Forgiving your spouse doesn't mean you forget what your spouse did. Forgiveness doesn’t erase the scars or the memory of what happened. Forgiveness just means you’ve made a decision not to hold it against them. Forgiveness means you’re not going to allow what happened in the past to ruin what is happening in the present. Forgiveness means you’re giving up the desire to get even or revenge & trusting God to deal with your spouse in a redemptive way. Forgiveness means that you’re not going to allow anger & resentment to rule you. Forgiveness means you’re trusting God for your complete healing. Yes, forgiveness is not easy but if we understand how undeserving of God’s forgiveness we are, we would seek to forgive our spouses regardless of how undeserving they are. Forgive & move on!