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For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by oyinbogirl(f): 11:26am On Jul 26, 2013 |
I've been told all African men desire children. I wondered about this, but cant answer it. Over to the guys, are there any out there who dont want or plan on having any kids? And be honest 1 Like |
Re: For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by HARDDON: 11:53am On Jul 26, 2013 |
what would you be living for then? a man's life is centered about his sleek wify and kute kids. take the kids out, and watch da family name wear off. 2) who would take care of you when your bones frail and your heirs grey out? in the western world, you have quality centres that care for the elderly until their time fades off here in Nigeria, it is these kids you say you dont want, that kares for you considering the health facilities' status in 9ja. Please tell me, who in his right senses would not want kute kids. even God said; go and multiply and replenish the earth......you are a great nation, if only you would leave a seed behind to carry on the spread. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by oyinbogirl(f): 12:00pm On Jul 26, 2013 |
nice answer thanks! Dont get me wrong, I wasnt saying ppl shouldnt...i just wondered if there was any African men who dont want...cos mostly everyone loves kids 1 Like |
Re: For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by biolabee(m): 12:30pm On Jul 26, 2013 |
Ok am waiting |
Re: For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by oyinbogirl(f): 12:51pm On Jul 26, 2013 |
biolabee: Ok am waiting what you waiting for friend? Guys to comment? |
Re: For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by DIG1: 1:23pm On Jul 26, 2013 |
Wish not to have children, though I knw it will b difficult to convince a wife wenever I am ready to get married dat I dont want a child. If I get a lady dat will accept, good. If not, will not have more than one. 6 Likes |
Re: For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by biolabee(m): 1:37pm On Jul 26, 2013 |
oyinbogirl: Just like hardon said, a typical afrikan man wants kids So im waiting for the person that does not really care 1 Like |
Re: For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by oyinbogirl(f): 2:27pm On Jul 26, 2013 |
biolabee: yeah me too hope the guys reply! |
Re: For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by oyinbogirl(f): 2:28pm On Jul 26, 2013 |
DIG1: Wish not to have children, though I knw it will b difficult to convince a wife wenever I am ready to get married dat I dont want a child. If I get a lady dat will accept, good. If not, will not have more than one. Wow really? If im not prying can I ask why you made this choice please? |
Re: For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by DIG1: 11:55pm On Jul 26, 2013 |
oyinbogirl:Children are stress, n I avoid stress as possible 2 Likes |
Re: For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by biolabee(m): 12:53am On Jul 27, 2013 |
DIG1: If I may ask are u based in the west, europe or in naija |
Re: For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by Nobody: 2:17am On Jul 27, 2013 |
I want to have a maximum of 3 kids. |
Re: For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by Nobody: 4:58am On Jul 27, 2013 |
CFCfan: I want to have a maximum of 3 kids. See your mouth like max of 3 kids. Na you go carry the belly and give birth to them abi? 5 Likes |
Re: For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by greatgod2012(f): 6:02am On Jul 27, 2013 |
@DIGI; i respect your opinion, may God bless you. The fact is that, if you dont have what it takes to be a parent, like love, care, i mean, the resource that will be used to nurture kids like............;financial resources, emotional resources, time resources,et,al, to take care of kids, its better not to have them, than for you having them, but subjecting or exposing them to life of suffering, as if they come on their own and as if you aint the one who invited them to come. May God help us all. 5 Likes |
Re: For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by LewsTherin: 6:20am On Jul 27, 2013 |
I wouldn't say I don't want kids. But I didn't get married because I want to have children. And any In-Law who bothers me about it should go have their own!!! Am I looking foward to children? Not really. But I am grateful that God will choose me to bring some new life into this world. ...and that is what I am worried about. This world is messed up enough as it is. 5 Likes |
Re: For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by stevecantrell: 11:11am On Jul 27, 2013 |
LewsTherin: I wouldn't say I don't want kids. But I didn't get married because I want to have children. And any In-Law who bothers me about it should go have their own!!! I know where your coming from. If the world is getting more messed up with each passing day, I wonder what kind of world you expect your children to live in by the time they're 10 yrs old. Sometimes I wonder if they wouldn't ask me one day " Dad, why did you bring us into this mess ? I don't remember asking for this.." 8 Likes |
Re: For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by biolabee(m): 12:15pm On Jul 27, 2013 |
LewsTherin: I wouldn't say I don't want kids. But I didn't get married because I want to have children. And any In-Law who bothers me about it should go have their own!!! The world has been messed up from time immemorial Na today people dey poke man nyansh - sodom n Gomorrah Na today org.ies dey happen - roman empire Na today immorality full ground - Noah's flood Na today embezzlement dey- judas wey dey with jesus steal money This world is a stream n we are in it for a time. Its ur impact in that time that you should focus on If you have kids, train them and God will bless your efforts 3 Likes |
Re: For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by sholay2011(m): 3:54pm On Jul 27, 2013 |
biolabee:Bro, LewsTherin has a point. In as much as the world has been filled with all sort of vices even before our existence; it's nothing compared to the evil of now and the doom that awaits in the future. The next generation need extra grace to be upright amidst what the world has turned into. 1 Like |
Re: For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by biolabee(m): 4:14pm On Jul 27, 2013 |
sholay2011: Ok.. but dont forget no be today dem write kama sutra 2 Likes |
Re: For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by Princesszoe: 4:46pm On Jul 27, 2013 |
God bless you. greatgod2012:God bless you. You simply cannot give your children what you do not have. If you are too lazy, you cannot give speed to them. If you are immoral, you cannot give morality to them. If your ideology is falsehood, you cannot impact truth in them. Look around , and see that many children are worst than their parents. These are the offsprings/seeds we call leaders of tomorrow. Children learn from the parents behaviour and not really from what they say. They listen to their mothers to hear what she calls or says about their fathers and it will take a new turn on them if they ever hear their mother saying that their father once cheated or stole or a fraudster or cruel. Same can happen when they hear from their father that their mom was once a prostitute, a witch, a fighter. Parents should becareful. LewsTherin: I wouldn't say I don't want kids. But I didn't get married because I want to have children. And any In-Law who bothers me about it should go have their own!!! greatgod2012: @DIGI; i respect your opinion, may God bless you.God bless you. You simply cannot give your children what you do not have. If you are too lazy, you cannot give speed to them. If you are immoral, you cannot give morality to them. If your ideology is falsehood, you cannot impact truth in them. Look around , and see that many children are worst than their parents. These are the offsprings/seeds we call leaders of tomorrow. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by DIG1: 9:49pm On Jul 27, 2013 |
greatgod2012: @DIGI; i respect your opinion, may God bless you.My friends abt my age are married with kids, but truth be told, I don't have the emotional resources to have a wife not to talk of having kids. though dat is for now, if later in life I am able to build some emotional resources, will give it a thought. 7 Likes |
Re: For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by oyinbogirl(f): 4:50am On Jul 28, 2013 |
DIG1: You have maturity to see this aspect in yourself, very wise.. may all go well with you 2 Likes |
Re: For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by biolabee(m): 7:04am On Jul 28, 2013 |
DIG1: Dear dig, youve not responded to the earlier questions |
Re: For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by LewsTherin: 7:45am On Jul 28, 2013 |
When I consider my schedule and that of my wife, it will not be fair on me to make her take on the extra responsibility of pregnancy. At least not until things are a little more settled (we just changed cities). Then when the kids come, can we give them the attention they deserve? Then I have to consider the financial implications. My health insurance requires a period before it covers ante-natal and delivery. I'm not gonna subject my family to worries about how we'll cope. Having children is a gift and a responsibility. Anyone who jumps into it without proper planning should be flogged! If you do not consider the unique circumstances of each family before children, you are simply shifting your responsibility. Very reprehensible! As for the go-forth-and-multiply group, the world never multiply reach, abi? 7 Likes |
Re: For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by jmoore(m): 8:03am On Jul 28, 2013 |
No, I want kids. |
Re: For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by DIG1: 2:03pm On Jul 28, 2013 |
biolabee:Abj, Nigeria for now |
Re: For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by biolabee(m): 7:11pm On Jul 28, 2013 |
DIG1: Cool, though u have some western leanings in this But at least you are true to urself |
Re: For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by dowjones(m): 11:40pm On Aug 06, 2013 |
I dont want kids, i dont have the emotional fortitude or tolerance to deal with them. I've grown to habour fatal hate for my dad and it will be a shame if i let my kids have that for me. My decision is not an act of selfishness but a slefless act of love to my unborn children. I will save them from coming to this wicked world and living with an emotionally dead father. 6 Likes |
Re: For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by dayokanu(m): 1:51am On Aug 07, 2013 |
Are there Africans male or female who dont want kids? |
Re: For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by basisop(m): 12:39am On Aug 11, 2013 |
LewsTherin: When I consider my schedule and that of my wife, it will not be fair on me to make her take on the extra responsibility of pregnancy. At least not until things are a little more settled (we just changed cities). Then when the kids come, can we give them the attention they deserve? Then I have to consider the financial implications. My health insurance requires a period before it covers ante-natal and delivery. I'm not gonna subject my family to worries about how we'll cope. My friend go and make babies with your wife before another man does it for you. Remember the DNA revelation not long ago. |
Re: For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by tintingz(m): 1:41am On Aug 11, 2013 |
SMH for some peeps in this thread... You don't want kids and yet you walk freely and happy on earth as if you jump from heaven to earth This world is really changing... |
Re: For The Guys : Do Any Of You NOT Want Children? by MrsChima(f): 2:35am On Aug 11, 2013 |
It's not by force to have children. The world is overpopulated with pikins. 2 Likes |
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