere and pee on them chikena.If you tried it and it does not works,call my number 08088559966.nb,no charges attached.
Re: Please Advice A Bed-wetting Nairalander. by GboyegaD(m): 7:42am On Jul 09, 2013
I will advice you learn to be conscious of waking up every one hour at night to empty your bladder for a start and sooner than you know, your body will adapt. Later you can start increasing the interval till you are able to sleep all night without bed wetting.
Re: Please Advice A Bed-wetting Nairalander. by tfolamy: 8:39am On Jul 09, 2013
Visit Scoan all u need is deliverance.
Re: Please Advice A Bed-wetting Nairalander. by Nobody: 8:41am On Jul 09, 2013
No wonder the Nigerian church business is booming so much. Advising someone that his problem is a spiritual problem. With all these spiritual advises, you'd think that the country would be free from all "abnormalities".
Re: Please Advice A Bed-wetting Nairalander. by krismars(m): 8:51am On Jul 09, 2013
Chrisvicmall: Don't drink water at least 2 hours before your bed time. Before bed time try as much as possible to empty your bladder. On most occasion, it is estimated that the bladder refills every two hours. Get yourself an alarm clock that can blast at two hours interval. After some time your subconscienceness will get use to it which means you won't need the alarm clock anymore.

Try nd Eat b4 8pm,dnt drink too much water before 6pm nd prayer my guy,dnt get urself too tired.
Re: Please Advice A Bed-wetting Nairalander. by texaco1: 8:55am On Jul 09, 2013
masonkz: No wonder the Nigerian church business is booming so much. Advising someone that his problem is a spiritual problem. With all these spiritual advises, you'd think that the country would be free from all "abnormalities".
Which means u are smarter than all those doctors and professors that still visits herbalits and spiritualist for solutions to their health problems?
Re: Please Advice A Bed-wetting Nairalander. by godman01(m): 8:56am On Jul 09, 2013
bellong:

Once you have this type of dream, just jump up out of bed before you unzip our trouser. You can pinch yourself to be sure you are awake.
How do you know either you are awake or still in the dream land. The dream land always looks real.
Re: Please Advice A Bed-wetting Nairalander. by texaco1: 9:04am On Jul 09, 2013
tj4luck: 10x. But u must no it is nt possible 4 me not to av visited any place most jst seem me as a 419 all i nid is how 2 recognise good ALFA,PASTOR or IFA PRIEST. If some1 can jst direct me 2 1 i t wll b vry much appreciated. 08103507436
Unfortunately I am not in nigeria if not I would have directed u to a place in ibadan,the last time I saw the woman was about 5 years ago and she was old then,ppl come to her from as far as uk and usa ,that time I was suffering from a terrible std that was just eating my mummy,she gave me some herbs and my guy believe it ,it all wiped off,most prophets in nigeria now are fake and they will just be telling u stories and collecting money from u,but let me tell u people that can help u.those that have info about confirm traditional doctors or alfas are not those on nl or websites .this was what I did I started talking to local people,real illitrates they are the ones that knows all these ppl but if u rely on ppl here on nl,they will mislead u with their medical jargons.if u see an elderly man that u feel u can approach in secret do so and hear his advice ,those are the kind of ppl that can help
Re: Please Advice A Bed-wetting Nairalander. by texaco1: 9:05am On Jul 09, 2013
godman01:
How do you know either you are awake or still in the dream land. The dream land always looks real.
U dem mind all those over sabi ppl,wey no know anything.
Re: Please Advice A Bed-wetting Nairalander. by Nobody: 9:47am On Jul 09, 2013
texaco1:
Which means u are smarter than all those doctors and professors that still visits herbalits and spiritualist for solutions to their health problems?


You're not getting the point. People don't even know what causes this and the first thing that comes to their mind is "It's Spiritual"!

Funny how people run from herbalists (those that don't even believe in the christian doctrine) to churches (those that don't believe in the herbalist's methods), both of which are enemies of each other, all in a bid to seek an end to a "spiritual solution", cos that's what they've been told is the root of the cause of their problems.

This kind of thinking wouldn't take us anywhere. A pastor would advise you not to continue your treatments for a particular ailment, and months or years later the same thing appears again, only this time, it will be ten times worse. Who's deceiving who?
Re: Please Advice A Bed-wetting Nairalander. by blacbishop0: 9:55am On Jul 09, 2013
i think reduction of the quantity of suger use/can help to reduce bed wetting
Re: Please Advice A Bed-wetting Nairalander. by texaco1: 10:05am On Jul 09, 2013
masonkz:


You're not getting the point. People don't even know what causes this and the first thing that comes to their mind is "It's Spiritual"!

Funny how people run from herbalists (those that don't even believe in the christian doctrine) to churches (those that don't believe in the herbalist's methods), both of which are enemies of each other, all in a bid to seek an end to a "spiritual solution", cos that's what they've been told is the root of the cause of their problems.

This kind of thinking wouldn't take us anywhere. A pastor would advise you not to continue your treatments for a particular ailment, and months or years later the same thing appears again, only this time, it will be ten times worse. Who's deceiving who?
Well I guess we are all entitled to our different opinions.but things are happening
Re: Please Advice A Bed-wetting Nairalander. by alleviate2002us(m): 10:44am On Jul 09, 2013
Anonymous91: exactly. Its always as if i'm in the toilet. Only once have i been tired since this occurences

i have been there before....so many years ago and i know how it feels.

bellong:

Once you have this type of dream, just jump up out of bed before you unzip our trouser. You can pinch yourself to be sure you are awake.

bellong:
it takes an experience to know what that dude is really passing thru. its not as easy as ur saying it. i swear! if he pinches himself 100times it would look so real and he'll wet the bed yet again.
Re: Please Advice A Bed-wetting Nairalander. by eightsin(m): 10:51am On Jul 09, 2013
I don't think dis dude bedwets...mayb wat he is having is wet dreams...he said he is a virgin so i'm just assuming.
Re: Please Advice A Bed-wetting Nairalander. by alleviate2002us(m): 11:01am On Jul 09, 2013
Anonymous91:

Brow, being a virgin has nothin to do with your condition so don't be fooled by anyone.

there has been so many key suggestions as to how you could come around with a solution to your problem and i must say that virtually all the suggestions are lovely....these cues came from Siena, bellong, Havila28, Chrisvicmall, omiobo, and many others i wouldn't be able to mention....#couldn't read thru all the pages abeg.

@OP, you sleep too much!!!! you even sleep walk if i must add. your solution at this stage is more of a psychological one. just like its been earlier suggested you would have to cut your water in-take especially in the evenings. infact stop drinking water or fluid by 6pm and make efforts to sleep late after you must have emptied your bladder *not forgetting your alarm clock beside you*. you could sleep by 10 or 11pm, that way your ride thru dreamland would be not so long before morning.

another thing you need to do is not get yourself sleeping in a cool room. you need the sweat to wake u up when ur pressed too....but if the room is air-conditioned or too cool, you would store enough fluid and still wet the bed even after sleeping late and emptying your bladder plus having ur alarm. avoid focusing the fan (ceiling, standing or table fan) on you before sleeping. Can you try sleeping with the fan switched off?

you already feel bad enough and at this point your problems have been half solved. so don't hate yourself much. rather add some sincere heart felt prayers to the remedies recommended.

i don't know if you need a doctor o! but IMHO its not necessary for now......that should be a last resort since its something you do occasionally.

in addition, find some time to spend the night out of your comfort zone. this would reduce how relaxed you would get when sleeping and help your alertness.

Cheers!!

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Re: Please Advice A Bed-wetting Nairalander. by Realtym(f): 11:07am On Jul 09, 2013
profjustine: Use pampas
Ode!!!
Re: Please Advice A Bed-wetting Nairalander. by JOXY(f): 11:23am On Jul 09, 2013
God bless you Oluwaseun Osewa. You don't know what the good Lord has deposited in you. You are a blessing to our generation.

I also commend those that have contributed sensibly.

@OP and the rest, I say your miracle is around the corner.

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