My fellow nairalanders,i want you to share with me this view of love.I have come to realise that falling in love is like a damage to onces life most expecially when the love happens to be on one side.Wouldn't it be beter for everyone to mingle for passion instead of love.I have come to realise that a man who is in love will never leave a stable life.LOVE IS WICKED.I want you so share if you really aggree with me on this one

Love can hurt but that's only because it feels so good while it lasts.

Many of our grandparents had marriages that were not based on love. I often think it would be much easier to make those work. But then, without love, life is dry.

Sometimes but most times it is just too messed up!!

Uzzyan,I strongly agree with you on that .mostly the love we practice here in nigeria is just too messed up.I LOVE THAT

how can you say love is wicked. it can hurt but it is not wicked. love can conquer all and is the strongest emotion. there is nothing better than being in love with someone that you love back.

As Magic love said my dear Onyii, In naija here it is just too hellish but u are over there and will only be able to describe it in ur own way which is that of the whites.

Uzzyan:

As Magic love said my dear Onyii, In naija here it is just too hellish but u are over there and will only be able[b] to describe it in your own way which is that of the whites.[/b][/b]

oka the way im describing the love in the states is not according to the way of the "whites" it is described in the way of me ONYINYE!!!

If u say so then.
But as for me Love Is Really Wicked

@Topic

It's not worth it my dear.

Abeg oo tell onyi

its worth it.
d sweetest tin eva!

how is it worth it?

dearie,d tori go too long.its better xperienced dan told.

no matter how it hurts,its one of d best tins.
wats life,witout lovin nd bein loved?

yeahb tough but most times it is so so not it.
I have bin and i am in one but i must confess it is nice.
But at a second tot it aint interestin

sweetie,i ve been der b4
its d best tin.no feelin is as sweet as it.
knowin der's sm1 smwhere u re ready to lay down ur life 4 nd d person is also willin to do same

only dummies fall in love. please don't play a mugu. i have been betrayed before by a lady i truely love. love doesn't whot it. in fact, love doesn't exists.

Love is Beautiful when it lasts so dont give u on it ^{*personally i think its a waste of time but dont listen to me*}. i have been there done that and worn the T-shirt! everyone goes thru heartbreak, i have but i am still standing its just that it aint love for me its Lust

it doesnt last. . .so its not worth it

holythug:

it doesnt last. . .so its not worth it

You are one tough Gentleman. i think women need to wear helmets on their hearts cuz u will break their hearts

its amazing what this love of a thing is. I had an an experience time won't allow me tell in full. But i think its worth it.

Ho would you tell the story of dating a virgin for more than 3 yrs. Then you come back after 1yr nysc and she is pregnant? Love?

Eya!

but dat doesn't mean she neva loved you.smtin must ve happened along d way.

i hope so

Thanks for all your views but too me i still beleive love dosent worth it.Love can make you loose everything you have ever worked for.Being in love is like digging your grave.i better like ladies and not love

hmmm I dont know again o.
I think it is said not to be worth it becos it has its sweet and sour parts

@ Topic

Yes. Always yes.

I'm currently in love, and loving every second of it. If you are not in love with the person you are dating then you are only punishing yourself.

Esss when the chic breaks ur heart i promise u'll be having a retalk!!!!!!!!!

Uzzyan:

Esss when the chic breaks your heart i promise u'll be having a retalk!!!!!!!!!

thats what makes it fun, the healing process. I can't stop loving just because I made a bad choice the last time. with a mindset like this, you could miss out on true love and not know it.

Esss:

thats what makes it fun, the healing process. I can't stop loving just because I made a bad choice the last time. with a mindset like this, you could miss out on true love and not know it.

My sentiments exactly

part of the appeal of love is the pain that comes with it

From my own perspectiv, love is just a strange aspect of life.
Am in one that is so "somehow"
If he doesn't call mi for long, i get angry but
When i hear his voice i just tend to have melted angers.
I dont know if that is the best way it is meant to be?

love is interesting and sweet only while it lasts (permit me to add). but just as u will not cut off your nose to spite your face, having been in a bad relationship don't mean love doesn't exists, and that u shldn't/ can't love again. remember dear, when u fall down, u rise up again. so my brother i feel u because i have been there twice and believe me it REALLY hurts. but u can love again ( thats if u choose to).don't rub yourself of the beauty of life/love.
cheers