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Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by IAH(f): 3:07am On Jun 10, 2006 |
We've had so many threads on "Your spouse or your parents?", "Your mother or your wife", etc. Now let's see with kids. If the need arises, who would you give preference to? Who would you favour over the other? Your husband/wife or your kid(s)? For me, it'd be difficult to choose but in the end, maybe I would choose my husband o. Note: You can't choose both. |
Re: Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by Ndipe(m): 5:08am On Jun 10, 2006 |
Tough question!!! |
Re: Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by DaHitler(m): 5:10am On Jun 10, 2006 |
I will choose the family dog. At least that one is loyal. |
Re: Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by mamaput(f): 6:45am On Jun 10, 2006 |
My kids anyday any time they are my blood. As long as they are young and dependent. 2 Likes |
Re: Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by mamaput(f): 6:46am On Jun 10, 2006 |
Afeni:Till the dog bits your new shoes and wees on your car |
Re: Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by LiquidMind(m): 10:58am On Jun 10, 2006 |
I got married so i can be with my spouse forever & ever. I didn't got married because of children but because of who my spouse is, MY SPOUSE FIRST ANY DAY BEFORE MY CHILDREN 3 Likes |
Re: Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by jgirl3: 11:03am On Jun 10, 2006 |
I think it is my children because they are a symbol of the union btw my spouse and i. I will want my children to live a good life and since they are younger, they are more dependent on me 1 Like |
Re: Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by ToyM28(f): 1:52am On Jun 11, 2006 |
My kids. I'll die for dem. But it wld be a tough decision if kept in a compromising position. But a mothers love for her kids is the greatest 1 Like |
Re: Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by Nosu(m): 9:13pm On Jun 15, 2006 |
My spouse before my kids. the day will married we would became one flesh, so we are one.leaving her is just like throwing a part of me away. the kids came along the line and when they are old enough to be independent they will find their level. so my sweet spouse come first. 3 Likes |
Re: Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by LiquidMind(m): 12:02am On Jun 16, 2006 |
Thats a word Nosu |
Re: Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by chikings2: 2:13pm On Jun 16, 2006 |
I choose my Kids, they are the reason while i marry my spouse, So they live while i die, and that's my words 1 Like |
Re: Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by Skidoc(m): 3:29pm On Jun 16, 2006 |
My kids. The bond between me and my kids is stronger because I can divorce my wife but I can't divorce/disown my kids. They are mine forever. Even if I disown my child, he is still my child biologically. |
Re: Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by lunafish(f): 4:22pm On Jun 19, 2006 |
My child every time. They need me more than my spouse ever could. I would love my child inconditionally and I couldn't love my spouse that much. 1 Like |
Re: Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by Shentz(f): 8:44pm On Jun 28, 2006 |
The child because your child is stil your child 1 Like |
Re: Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by MerC2(f): 1:09pm On Jul 25, 2006 |
Spouse first! We can always have other kids later. . . lol 1 Like |
Re: Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by Thinker1(m): 3:44pm On Jul 25, 2006 |
On this topic there seems to be a lot of childish responses, perhaps because most of them are very young and inexperience. Whatever happen you have to try & love them equally, because they have come to be your life wire. The only condition where you can make a choice is when the birth of your new baby threatens the life of your wife, then the child can go and leave your wife for you. Another one will always come but you will never find another deary wife like the one you are about to loose. 1 Like |
Re: Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by kellorah: 3:44pm On Jul 25, 2006 |
child |
Re: Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by kellorah: 3:45pm On Jul 25, 2006 |
your child is more of your blood.i dunno how to explain it. |
Re: Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by nilla(f): 3:48pm On Jul 25, 2006 |
Tough question But i will choose my spouse first (before there is any kid). My kids first (when they are still young) My spouse again (when the kids are out of the house) 1 Like |
Re: Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by kellorah: 3:49pm On Jul 25, 2006 |
nilla: this is just the best answer! weldone girl! 1 Like |
Re: Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by nilla(f): 3:50pm On Jul 25, 2006 |
thanx kellorah |
Re: Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by Akinagirl(f): 5:47am On Mar 12, 2007 |
Perfect answer Nilla |
Re: Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by Ronke2811(f): 9:03am On Mar 12, 2007 |
my husband whether the kids are young or married i did not marry to raise kids, i marry to share bliss with my husband cos wen the kids leave to form their own family , i will be left alone with my husband shekinah 2 Likes |
Re: Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by nezerst(f): 11:20am On Mar 15, 2007 |
I will choose my husband anytime anyday. Children are not the main reason why i'm getting married neither is it the fear of divorce. How do I choose children that will eventually leave 2 have a life of their own over a man that i'm likely to grow old with(God willing). 1 Like |
Re: Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by Ndipe(m): 10:16pm On Mar 15, 2007 |
Spouse. 1 Like |
Re: Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by Free(f): 2:05am On Mar 16, 2007 |
tough choice |
Re: Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by Allwility: 11:00pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
Spouse of course. 1 Like |
Re: Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by shams040(m): 2:23pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Dis na war oooo. I tnk my spouse |
Re: Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by Nobody: 4:28pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Child |
Re: Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by Nobody: 4:57pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
I will choose my kids, won't even waste time to think |
Re: Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by sisisioge: 5:02pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Hmmmm, my choice will depend on the situations and the kids ages. As babies...the kids will win alot. During childhood... The battle will be fierce, winner will strongly depend on situations. As adults...the kids will lose all the way. |
Re: Your Spouse Or Your Child: Who Comes First? by nnamdibig(m): 5:35pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Most ladies will choose their kids while most men will choose their wife. It speaks volume on the extent a woman can love her hubby. |
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