We already assumed it will be a girl,hubby already named her Chialuka(God did great) and i christianed her Raphaella. I prayed for hours for a heartbeat to be seen in the confirmation scan but no it didnt happen. I will still take my routine pregnacare tonite. But as i leave home tomorrow i know i will not come back with her in me dead or alive(booked for evacuation procedure tomorrow). It is difficult for me blc i prayed hard to get her(thats my first preg) and have already shared my testimony. Maybe it is not the will of God and i got to move on with my life. This my 3months story of joy and pain and i know there are great people on this forum who can give me the encouragement i need for this to pass. And please Pray for me too@ mods No front page please.

Its the Lord doing and He is surely going to see you through all you do. Just be strong,his divine protection is upon you. He is going to grant your heart desires. All the best

It is well my dear, be strong. That one that will stay will come soon.

Honey, it is so going to be well with you. I hope you and your husband find solace in each other because apart from God, you need to be each other's support.
And of course, years down the line when you have your brood all over the house, this incident will be but a blip in the past.

Also try to know what happened so as to get closure.

Fibroid, became a fineboy, dead fetus became a baby, God is waiting for your faith. Be expectant, call ur pastor

Enoquin: Honey, it is so going to be well with you. I hope you and your husband find solace in each other because apart from God, you need to be each other's support.
And of course, years down the line when you have your brood all over the house, this incident will be but a blip in the past.

Also try to know what happened so as to get closure.

Amen Amen . Thats for the advice. A closure is really important.

God is above every pain, every struggle, every trial.
He will give you the strength to bear it and pave the way on which you'll walk.
Be strong. Be firm in your faith.
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Also work on any unresolved medical issues.

Amhappy: We already assumed it will be a girl,hubby already named her Chialuka(God did great) and i christianed her Raphaella. I prayed for hours for a heartbeat to be seen in the confirmation scan but no it didnt happen. I will still take my routine pregnacare tonite. But as i leave home tomorrow i know i will not come back with her in me dead or alive(booked for evacuation procedure tomorrow). It is difficult for me blc i prayed hard to get her(thats my first preg) and have already shared my testimony. Maybe it is not the will of God and i got to move on with my life. This my 3months story of joy and pain and i know there are great people on this forum who can give me the encouragement i need for this to pass. And please Pray for me too@ mods No front page please.

Before you do that tomorrow,can you go for a second opinion
Go to another sonographer and get a second ultrasound for confirmation
That is what I would do if I were you
Ard if truly there is no heart beat I pray God will help you overcome this
It is a tough road but God will make it easier and your babies will come
I pray for peace in your heart and that of your hubby
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Be strong dear. God knows why. And know that "this too shall pass". More will come with very good health and blessings from Above in Jesus Name, Amen.

@ Winniegirl and Toyinletstalk i believe God and say a big Amen. Thanks for those words. @ Babymama yeh i did a confirmation test in a different centre. God bless you my sis. It's well.

Amhappy: @ Winniegirl and Toyinletstalk i believe God and say a big Amen. Thanks for those words. @ Babymama yeh i did a confirmation test in a different centre. God bless you my sis. It's well.

So sorry. It is never easy to lose a baby. Take your time to grieve and heal and support each other through this, reach out to good people to talk to. God will surely give you another testimony in a short time in Jesus name.

Try and get to know why it happened.
So, you'll be able to avoid it next time!
I'm so sorry for your loss, take heart, it is well!

It's never easy losing a baby and reckoned with. I know exactly how you feel. God will comfort you and your hubby, this is not the time argue neither fight over trivial stuff please, just let every frustration slide.

It is well.