HOW TO ENJOY SAFE SEX DURING PREGNANCY:

This topic may seem controversial because of many ideas and beliefs but the truth  still remains that you can have safe sex during pregnancy without endengering the life of the unborn baby or the mother. Sex in pregnancy is not a taboo as some people seem to look at it, also, men should note that their wife being pregnant does not mean that she is in a dieseased state.Also that this will make the child will become promiscus as beleive is a fallacy, neither will it affect the developement of the child.


Some healthy positions that can be considered by both couples are listed below.

*The woman sitting face to face on her husband allows easy access to kissing and handling by both partners.

*Rear entry by the man with the woman lying on her side on the bed with her legs folded.

*Entering from the back by the man with the woman’s bum turned to him while she rests on all four.

*Both couple should be free and generous in handling and caressing each other.

How u take know poster?

U don get belle before or wetin?!

The topic is misleading

I am surprised that somebody will read my thread and say that it is misleading. I am sorry if I have failed to give a detailed explanation of how it all works and it is because the reader did not fully understand it that she said that it is misleading. Now to the full details.

Sexual intercourse which is the satisfaction of a desire arising from natural instincts is legal only within the recognized institution of marriage as ordained by God our creator. There are many fallacies surrounding this issue of sex during pregnancy. Some of them are :

*That is a taboo to sleep with a pregnant woman

*That it affects the health of the mother and the child

*That the child will not develop well

*That the child may grow up to become promiscus

*That the mother will have a hard time during delivery

*That sexing pregnancy will reduce the flow of milk during breast feeding etc.



However, it is important to note here that pregnancy does not mean being in a diseased state . Rather, this is a period when the mother is adapting to some psychological changes in her systems to support the growth of the foetus. She ie the mother is adjusting to her environment during pregnancy. A woman that is pregnant need not abstain from sex except she was advised against such by a doctor .However, the first three months of the pregnancy is a delicate period because the baby is still in the early developmental stages, so sex within this period should be avoided. In order to have a refreshing and safe sex during pregnancy, both parties must encourage each other to “give and take” just as sex before pregnancy. The man must exercise more level of understanding and patience in order to help his wife attain and savor every moment of the fore-play and the real sexual encounter. When this is done with care and love, both parties will enjoy every moment of the game. However, repeated orgasm may be dangerous for the woman. As the pregnancy grows in size, the couple must be careful with the position and style they choose in order not to put pressure on the growing baby.

Some healthy positions that can be considered by both couples are listed below.

*The woman sitting face to face on her husband allows easy access to kissing and handling by both partners.

*Rear entry by the man with the woman lying on her side on the bed with her legs folded.

*Entering from the back by the man with the woman’s bum turned to him while she rests on all four.

*Both couple should be free and generous in handling and caressing each other.



These are few of the many conditions that are considered safe for sex during pregnancy. But if the Doctor thinks otherwise and instructs against sex during pregnancy, the woman must comply totally. This is for her own safety and that of the unborn child because the Doctor or the Gynecologist knows better. Some of the reasons that may necessitate such an advice may be any of the following:



*When the woman is advised to observe bed rest as a result threatening abortion.

*Any woman that experiences constant miscarriage must seek Doctors advice before engaging in sex during pregnancy.

*Any woman that is over 35 years old and is getting pregnant for the first time must consult her Doctor before engaging in sex during pregnancy.

*Pregnancy after infertility treatment.



As said earlier, sexual intercourse at the early stage of the pregnancy should be avoided in order to avoid abortion and late pregnancy because virulent and dangerous organisms may be introduced. Sexual excess during the last month of the pregnancy should equally be discouraged.


I believe that the explanation is clear now, if there is any further comment, it is highly welcome.

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Please@Op, what is give and take as you hv earlier mention?