I have being thinking toward this recently, as a muslim, do you like/desire marrying non muslima because its permissible for a man to marry among the peaple of the book( though the ayah gave preference to muslimah). My concern is that we have so many sisters out there who are still single, some are divorced while others are widows who are yet to hav husbands. Another thing is the way they(the non believers) live their lifes; flirting, pornication, westernized way of life and to say it all am afraid (some) came out of wedlock.
It got to a level were i had to ask a scholar on these and here are his responses:
1. We hav many sister who posses all you would love to hav in a partner.
2. The qur'an specifically gîves preference to muslima and in sunnah the prophet(pbuh) encourage us to go for the deen above all in choosing our spouse.
3. It started during a time when muslims are not much in number (though no justification to call it prohibited now) 4. The future of your children i.e upbringin and the issue of divorce or after you'r death.
Pls. I need your opinion (peaple who have experience in the house). Am asking because i think in the near future i may come across somethng of these sort(though neva thougt of going that way). Thanks

It is not forbidden for a Muslim man to marry a non-muslim woman, but experience has shown that non-muslim women who marry Muslim men often weaken them spiritually and then convert them away from Islam. They also ensure that the children follow suit. It is only a strong Muslim that can withstand the onslaught. Even then, their children are constrained to choose between the two religions.
Islam frowns on pre-marital se.x, but some ppl like it. Such ppl will like to sample girls especially those whose religions permit nudity and free mixing with the opposite sex.Hence, they get entangled and subsequently get married/converted from Islam.
Better to marry ppl of ur deen. This saves you a lot of hassles and prevents religious crises in the home and gives your children the opportunity to learn ur deen.

@Abojupuna.Thanx alot

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