During pre-marriage classes, couples are often taught how to live harmoniously as husband and wife. However, one common cause of bitterness in marriages especially in Africa is often downplayed or ignored entirely -the gender of children.

In Africa, only a few marriages survive without a male child and for those few that usually do, the couples involved will tell you in confidence that it has not been easy both as couplea and as individuals. The pressure on African women to bear male children both from within and outsude the family is so enormous that only strong-willed couples are abelt to absorb the pressure and still remain as one.

For the benefit of couples who seek very natural ways of influencing baby gender for the health of their marriages, I want to share a very popular method here and encourage others to do same:-

Shettles Method

Dr. Landrum B. Shettles developed the method of choosing the sex of the baby. Therefore, it is popularly known as the Shettles method. His method is applicable for conceiving both baby girl and a boy.
Natural Ways to Conceive a Baby Boy

The X and Y chromosomes released by a man, are very different from each other. The X being the girl sperm is stronger than Y, which is a boy sperm. Though Y chromosomes are fastest swimmers, they cannot survive the acidic area of the vagina and die quickly. Hence, there are certain methods, which might prove effective If you are planning to know how to conceive a boy.


Time the Intercourse: Y sperms travel fast, but are very delicate. In case the vagina is acidic, then Y chromosomes die quickly. The intercourse should be done during the ovulation period, as there are more chances of the Y sperm to reach the egg faster increasing the chances of having a boy.

Sexual Position: The area near the opening of the uterus is acidic and therefore to enable the survival of the Y sperm, penetration must be as deep as possible. This way it reaches the egg even faster. There are many sexual positions which allow deep penetration and increase the chances of getting pregnant with a boy. As per Shettles recommendation rear-entry position is more promising in getting pregnant with a boy.

Orgasms: Orgasms lead to alkaline secretion, making the conditions favorable for Y chromosomes to survive. Shettles recommend, that the woman must experience orgasm before the man.


It is important to keep a watch on the pH level of the vagina to increase the survival chances of the Y sperm. There are certain foods that help maintain the pH level. Therefore, in order to get pregnant with a boy, a woman is advised to have fish, red meat, eggs, apples, bananas and salty food. If you are ovulating, consume some caffeine to increase the chances of Y sperm conception. All the dairy products or calcium rich foods like milk or cheese must be avoided.

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ALLAH(GOD) knows best, and we are also free to tell him what we desire in the best form of supplications. In terms choosing what nature presents to us, we must also seek ALLAH(GOD)'s guidance cos what we see as good might not be the best for us. God knows i prefer having all boys, but who am i 2 decide when i'm not the creator.
I can't jst stand what women/girls/ladies go through in this clime. The pressure they are subjected to, especially, when they are not married. They are Mostly the victims of ra'pe, they are the ashawos, na dem de do abortion..haba!
I'm in my mid 20s , not married and still very free; but if i were a girl, d story wld have been different by now...either one heartbreak or the other. Whenever i look at my cousins and 'nieces' who are not married , i fear to produce and add to the number of 'umarried girls' in my milieu. And i don't knw what d future holds; taking the scriptural prophecy that a time wld come wherby 10-20 girls will qeue for/flock around one boy/man into consideration, i want to have boys that wld b flocked around by gals and not the other way round. I always porstrate to thank God for creating me as a man. Gals too get wahala abeg!

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