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Re: Pastor Refuses To Perform Ceremony Because Of Bride’s ‘Sexy Dress’ by lastpage: 3:02pm On Aug 13, 2013
l dont like Pastors to be "acting like they are a kind of Gawd"!
Sounds more like an abuse of privilege, which pastoring really is.
Some of these Pastors are so "power-drunk" that they want to control every single aspect of your life...

...You must take permission from them or your wife must first seek their consent before she allows you to sleep with her!
shocked shocked
Very interfering bast.a,rds! grin grin

Having said that, l also think that we "floor members" need to respect ourselves!
As a christian, MODERATION IN ALL WE DO must be our watch word!

What is even thi madness about women with exposingtheir Bre.a.st to public view?
I know its your br.e.ast but please, let us know the difference between a prosti,tute ...and a wife!

Exposing your cleavage does not make a woman more beautiful or attractive in my own opinion.
When ever l see women doing that, l think of them as "shallow and vain", ... with nothing upstairs to offer than mere "flesh"
!

BTW: She was not even a member of that church, why cant she do her wedding in her own church?
Every Tom and Harry loves church wedding but tell them to live according to Bible standards, they will start yarning trash about their "personal rights"?
Or "rent a Pastor"? grin grin grin

I go die ooooo! ****falls down and roll on the floor****

From a "moral perspective", pimping Pastor is right on this one.
Mind you, l said moral, not "spiritual perspective", which has nothing to do with your 'outward appearance'
.

Lastpage!

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Re: Pastor Refuses To Perform Ceremony Because Of Bride’s ‘Sexy Dress’ by Nobody: 3:03pm On Aug 13, 2013
kulyie: Both the officiating minister,bride and groom where all wrong and ill point it out one by one in order of who is more at fault



bride:if that was the dress she wore and she probably is a bursty kind of person,then i can understand the pastors anger.this is not to say what the pastor did was right but for goodness sakes how can you wear one yard of white material on your own wedding day when its not as if you are going to club or youre a hooker.even if you have fvked 5oo men,pretend to be a saint for that one day even if some of your friends or family members who are guests in your wedding know your sexual history ( the highest they can do is gossip behind your back and saying they pity the man that is about to eat the remenants of other guys).that outfit is completely inappropriate for going to someones wedding talkless of you own wedding. You are portraying yourself as a slut.would you like your kids to see your wedding pics 1o years after your marriage and say mummy why did you dress like this or you dont want your inlaws cousins or people to be like or refer to you in their discussion like that johns wife,that dressed like a prostitute on her wedding day.remember.such memories stick to peoples head just the same way a memory of when my brother and i went for his friends wedding and the brides breast were free for all,the only covered place was her nipples and during the dancing,the pins that she used to hook the sides of her gown fell off and before they could say jack robinson,the whole world saw what her breasts looked like and anytime my brother wants to refer to her,he is always like,remember that my friends wedding we went for that we saw all her breast.i am sure no woman wants that.






Groom:why cant you check the outfit your bride was to wear on her wedding day if you know the kind of person your wife is or how can you tell me you dont know what your wife is capable of doing for months or years of courtship.during the period your wife was choosing her bridal gown couldnt you have called or sent a text to remind her of getting something decent.isnt she embarassing you in the presence of your parents,siblings and family members with the kind of white rag she is putting on :/ oko iyawo




Pastor: oluso agutan shocked what is your buisness with what another mans wife is putting on..you should know you are crossing the line when you are telling another mans wife that where is the remaining part of her dress.your buisness is with your wife and daughter.join the couple and leave the rest to God





mother of the bride and mother of the groom : eyin iya ati iya oko na wa for una o.your daughter bought a bridal gown and you couldnt even check it out or ask lagbaja where is your wedding gown,bring it i want to see it so that if it is rag,she will quickly go and change it before the the day.then as for the mother of the bride,it shows how well you trained your child and how much morals you impacted on her for her to choose that kind of whorish piece of thrash






sister inlaws and sisters: eyin iya oko kekere,una try o.una no fit abuse am for private before she go disgrace herself outside on her wedding day like that.hian.wetin una dey look when she bring that kain cloth for house shocked i trust shewa,my sister bride will not sleep in that house that day till she goes and returns that cloth.so you want to disgrace me in front of my friends so that after the wedding they can be gossiping about me e.g what kind of useless family is that.the sisters cannot even say anything.look at the embarassing cloth the bride wore as if they dont have money to buy proper wedding gown.olorun maje:/




Are you ok ?

If your papa be pastor, make him join man and wife wey come church wearing only pant..
Re: Pastor Refuses To Perform Ceremony Because Of Bride’s ‘Sexy Dress’ by Badguyz: 3:06pm On Aug 13, 2013
iamlegend:



http://www.americapreachers.com/christian-news/pastor-refuses-to-perform-ceremony-because-of-brides-sexy-dress/

For my candid opinion, I feel there is something as too much. I'd say the pastor overdid it. He could have just proceeded with the wedding with a stern warning or something...for Heaven's sake, it's the happiest day of her life...

I'm sorry, when you say she should have been let off with a stern warning, do you mean "go for now, but i won't let you repeat this crap in your next wedding?"...just wondering!.
Re: Pastor Refuses To Perform Ceremony Because Of Bride’s ‘Sexy Dress’ by Nobody: 3:07pm On Aug 13, 2013
lastpage: l dont like Pastors to be "acting like they are a kind of Gawd"!
Sounds more like an abuse of privilege, which pastoring really is.
Some of these Pastors are so "power-drunk" that they want to control every single aspect of your life...

...You must take permission from them or your wife must first seek their consent before she allows you to sleep with her!
shocked shocked
Very interfering bast.a,rds! grin grin

Having said that, l also think that we "floor members" need to respect ourselves!
As a christian, MODERATION IN ALL WE DO must be our watch word!

What is even thi madness about women with exposingtheir Bre.a.st to public view?
I know its your br.e.ast but please, let us know the difference between a prosti,tute ...and a wife!

Exposing your cleavage does not make a woman more beautiful or attractive in my own opinion.
When ever l see women doing that, l think of them as "shallow and vain", ... with nothing upstairs to offer than mere "flesh"
!

BTW: She was not even a member of that church, why cant she do her wedding in her own church?
Every Tom and Harry loves church wedding but tell them to live according to Bible standards, they will start yarning trash about their "personal rights"?
Or "rent a Pastor"? grin grin grin

I go die ooooo! ****falls down and roll on the floor****

Lastpage!

Epilepsy
Re: Pastor Refuses To Perform Ceremony Because Of Bride’s ‘Sexy Dress’ by Nobody: 3:09pm On Aug 13, 2013
is dis a gown? Maybe dis is d inner dress 2 b used on d wedding nyt.
Re: Pastor Refuses To Perform Ceremony Because Of Bride’s ‘Sexy Dress’ by gazilion: 3:20pm On Aug 13, 2013
"I believe this pastor did the right thing. He wasn't rude... he gave them multiple chances to add to the dress. Its His right to honor God the way he sees fit. People come to church with different ideas, but purposeful pornography should never be celebrated. Accidents, mistakes, and "wardrobe malfunctions" are one thing, but purposeful lewdness is very different.

What did you expect from a ministry called "The Truth Ministries Holiness Church?"

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Re: Pastor Refuses To Perform Ceremony Because Of Bride’s ‘Sexy Dress’ by Pennywise(m): 3:26pm On Aug 13, 2013
If this american story is true, then it has to be a 'black pastor' in a church for black people.
Re: Pastor Refuses To Perform Ceremony Because Of Bride’s ‘Sexy Dress’ by nedu2000(m): 3:43pm On Aug 13, 2013
homesteady: Menh!! this pastor should send me his account number!! He deserves a gift for this act!
Good radiance to bad rubbish
it's a UBA acct .....make I send the full details grin
Re: Pastor Refuses To Perform Ceremony Because Of Bride’s ‘Sexy Dress’ by lastpage: 3:57pm On Aug 13, 2013
okpara ugo:

Epilepsy


Sure,... ..."with you and your household"!
Somebori shout Ameen! shocked

Ameen,... and so shall it be! wink wink kiss kiss

Lastpage!
Re: Pastor Refuses To Perform Ceremony Because Of Bride’s ‘Sexy Dress’ by Nobody: 3:58pm On Aug 13, 2013
Aizebioje: What the hell were they all thinking?

That Pastor is a Godly braved nigga. I must recommend him! If all our pastors can stand to this sanity, even our clubs will be found with decent dresses let alone that crap up there called 'wedding gown'.

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Re: Pastor Refuses To Perform Ceremony Because Of Bride’s ‘Sexy Dress’ by switch360(f): 4:07pm On Aug 13, 2013
not good
Re: Pastor Refuses To Perform Ceremony Because Of Bride’s ‘Sexy Dress’ by Fatduke: 4:11pm On Aug 13, 2013
It is great to read our Post against this dressing. How can a normal Human beign wish to be nude on her so called Happies Day? Kudos to the Pastor.

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Re: Pastor Refuses To Perform Ceremony Because Of Bride’s ‘Sexy Dress’ by WIMUNR(m): 4:14pm On Aug 13, 2013
Imagine the wedding was to hold at a Deeper life church embarassed I would have loved to see the look on the Pastor's face grin
Kudos to the Pastor for maintaining his stance though, more so in an "American Society"

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Re: Pastor Refuses To Perform Ceremony Because Of Bride’s ‘Sexy Dress’ by Okeikpu(m): 4:15pm On Aug 13, 2013
Dis iz nothing to compare with wat most ladies r wearing on their wedding day. Dis is d reason muslims tie dem up with wrappers, because any slight chance u give dem, they wud walk naked on d street.
Re: Pastor Refuses To Perform Ceremony Because Of Bride’s ‘Sexy Dress’ by ugotuf(m): 4:18pm On Aug 13, 2013
Continue in this thy might pastor, God is happy with you.

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Re: Pastor Refuses To Perform Ceremony Because Of Bride’s ‘Sexy Dress’ by smajatt(m): 4:18pm On Aug 13, 2013
homesteady: Menh!! this pastor should send me his account number!! He deserves a gift for this act!
Good radiance to bad rubbish



nedu2000: it's a UBA acct .....make I send the full details grin


buhahahahahahahahaha lolsss menh u guys fit kill person
Re: Pastor Refuses To Perform Ceremony Because Of Bride’s ‘Sexy Dress’ by adaptor4all: 4:21pm On Aug 13, 2013
I actually thought d op was sensible..or do we read articles to b fooled??..d story is utter nonsense..or is dis d new trend of blogging,typing lies??
Re: Pastor Refuses To Perform Ceremony Because Of Bride’s ‘Sexy Dress’ by Okeikpu(m): 4:26pm On Aug 13, 2013
Harbioollah: Wait o. Is that a wedding dress?
na so i see am, na dem dey corrupt our ladies sad soon dem go dey wear only pants waka on d street
Re: Pastor Refuses To Perform Ceremony Because Of Bride’s ‘Sexy Dress’ by neutrotoba(m): 4:26pm On Aug 13, 2013
priscaoge: The Pastor went too far,haba he would have warned them when he saw the so called "Half Dress" she was putting on,he should have told them that if dats wat τ̲̅ђe lady is gonna wear,then no wedding instead of asking τ̲̅ђe remaining part of τ̲̅ђe dress. Seriously its not funny. Τ̲̅ђe happiest day of their lives α̲̅πϑ U̶̲̥̅̊ toiled with it? Its really really painful.
if you were the pator, i know you would have preferred she came naked!!! why do you all think the church can be defiled by whoever it pleases? no islamic cleric would conduct marriage for a woman not covering her head talk-less of wearing this kind of rag, it's Christianity bro not nudism
Re: Pastor Refuses To Perform Ceremony Because Of Bride’s ‘Sexy Dress’ by Nobody: 4:31pm On Aug 13, 2013
okpara ugo:

Are you ok ?

If your papa be pastor, make him join man and wife wey come church wearing only pant..
i am perfectly ok.i have pointed out where all of them are at fault.wetin concern pastor fot the matter
Re: Pastor Refuses To Perform Ceremony Because Of Bride’s ‘Sexy Dress’ by Nobody: 4:32pm On Aug 13, 2013
neutrotoba: if you were the pator, i know you would have preferred she came naked!!! why do you all think the church can be defiled by whoever it pleases? no islamic cleric would conduct marriage for a woman not covering her head talk-less of wearing this kind of rag, it's Christianity bro not nudism
gbam.infact from the congregation,you go don dey hear awuzubilayi
Re: Pastor Refuses To Perform Ceremony Because Of Bride’s ‘Sexy Dress’ by Nobody: 4:42pm On Aug 13, 2013
lastpage: l dont like Pastors to be "acting like they are a kind of Gawd"!
Sounds more like an abuse of privilege, which pastoring really is.
Some of these Pastors are so "power-drunk" that they want to control every single aspect of your life...

...You must take permission from them or your wife must first seek their consent before she allows you to sleep with her!
shocked shocked
Very interfering bast.a,rds! grin grin

Having said that, l also think that we "floor members" need to respect ourselves!
As a christian, MODERATION IN ALL WE DO must be our watch word!

What is even thi madness about women with exposingtheir Bre.a.st to public view?
I know its your br.e.ast but please, let us know the difference between a prosti,tute ...and a wife!

Exposing your cleavage does not make a woman more beautiful or attractive in my own opinion.
When ever l see women doing that, l think of them as "shallow and vain", ... with nothing upstairs to offer than mere "flesh"
!

BTW: She was not even a member of that church, why cant she do her wedding in her own church?
Every Tom and Harry loves church wedding but tell them to live according to Bible standards, they will start yarning trash about their "personal rights"?
Or "rent a Pastor"? grin grin grin

I go die ooooo! ****falls down and roll on the floor****

From a "moral perspective", pimping Pastor is right on this one.
Mind you, l said moral, not "spiritual perspective", which has nothing to do with your 'outward appearance'
.

Lastpage!
gbam.1 million likes
Re: Pastor Refuses To Perform Ceremony Because Of Bride’s ‘Sexy Dress’ by Nobody: 4:43pm On Aug 13, 2013
kulyie: Both the
officiating minister,bride and groom where all wrong and ill point it
out one by one in order of who is more at fault



bride:if that was the dress she wore and she probably is a bursty kind
of person,then i can understand the pastors anger.this is not to say
what the pastor did was right but for goodness sakes how can you wear
one yard of white material on your own wedding day when its not as if
you are going to club or youre a hooker.even if you have fvked 5oo
men,pretend to be a saint for that one day even if some of your
friends or family members who are guests in your wedding know your
sexual history ( the highest they can do is gossip behind your back and
saying they pity the man that is about to eat the remenants of other
guys).that outfit is completely inappropriate for going to someones
wedding talkless of you own wedding. You are portraying yourself as a
slut.would you like your kids to see your wedding pics 1o years after
your marriage and say mummy why did you dress like this or you dont want
your inlaws cousins or people to be like or refer to you in their
discussion like that johns wife,that dressed like a prostitute on her
wedding day.remember.such memories stick to peoples head just the same
way a memory of when my brother and i went for his friends wedding and
the brides breast were free for all,the only covered place was her
nipples and during the dancing,the pins that she used to hook the sides
of her gown fell off and before they could say jack robinson,the whole
world saw what her breasts looked like and anytime my brother wants to
refer to her,he is always like,remember that my friends wedding we went
for that we saw all her breast.i am sure no woman wants that.






Groom:why cant you check the outfit your bride was to wear on her
wedding day if you know the kind of person your wife is or how can you
tell me you dont know what your wife is capable of doing for months or
years of courtship.during the period your wife was choosing her bridal
gown couldnt you have called or sent a text to remind her of getting
something decent.isnt she embarassing you in the presence of your
parents,siblings and family members with the kind of white rag she is
putting on :/ oko iyawo




Pastor: oluso agutan shocked what is your buisness with what another
mans wife is putting on..you should know you are crossing the line when
you are telling another mans wife that where is the remaining part of
her dress.your buisness is with your wife and daughter.join the couple
and leave the rest to God





mother of the bride and mother of the groom : eyin iya ati iya oko na wa
for una o.your daughter bought a bridal gown and you couldnt even check
it out or ask lagbaja where is your wedding gown,bring it i want to see
it so that if it is rag,she will quickly go and change it before the
the day.then as for the mother of the bride,it shows how well you
trained your child and how much morals you impacted on her for her to
choose that kind of whorish piece of thrash






sister inlaws and sisters: eyin iya oko kekere,una try o.una no fit
abuse am for private before she go disgrace herself outside on her
wedding day like that.hian.wetin una dey look when she bring that kain
cloth for house shocked i trust shewa,my sister bride will not sleep in that
house that day till she goes and returns that cloth.so you want to
disgrace me in front of my friends so that after the wedding they can be
gossiping about me e.g what kind of useless family is that.the sisters
cannot even say anything.look at the embarassing cloth the bride wore as
if they dont have money to buy proper wedding gown.olorun
maje:/

U think all pastors are money-driven and immoral supporter like urs?
Re: Pastor Refuses To Perform Ceremony Because Of Bride’s ‘Sexy Dress’ by Nobody: 4:44pm On Aug 13, 2013
Okeikpu: Dis iz nothing to compare with wat most ladies r wearing on their wedding day. Dis is d reason muslims tie dem up with wrappers, because any slight chance u give dem, they wud walk naked on d street.
use the word SOME ladies.hasty generalizations are signs of a mediocre :/
Re: Pastor Refuses To Perform Ceremony Because Of Bride’s ‘Sexy Dress’ by Nobody: 4:48pm On Aug 13, 2013
RedBenson:

U think all pastors all money-driven and immorals like urs? never
when typing,exercise your brain.did i say the one yard rag the bride wore was right.did i say anything like bribing the pastors.take it or leave it,all parties i listed there are wrong,full stop,i will not blame only the bride because it is not only the bride that makes up the wedding,however she has major percent fault :/
Re: Pastor Refuses To Perform Ceremony Because Of Bride’s ‘Sexy Dress’ by Nobody: 4:48pm On Aug 13, 2013
kulyie: i am perfectly ok.i have pointed out where all of them are at fault. wetin concern pastor for the matter

Sharaaaaap there! U daughter of immorality. U think all pastors are advocates of indecency? Join what?
Re: Pastor Refuses To Perform Ceremony Because Of Bride’s ‘Sexy Dress’ by Nobody: 5:03pm On Aug 13, 2013
kulyie: when typing,exercise your brain.did i say the one yard rag the bride wore was right.did i say anything like bribing the pastors.take it or leave it,all parties i listed there are wrong,full stop,i will not blame only the bride because it is not only the bride that makes up the wedding,however she has major percent fault :/

In your sense of morality, why should you support the pastor to join the intended-couple inspite of her ungodly dress?
Re: Pastor Refuses To Perform Ceremony Because Of Bride’s ‘Sexy Dress’ by Nobody: 5:13pm On Aug 13, 2013
Bébé! I will perform the ceremony.
Re: Pastor Refuses To Perform Ceremony Because Of Bride’s ‘Sexy Dress’ by duruh: 5:22pm On Aug 13, 2013
Haba pastor, if God were to be that hard on you will u like it?
Atleast u should have just been flexible and conduct the wedding after wc you pass a strong warding to those who are yet to wed.
Ah, if God were man, life would have been more bitter than aloe vera plant.
Baba God thank you 4who you are!
Re: Pastor Refuses To Perform Ceremony Because Of Bride’s ‘Sexy Dress’ by emmabest2000(m): 5:25pm On Aug 13, 2013
fr3do: Fabricated story
G B A M
Re: Pastor Refuses To Perform Ceremony Because Of Bride’s ‘Sexy Dress’ by akpanbaba: 5:26pm On Aug 13, 2013
From various comments one can easily spot those who have no respect for God in their dressing.Some even try to teach the pastor his job.I dont know why some christians prefer to take narrow way that ends in destruction.If the pastor had wedded them ,he would have been called names.

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