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Is It Bad To Greet Someone Older Dan U " How Are U " Or "How Are U Doing". by israeltob(m): 6:44am On Nov 21, 2013 |
please i need help on this. I don chop early morning slap for this abd i no wan reply the person yet. I dey wait for him broda to come and talk to her. I just dey do good boy, greeted this girl and asked her how are u doing this morning? Meanwhile she is just 2yrs older not even up to 2 self, and d next thing na slap for my dirty face. Hmmmmmmmmm, nkan beeeee. |
Re: Is It Bad To Greet Someone Older Dan U " How Are U " Or "How Are U Doing". by bigtt76(f): 6:47am On Nov 21, 2013 |
Hmmm ...you never tell us the truth. There's more to that greeting than you are revealing |
Re: Is It Bad To Greet Someone Older Dan U " How Are U " Or "How Are U Doing". by sylvar02(m): 6:58am On Nov 21, 2013 |
For we Yoruba! Its bad! Yoruba is made of respect... |
Re: Is It Bad To Greet Someone Older Dan U " How Are U " Or "How Are U Doing". by Infomizer(m): 7:00am On Nov 21, 2013 |
Slap, just like that? U're either exaggerating or hiding something... Well, personally, I don't see the big deal tho', but I know some peeps can be extremely 'cultural' in that sense. But that slap sha!!!!! |
Re: Is It Bad To Greet Someone Older Dan U " How Are U " Or "How Are U Doing". by Emmyk(m): 7:01am On Nov 21, 2013 |
sylvar02: For we Yoruba! Its bad! Yoruba is made of respect...Spot on. |
Re: Is It Bad To Greet Someone Older Dan U " How Are U " Or "How Are U Doing". by Infomizer(m): 7:04am On Nov 21, 2013 |
sylvar02: For we Yoruba! Its bad! Yoruba is made of respect...Na him make us dey 'dobale' even while we're greeting an elder over the phone, ba? "Egbon, ba wo ni" is not bad (to me o!) |
Re: Is It Bad To Greet Someone Older Dan U " How Are U " Or "How Are U Doing". by Tolexander: 7:04am On Nov 21, 2013 |
israel tob: please i need help on this. I don chop early morning slap for this abd i no wan reply the person yet. I dey wait for him broda to come and talk to her. I just dey do good boy, greeted this girl and asked her how are u doing this morning? Meanwhile she is just 2yrs older not even up to 2 self, and d next thing na slap for my dirty face. Hmmmmmmmmm, nkan beeeee.i'm pretty sure this slap never happened! There is nothing bad in greeting an elder how are you! Sometimes, it isn't the content of the words but the accompanying effects and characters shown. The most 'considered' polite word, ''i'm sorry", can be rude at times considering the kind of character shown by the person saying it. Guess you are a yoruba boy cos yoruba elders don't take anything respect with levity. Considering you with the way you described the lady telling us she's even not up to 2years older, am pretty sure you said the 'how are you' out of disrespect that warranted the correction. |
Re: Is It Bad To Greet Someone Older Dan U " How Are U " Or "How Are U Doing". by Emmyk(m): 7:14am On Nov 21, 2013 |
Infomizer:Remove the "egbon". Just "bawoni" is the disrespectful one. |
Re: Is It Bad To Greet Someone Older Dan U " How Are U " Or "How Are U Doing". by demelza: 7:17am On Nov 21, 2013 |
sylvar02: For we Yoruba! Its bad! Yoruba is made of respect...Shikena! |
Re: Is It Bad To Greet Someone Older Dan U " How Are U " Or "How Are U Doing". by tmtech: 7:23am On Nov 21, 2013 |
We still find it difficult to integrate culture and westernization(liberalism)......our culture is not preserved in anyway ,becos it is has an inseparable bond with our traditional religion.....buh, there are still so many specimen of the past in this generation.....our elders only clamour for the propagation of our culture ,then they make little or no attempt to lead by example.......its the culture thing that encourages totalitarialism in which lecturers act like God,politicians,managers jst name it....it all boils down to culture(subservience)......Our elders use culture as a yardstick to siphon our treasury and get away with it....... @ Op , a lady wouldn't slap u for asking how she is doing, except u asked rudely or there an antecedence.......say the truth and shame d devil Goodmorning fellas |
Re: Is It Bad To Greet Someone Older Dan U " How Are U " Or "How Are U Doing". by Prowizy2(m): 7:23am On Nov 21, 2013 |
israel tob: please i need help on this. I don chop early morning slap for this abd i no wan reply the person yet. I dey wait for him broda to come and talk to her. I just dey do good boy, greeted this girl and asked her how are u doing this morning? Meanwhile she is just 2yrs older not even up to 2 self, and d next thing na slap for my dirty face. Hmmmmmmmmm, nkan beeeee. OP, say the truth You eyed your aunty |
Re: Is It Bad To Greet Someone Older Dan U " How Are U " Or "How Are U Doing". by NadiaSA1(f): 7:36am On Nov 21, 2013 |
Prowizy2:exactly what i was thinking! |
Re: Is It Bad To Greet Someone Older Dan U " How Are U " Or "How Are U Doing". by Nobody: 7:41am On Nov 21, 2013 |
Op, say d truth nd shame d devil! |
Re: Is It Bad To Greet Someone Older Dan U " How Are U " Or "How Are U Doing". by israeltob(m): 4:19pm On Nov 21, 2013 |
Seriously noooooooo. She is beautiful but i neva tot of dat. |
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