Oh yes I am 1987 and she is 1983. She already knows my age and waiting for me to either woo her or leave her alone.

She is everything I have dreamed of in a woman and It seems am gonna ask her out.

My mom doesn't support it though. What should I do ?

Next yr she will be 32, you berra hurry up and give her belly or leave her alone

Chilli, so u believed this?
Lols!

yellowpawpaw: Chilli, so u believed this?
Lols!

Am serious and am not new to this section am I ?

Chillis: Next yr she will be 32, you berra hurry up and give her belly or leave her alone

she will be 31 next year. And nope, I can't do such o. I can't do pre marital sex sef.

I just don't know if the odds aren't too high.

Except for the age ish, she is just perfect.

If u r serious, what then happened to that ur demanding galfriend?
Cos from what I read on that thread, u r older than her.

Op according 2 some people age is noting wen it comes 2 love so will advice you follow ur heart

yellowpawpaw: If u r serious, what then happened to that ur demanding galfriend?
Cos from what I read on that thread, u r older than her.

I don walk out nah. I don excuse myself from the relationship.

I just couldn't cope with those signals.

Eyah, if you really wanna go further , make sure you don't feel bad about her age.

Not easy but totally doable . Ask p square.

Ok.
If u 2 compliments each other, then why not?
Most peeps will say they won't. This is 2014, things r revolving.
I d rather marry a person older than me than stay in a useless union cos I wanna follow d norms.
Every person is diff.
Go with ur head not ur heart.

Goodluck.

Chillis: Next yr she will be 32, you berra hurry up and give her belly or leave her alone

Find a lady u r older than to marry if d age difference worries u. Depending on d lady's attitude d age difference might make it difficult for her to submit to u in marriage. There must b a young lady wit all d attributes u desire.

divinelove: Find a lady u r older than to marry if d age difference worries u. Depending on d lady's attitude d age difference might make it difficult for her to submit to u in marriage. There must b a young lady wit all d attributes u desire.

To be fair to her, she is very humble and has a good attitude and character.

Even before she knew about the age gap whilst we were just friends with no prospect for a relationship, she was always a humble aand easy going lady.

Am just worried about the biological implication cos am ready to defy my mom but isn't it just good to count the cost ?

if u love her then the age means notin..... follow ur hrt and not d age cos age is just a number. good-luck.

Why would age deter you from going with someone you know will be instrumental to fulfilling your destiny and adding values to you. Tell, Sarah, Rebecca, Hannah etc about the biological bullshit...

Some people married when they were 25 but didn't give birth until mid thirties, yet they had no trouble with childbirth. However, if you are so concerned about the age difference, do not sow emotional seed in the lady. Let her go...

I think you should move in with your 'mom' and have children for her BY YOU!

Simple!

bellong:
Why would age deter you from going with someone you know will be instrumental to fulfilling your destiny and adding values to you. Tell, Sarah, Rebecca, Hannah etc about the biological bullshit...

Some people married when they were 25 but didn't give birth until mid thirties, yet they had no trouble with childbirth. However, if you are so concerned about the age difference, do not sow emotional seed in the lady. Let her go...

The reason is that it may take up to 4 years before I decide to get married and if she decides to hold on till then she will be 35 years or thereabout around that time.

Guitarlife: The reason is that it may take up to 4 years before I decide to get married and if she decides to hold on till then she will be 35 years or thereabout around that time.

Let her go. Pls. Tenk u

Chillis:

Let her go. Pls. Tenk u

Thanks for your input. I will think about it.

No need to think, release her. The earlier the better.

Chillis:

Let her go. Pls. Tenk u

@OP, do this^^^^ sharparly!

Good for you!

The question is: are you matured enough to date/marry her? There is really nothing wrong if you both are matured, in love and reasonable.

Guitarlife: The reason is that it may take up to 4 years before I decide to get married and if she decides to hold on till then she will be 35 years or thereabout around that time.

Let her go for her dignity and peace of mind.
Thank you on her behalf

On a lighter note, just returned from a wedding of a dear colleague of mine
I was awestruck at how the gRoom covered and dignified his bride
She's this...she's that.......people said all sorts
He stood by her , "this is my wife and I m honored to be her husband"
That's just a snippet of his speech today
When the head is covering her nobody can insult or abuse her without passing through him first

Just felt like sharing what I was inspired by today
No particular reason o
Then I understood when people say that love conquers all

Tgirl4real: Good for you!

The question is: are you matured enough to date/marry her? There is really nothing wrong if you both are matured, in love and reasonable.

The odds seemed stacked high against us.

Yes I love her and am matured enough to relate with her but then, I feel I will just let her go.

I haven't wooed her yet just that we are close and I can't keep her waiting for 4 years.

There are times when love involves letting go. It might hurt but its for the best.

Guitarlife: The odds seemed stacked high against us.

Yes I love her and am matured enough to relate with her but then, I feel I will just let her go.

I haven't wooed her yet just that we are close and I can't keep her waiting for 4 years.

Thank you!

Guitar, Guitar. Okunrin lada.

So you have brought your drama to family section niyen o.

You left Nancy.
You chased Esther.
The last Miss was an extortionist
This one is your ancestor.

All for virgin boy.

Abegi.

If at this age you still haven't recovered from your attention seeking disorder, you never may. Please free the aunty jejeje. No one needs drama like you provide it.

See as you brought Madam and YPP from their busy schedules here. Won tin mo e ma ni ke

Kwaaaaaaaa

mollytinrox: Guitar, Guitar. Okunrin lada.

So you have brought your drama to family section niyen o.

You left Nancy.
You chased Esther.
The last Miss was an extortionist
This one is your ancestor.

All for virgin boy.

Abegi.

If at this age you still haven't recovered from your attention seeking disorder, you never may. Please free the aunty jejeje. No one needs drama like you provide it.

See as you brought Madam and YPP from their busy schedules here. Won tin mo e ma ni ke

Molly I wanna believe you decision to grace my thread is sown to the spirit of the season.

You remember I came after you but you didn't even respond.

Kindly add me on BB: 26b568b8.

SOM keep quiet *winks*

Now to the matter, I swear the search for the right one which I term "the ultimate search" nor be beans o.

But is it a crime to want to look well well before leaping ? Cos that's what am doing and you're still crucifying me ?

I tire O.

Guitarlife: The reason is that it may take up to 4 years before I decide to get married and if she decides to hold on till then she will be 35 years or thereabout around that time.

oremi, if you can't impregnate her now let her go. It's wicked of you to keep her for four more years and the you u know now won't marry her when all her breasts fall.

My good friend please leave her abeg, whatever you feel for her now might be infatuation and you're just attracted to get openness.

mollytinrox: Guitar, Guitar. Okunrin lada.

So you have brought your drama to family section niyen o.

You left Nancy.
You chased Esther.
The last Miss was an extortionist
This one is your ancestor.

All for virgin boy.

Abegi.

If at this age you still haven't recovered from your attention seeking disorder, you never may. Please free the aunty jejeje. No one needs drama like you provide it.

See as you brought Madam and YPP from their busy schedules here. Won tin mo e ma ni ke

you just killed me with laughter Iyawo tuntun



am still fighting you sha