If u are getting married to a man that grew up in Enugu, just make up ur mind to respect urself by not trying to fight ur husband for womanizing bcuz it is a life style in the city that over 65% of married men in the city could not avoid. Why? Bcuz it's a city with men that are less busy doing nothing. If u want men who are busy on daily bases and retire back to adore u as a wife try the Omatas at Nkwonnewi or Onitsha main-market. If u doubt ask Her Exellency Clara Chime and some other married ladies in Enugu. Little did she (Clara) knew about the life in the city that a tree most bear the fruit it's known for and got married to the No 1 citizen of the state.

A young beautful lady at the age of 27 got married to a divorced man with children in his 50s without bothering to enquire about this man's life style and why he divorced. This is where personal interests other than true love came into play. Probably, Clara came to enjoy Power, Money and Sex but at the end she is now crying for prison break. Not long after She assumed power as the first lady, she began to give government officials who were not under her office directives here and there including LGA chairmen, collecting money to anoint some politicians for political positions, fight and collecting official cars of female politicians in the state whom she believed to have intimacy with the Governor, of which His exellency saw as insult and decided to cut back the excessive power she was abusing. As a result, money and sex were equally deprived, the business of the day seem to have yielded no profit and she went Kolo which gave the governor more ground to restrict her movement.

The Governor could have let her go since they are now married without sex for 4 yrs (imagine how frustrating), starving one person of sex while he is busy catching them young and at the same time afraid of another marriage scandal especially while in office as the governor. Her excellency, being wise enough blew up the hot pot through a human right Lawyer (for more information consult Femi Falana's chamber) to enable her bargain for her future after Gov. Chime's dispensation. This moves has made Governor to call for an emergency meeting of the families concern to negotiate and possiblly bargain for pay off after his tenurn to calm the media and pretend as if all is well.

In conclusion, Ladies- money answerth all things but most times cannot give u fulfillment in Life and if u are getting married to Enugu brougth up just be willing to share or run to God. Men- beauty attracts but cannot keep her, character keeps her. if u cannot do without others make it a top secret to save ur home, there is no hard man/woman when it comes to hurting one's feeling and cheating in marriage. if money is everything, Clara Chime could have been one of the happiest married women of her time. And if beauty is everything Gov. Chime could have not been looking for anything else in the skirt even as such is enough for him to resign as a Governor if it is in a developed society.

but some men harsh. like damn. he imprisoned his wife in their own mansion. i guess money, power and fame isnt always what its cracked up to be.

some women will still envy her sha