Av waited a long while for this special moment ... I didn't presume or imagine , it will be this year ....I bumped into one of my ex, one lovely morning i was about to head to the bank , but this time i decided to take Okada instead of driving down, just want to feel the cool natural breeze touching my face, as the okada man drives off... in the process of waiting for bike, someone called my name , i looked at the direction, i saw a white massive jeep with tinted glass, the glass slides down , and wow, my ex is the one driving , looking so confident , cool, with all smiles, beckoning on me to come. i was like wow! i walked across the road, hopped in, and i was like, what happend to you? youve changed ... he smiled and said its God ooo.... i was like, hmmm nice one...he told me the biz he is into, we talked for a while, then .he dropped me off at the bank, we exchanged numbers again. fixed a date for an outing... on our date, we talked about the past, and our mistakes, especially mine .... i apologised... he said its ok, he understands, and that he tried getting engaged when i left , but the engagement didnt work out, everything was just so wrong and he was always comparing me , with his ex fiance, that she got tired and fedup, and just left him one fateful day , with his ring... Other relationships, were just not right, until he met me that day, i was about to take a bike...and all the feelings came back all over again...am glad he has really achieved considerably well , during past 5yrs, we had a breakup.
He looked more matured, confident, and bold... .....my Reason in the past, was that i wasn't ready, and I felt I had to whole time in the whole world to relax and just enjoy the relationship, but he wanted marriage @ that point , so I had to withdraw from him and drift into a world of my own.. Thank God , we met last month after 5yrs.. Av also done pretty well for myself too.. We both liked what we are seeing through each other nw... He proposed last nite @ Sheraton ..with misty eyes of love and adoration.... And I whispered Yes, I will marry you....he looked at me, smiled and says thank you, my dear... U won't regret this decision ....I promise to make u happy and fulfilled .

Am so happy.... We are planning to getting a new home, before the marriage proceedings .... I can't even sleep.... At last, av met my match in everything.

Thank you , Lord.

Aww! Sounds like true love! Congrats!!

God will permanent your joy IJN ... I'm happy for you Amelia... Aren't you the lady whose relatives convinced not to buy a car but you eventually did?

Two Family section wedding on the way by God's grace..

So the rock.. Carats?? yeah amebo things

Congrats lady!!

Sounds good.

But aint you rushing things up a bit?

You've been apart for 5 years, a lot would have changed.

You might be walking into marriage with a "familiar stranger"!

Hopefully if he is a sincere man, all will be well.

Ar u sure ur hubby is also happy abt dis , dis 1 wey u dey happy say u r getn married, u don comit wn u dey smal abi..... Anyway gud 4 u

Congrats to you.

Me thinks the guy is desperate sha. You left him because you' were not ready, and 5 years later he comes cruising in a white jeep, you're all lovey dovey. Please don't leave him when the going gets tough, for anything.

You were not ready some years ago and he comes cruising in a white jeep and you're ready.
I'll ask you thread with caution.He may not be the guy you knew 5yrs ago.Guys can really change.

Wish u the best in your endeavours.

Congratulations.

Congrat to you. But pls why can't you guys slow down for a sec; why the rush huh, u hv not set ur eyes on him for 5yrs, he came bke looking radiant, b4 you ascept his proposal, why can't you run some underground check?. Why i'm saying these is, not all that glitters it Gold. In all you hv made ur choice, i wish you well..

Congrats to you Amelian.
I have always wish for an end to your relationship problems, thank God your true life partner has finaly reunite with you.

I dont think there is going to be any problem with this, not even do i think he might be a changed person as stated by some of the posters, since he was the one who wanted you both to settle down earlier but you refuse it because you were afraid, now both of you are more matured than before, so i believe your union will be perfect.

And you also said he tried other relationship which did not work out for him until he find you again.
now here is the thing, both of you have to open up to each other about the relatoinships you have been into in the five years of seperation. Inorder to clear things up. And if there is anyone that still have any unclear relationship with anyone, you or he should cut such relationship off.

I wish you a successful marriage life. And dont forget to keep us posted with the wedding.

Congratulations to you...

Prior to tying the knot, you should separate quality time to discussing issues that may affect the union. I want to believe you understand what I mean. To avoid stories that touch, settle most of the matters now.

Finally, I wish you commit everything in prayers and do not taking a major decision with emotional sentiments...


It is well with you

Congrats and good luck cos you sure gonna need it. nuff said

amielia,shebi you would make me ashebi

It seems the op is dreaming. Wake up gal.
You left him years ago because he wasn't finacially stable and now that he rides a big SUV, you are fawning all over him, willing to marry him. Anyway, I hope it turns out well for you.

The men are jealous that you've been taken.. Ride on lady

My dear nlders , thanks.... Am happy.... And really he has not changed in character o.... Just more confident , that's all... With credible businesses , he is doing.... Av done a background check on him. his biz is legit... and we both have a mutual family friend, that wants us back together...
We are going for house hunting this week... He says I fits his status .....
Am not really aso Ebi person. But my aunties won't allow me to rest on that aspect....The IV is coming up soon....

Thanks everyone

@ jaybee.... Cool

@ jidegirl, yes am the one o......But I bought it anyways... Tired of waiting @ bus stops.... And it's so convenient going to work with it...
Thank God, I followed my mind... Babes, if u can afford a car, pls buy one ... It saves a lot of stress , especially on raining days.

Amelian: My dear nlders , thanks.... Am happy.... And really he has not changed in character o.... Just more confident , that's all... With credible businesses , he is doing.... Av done a background check on him. his biz is legit... and we both have a mutual family friend, that wants us back together...
We are going for house hunting this week... He says I fits his status .....
Am not really aso Ebi person. But my aunties won't allow me to rest on that aspect....The IV is coming up soon....

Thanks everyone

. . . I just hope you are marrying him for the right reasons. Congrats anyways.

hahaha
amelie chop awoof o, who nor know go know
awoof dey run belle, who nor know go know...

Thanks for highlighting.... Yea, I am.... ... Marriage is all about understanding , support, love and respect between couples.. Av dated guys that wanted to suck me dry, cos I look comfortable ....even when they work .... At least , lemme spend the rest of my life, with someone who is ready to add into my life, and can stand on their own and not be a pest..trust me, I know what am saying...and I sure value what I have now.

BoboYekini: hahaha
amelie chop awoof o, who nor know go know
awoof dey run belle, who nor know go know...

Lol.... Not this one o

Amelian:



Lol.... Not this one o

awww, I love your sense of humor. And for that reason..(drumroll)...I wish you all of the very best darling.

Thanks dear

Amelian: Thanks for highlighting.... Yea, I am.... ... Marriage is all about understanding , support, love and respect between couples.. Av dated guys that wanted to suck me dry, cos I look comfortable ....even when they work .... At least , lemme spend the rest of my life, with someone who is ready to add into my life, and can stand on their own and not be a pest..trust me, I know what am saying...and I sure value what I have now.

Well, your previous posts made it look like you were only interested in the highlighted points cos you went on and on about those. But now that you have explained. . . Congrats again.

Amelian: Hello everyone... Pls kindly read through my scenario. Babes, lets assume uv worked so hard in some years time, saved yourself some cash and rewarded yourselves with a nice cute car of your choice. Then along your bumpy ride through life , you met a guy not too long ago, say last 3weeks... Wooing u , like crazy ...talking about love and seeing both of your future together , in a space of 3weeks... U played along, at least, there's no risk in trying a new relationship... Then, one fateful evening, your bf says that he's so stressed taking bus and okadas, that pls can he share using your car with u?... As in, u drive to work,in the morning then he takes the car keys from u , after uv parked and drive off to sort out his business errands, then will drop the car at your house, when he's done for the day..
As a babe,, what will be your response? Will u give him the car keys
Or as a guy, will u give your babe your car keys?

Pls sincere answers from the depths of our Hearts....
Thanks.

Amelian: Thank you, Izukwu... God bless you...and he's making me feel like a bad person, not giving him d keys...cause he claims to love so much....

Pls more response will be appreciated.

Amelian: f

I feel the relationship has just started... Some guys are something else these days... And I don't trust blindly.. Not with what av actually worked hard for... And it's for my comfort, and also for my unborn kids, when I do get married ... Not for a bf , nah ...afterall , av dated few guys in the past who had cars, and trust they don't joke with their cars.... They protect their keys like a bank.. So why shud I joke with mine

Same guy ?

jay bee:






Same guy ?

Your story is leaky. Same guy, yea? have you considered marriage counseling, by the way? Its very helpful, I tell you.

Again, shey this your bobo isn't desperate, him with the legit biz and white cruiser and all? Please do aso ebi o, I'll buy and attend. In fact, I'll pm you for details

Congrats!!....

(I won't venture into the darker side of my opinions today )

Oildichotomy^:
The men are jealous that you've been taken.. Ride on lady

We men wey dey talk e get wetin we know.Don't you know you ladies make decisions mainly cos of emotions which often fails you?

Amelian:
@ jidegirl, yes am the one o......But I bought it anyways... Tired of waiting @ bus stops.... And it's so convenient going to work with it...
Thank God, I followed my mind... Babes, if u can afford a car, pls buy one ... It saves a lot of stress , especially on raining days.

I hear you.

You owe nobody no explanation....Follow your guts, that's all I can say.. I wish you all the best.

Something is just not right here. But anyway its just about choice. If this is who you want then I wish you all the best life has to offer. Happy married life