How are you Jejelola. Am sorry i ve been away, trying to start my own business but God has been my strenght. Drop a line, take care. Have you gone to a orphange

Aisha how u doing? i av nt been able to go there,i'v been busy in skool these days , i will soon, thanks.

Its really a pity, But I have some questions as to understand you better.

(1) You said you were abandoned at the care of your grand parents? Please is it your maternal or paternal, this grand parents of yours, are they in the village or in town because does it mean that your so called parents (be it mum or Dad regarding whose parents you stay with) don't go to see their parents? (2) When your grandma died, didn't they come for the burial or she just died. (3) Don't your parents have sisters and brothers, I mean your Aunty and Uncle, Have you met with them? Since you stay with grand parents, am sure their other children (your aunty and uncle) come visiting them. (4) What have they said about the issue?

Is very bad that they are alive and treat you this way especially your mum, But the truth is that they are still your parents. And no matter how you want to forge ahead with your life, the feelings will still be there, My Dear, I tell you, there are things you have to do in other to have peace. Getting married will not solve that problem completely.

Until I get the answer to the above questions, then I will know what more to say as regards what you may have to do

Its really a pity, But  I have some questions as to understand you better.

(1) You said you were abandoned at the care of your grand parents? Please is it your maternal or paternal, this grand parents of yours, are they in the village or in town because does it mean that your so called parents (be it mum or Dad regarding whose parents you stay with) don't go to see their parents? (2) When your grandma died, didn't they come for the burial or she just died. (3) Don't your parents have sisters and brothers, I mean your Aunty and Uncle, Have you met with them? Since you stay with grand parents, am sure  their other children (your aunty and uncle)  come visiting them. (4) What have they said about the issue?

Is very bad that they are alive and treat you this way especially your mum, But the truth is that they are still your parents. And no matter how you want to forge ahead with your life, the feelings will still be there, My Dear, I tell you, there are things you have to do in other to have peace. Getting married will not solve that problem completely.

Until I get the answer to the above questions, then I will know what more to say as regards what you may have to do

sorry about the stroy take heart one day they will call u back once u did nothing to them

While the story may be very porous I must admit that my heart bleeds for this chic. Only Heaven knows how she survived through these years. There must have been lots of "ways to survive" than the mind can imagine

I really don't know what to tell you. _{*A hug from me*}

aisha2:

If you live in Abuja, i could be your friend and we could hang out together sometime. Take care.

What a sister you are. _{*Hug you too*}

Yea I av been through alot just to survive ,cant depend on grannies all through ,had to look for a way to make it on my own , It really dawned on me when she died that there is no other person left for me than me , and God in heaven,

really sad. . . .how are you doing now jejelola?

@jejelola my heart bleeds for u. i believe u grew up with ur maternal grandparents; quote me wrong if not true. Like someone rightly asked, does it mean ur mum dont visit ur grandma, is ur mum de only child? if she is not then her sister or brother will ve her address. Ur mum dont want to disclose her address in kumasi; hmmm my feelings she didnt tell her hubby she had a child and u visiting will ...... THE LORD IS UR STRENGHT. U will be an influential lady in yrs to come and they wil be de ones looking for u.

@jejelola, how are you doing? have you been able to locate your parents? whats up with you?

Jejeola, hope you are doing good and that everything is working out fine for you?