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Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Donmichaelz(m): 9:19pm On Jan 01, 2014 |
Reasons i cant marry a girl with child -she might marry me to cover her shame -she might marry me so that the responsibility will be less -she might marry me just because no other guy wants her -she might marry me because her parent rain insults on her -she might marry me out of frustration -she might marry me so that no one call her names -the most important reason i cant marry a girl with a child is,i dont want to accept the child now and later the real father comes after me,i want a peaceful marriage i am totaly against a guy marrying a lady who already have a child simply because no matter how happy she is with you she will always prefer to live with the guy who got her pregnant. Agreed? 3 Likes |
Re: Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by ayodeji752: 9:32pm On Jan 01, 2014 |
Disagree! Infact, u didn't make any sense. 14 Likes |
Re: Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Nobody: 9:39pm On Jan 01, 2014 |
Smh@ op. Sure you've encounter one before. -people already knew she had a child, so I see no reason she wants to cover any shame. -she's been responsible for her own upkeep before she meets the man. -If no other guy want her and you're with her then you have to get yourself checked! -shelter my foot, like she lives under the bridge when you met her. All of your points are irrelevant jor! 9 Likes |
Re: Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by olorunthobby(f): 10:34pm On Jan 01, 2014 |
Donmichaelz: -she might marry you to cover her shame What is this one saying? 3 Likes |
Re: Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by zeelo2014: 10:50pm On Jan 01, 2014 |
Marry someone's babymama?? Naaaaaa. 4 Likes |
Re: Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by icebebe(f): 10:56pm On Jan 01, 2014 |
u talk lik a child 3 Likes |
Re: Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Donmichaelz(m): 10:57pm On Jan 01, 2014 |
olorunthobby:he is talking what you havent said in a decade :sense 1 Like |
Re: Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Donmichaelz(m): 11:02pm On Jan 01, 2014 |
icebebe: u talk lik a childthats why its called oppinion,i cant marry a girl who already has a child simple,its my belife,if u dont agree because u av one or know someone who do good for u but as for me i will never get any girl pregnant exept she is my wife and i also expect the same...in a world of immoralities bittches like you find immoralities as civilization,by the way i talk like a kid but dont open my legs at night for any Mother- fucker just as u do or even,about to do now 5 Likes |
Re: Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by denzel2009: 11:03pm On Jan 01, 2014 |
They are the best! Dont knock it until you try it. 1 Like |
Re: Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by granlydia(f): 11:15pm On Jan 01, 2014 |
She might maRry u cos she loves u.she could be a girl who made mistakes in her life and no one mostly people like you wouldn't give her a second chance 2 Likes |
Re: Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by b3llo(m): 11:28pm On Jan 01, 2014 |
I agree with you 25%. What if she really loves you for who you are? |
Re: Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by icebebe(f): 5:35am On Jan 02, 2014 |
Donmichaelz: thats why its called oppinion,i cant marry a girl who already has a child simple,its my belife,if u dont agree because u av one or know someone who do good for u but as for me i will never get any girl pregnant exept she is my wife and i also expect the same...in a world of immoralities bittches like you find immoralities as civilization,by the way i talk like a kid but dont open my legs at night for any Mother- fucker just as u do or even,about to do nowmy dear bf u say trash THINK! dere are humans ok stop actin lik one gud saint dere,u av sisters dnt u? wat if it befalls yur sis,abi yur sis no der ynas*h? n plx in ur life n nxt life to come do not insult me,cuz if i strt u wont lik it |
Re: Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by dechandel(f): 6:54am On Jan 02, 2014 |
Nansense!!! |
Re: Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by nickz(m): 7:04am On Jan 02, 2014 |
It can only be considerd if she has dropped only ONE MIXTAPE op,you're gonna get a lot of girls angry with this!! ....then someone will open the "why you shouldn't marry a man who already has a child thread" 1 Like |
Re: Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Nobody: 8:06am On Jan 02, 2014 |
The poster said his mind but I don't think it's totally true. Reasons abound while a lady can give birth in papa's house. Most ladies that give birth in house tend to fall under three categories: 1. Smarter babes 2. I don't care babes 3. sober babes Smarter babes with no qualms continue as nothing happened and run shows with careless abandon. To them, nothing spoil! Some turn into hi-class chic with array of possibilities, using what they have to get what they want. This group don't make d mistake of pregnant again. They appear responsible but little probe shows can of worms. 2. I don't Care babes: This ones don't care about side talk nor shame. They engage in relationships like drinking water, available when-able. Could give birth again and again. To them, having a child is just an inconvenience to sexual life; a little headache to normal sequence. They could have 3 kids from 3 men. 3. Sober babes: This are people whose life altered for real from giving birth to a child in papa's house. They least anticipated it, and are remorseful of the situation. They could be living alone or with parents, working or not but when seen, you see changes noticeable in ladies of inestimable values. Even mothers in village (assuming person in village ) attest to their good conduct. Of all the three groups, I have no prob marrying from the last group. The give u peace of heart and act maturely in marriage with no lofty expectations. DON'T EAT ME COS IT'S MY LITTLE OBSERVATIONS 4 Likes |
Re: Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Vancouverplus: 8:15am On Jan 02, 2014 |
Another Baby in the House Immaturity dey worry d Poster |
Re: Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Nobody: 8:15am On Jan 02, 2014 |
lol,very untrue. 1 Like |
Re: Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Oshiite: 8:20am On Jan 02, 2014 |
The most useless post on nairaland 2 Likes |
Re: Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Donmichaelz(m): 8:22am On Jan 02, 2014 |
icebebe: my dear bf u say trash THINK! dere are humans ok stop actin lik one gud saint dere,u av sisters dnt u? wat if it befalls yur sis,abi yur sis no der ynas*h? n plx in ur life n nxt life to come do not insult me,cuz if i strt u wont lik ityeah the IT CAN HAPPEN TO ANYBODY syndrome, look it cant happen to everyone,its impossible for me to impregnate a girl before marriage u know why ?self discipline and i admire girls who have them too.BY THE WAY MY SIS ARE MARRIED AND GUESS WHAT?THE GAVE BIRTH FOR THE MAN THEY MARRIED, 2 Likes |
Re: Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Donmichaelz(m): 8:24am On Jan 02, 2014 |
Vancouverplus: Another Baby in the House Immaturity dey worry d PosterMaturity is wen i dont and can never marry a girl who already have a kid right?i dont fancy your type cos am Allegic to BULLshit 2 Likes |
Re: Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by akposking(m): 8:36am On Jan 02, 2014 |
Na wa 4 maga. Karma is a bitch. 1 Like |
Re: Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by JayneStephanie: 9:10am On Jan 02, 2014 |
Donmichaelz: thats why its called oppinion,i cant marry a girl who already has a child simple,its my belife,if u dont agree because u av one or know someone who do good for u but as for me i will never get any girl pregnant exept she is my wife and i also expect the same...in a world of immoralities bittches like you find immoralities as civilization,by the way i talk like a kid but dont open my legs at night for any Mother- fucker just as u do or even,about to do now wow! So now guys also open their legs wen dey wnt 2 bleep? Always tot dat was a girl's tin 1 Like |
Re: Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Les: 9:20am On Jan 02, 2014 |
Donmichaelz: -she might marry you to cover her shamethat's your opinion and I disagree,there's no shame in child birth, children are blessings-she might marry you so that the responsibility will be lessnothing wrong in giving out a helping hand, this will only be a problem if there is no love attached-she might marry you just because no other guy wants herguys don't discriminate ladies because they are already a mama, some might be glad because they are sure of her virility. This is baseless-she might marry you because her parent rain insults on herhow about non-baby-mamas-still-unmarried-still-living-with-parents-turning-cougars-to-be?? This is a general reason some ladies marry and not exclusive to single baby mamas-she might marry you out of frustrationnot exclusive to single baby mamas-she might marry you so that no one call her namesgo back to number 1, btw, who calls single baby mamas names?? And what kinda names lasts bullet your arguments are very poor. Step up your games. 3 Likes |
Re: Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Dhelake: 9:27am On Jan 02, 2014 |
Most of your points Are dumb ... Try and do better next time |
Re: Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Peterwizzy: 9:31am On Jan 02, 2014 |
Hmmmm |
Re: Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Nobody: 10:24am On Jan 02, 2014 |
Hahahaha, op got it off his chest like a breasst reduction. People here might fault your post as overtly cynical and generalised but every guy should have that wary feeling especially if she wasnt married. If anyone is going to be realistic and admit how absurd it is seeing young girls nowadays pop out babies like fiends on crack. It should give a honest man concern. No sensible girl should birth to a man you are not married to. 5 Likes |
Re: Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Les: 10:53am On Jan 02, 2014 |
^^what about the men that get them pregnant, they are free to marry even virgins without stress abi?? I know ladies are affected more here so,they need to be more careful in dealing with guys but as the case may be, no lady got herself pregnant, it will be Hippocratic on male sides to fault the ladies and totally ignore the one who got them pregnant, let he who lives in a glass house throw no stones. Ladies are affected here and so they need to take more precautions than men but that's not enough reason to totally fault them. 4 Likes |
Re: Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Dlionsheart: 11:19am On Jan 02, 2014 |
Donmichaelz: -she might marry you to cover her shame OBJECTION!!! MY 'LORD', The above points are washy, debile, bleached, decrepit, fallible, frail, sapless, misleading and sentimental. This topic violates the gender/marriage and other rights of ladies, hence, lack merits to be consider on this forum and should therefore, be withdrawn or restructured/reframed. I so submits, my 'lord'!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
Re: Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Nobody: 11:22am On Jan 02, 2014 |
Donmichaelz: -she might marry you to cover her shame What if her husband died? Have you thought about that scenario? Don't conclude too soon. If your wife died will you remarry? |
Re: Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Nobody: 11:27am On Jan 02, 2014 |
Les: ^^what about the men that get them pregnant, they are free to marry even virgins without stress abi?? I know ladies are affected more here so,they need to be more careful in dealing with guys but as the case may be, no lady got herself pregnant, it will be Hippocratic on male sides to fault the ladies and totally ignore the one who got them pregnant, let he who lives in a glass house throw no stones. Ladies are affected here and so they need to take more precautions than men but that's not enough reason to totally fault them. See, nature and if you will, extrapolate that to the society, does not confer equality on both genders. There are so many things guys get off with that makes evolutionary equality a farce. The bolded is what really matters. |
Re: Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by sEGXY2(m): 11:31am On Jan 02, 2014 |
Nemeka: The poster said his mind but I don't think it's totally true. Reasons abound while a lady can give birth in papa's house. Most ladies that give birth in house tend to fall under three categories:This is the final ansqer .Any objections?since there is none THREAD CLOSED. |
Re: Can you Marry A Girl or Guy Who Already Has A Child? by Les: 11:35am On Jan 02, 2014 |
trolley:I know that, the nature making the inequality obvious demands that the weaker sex to be pampered and taken care of by her designated half and not to be used and dumped (ie if she got pregnant and denied responsibility) and left To be ridiculed by the Same gender of homo sapiens that left her in that condition. last bullet; I would love to say that both genders are equal but not the same in terms of what's expected of them. |
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