A lot of us have slept with our brother/sister while growing up. For me, I was disvirgined at the age of 5 by my uncle.
After that, I started sleeping with my brother cause of the urge and when my uncle left for secondary school, I slept with my brother till I was in SS1(when I realised that what I was doing is wrong).
Though then, my brother would still make moves trying to seduce me - for example he walks around the house with his manhood erect or saying words like "if you want us to do it am ready". He is now a sex addict and carries ashawo and gals around.
I know it's all my fault and don't know how to help him. I also spoke to him that I know
what I did is wrong but I have asked the Lord to forgive me and help my brother too.
This happens in homes mostly where the parents are not always around. I want to have kids too and I don't want the same thing happening to them. Please help me prevent and control this.
I know I am not the only child this is happening to, it was common in the 1980's and 1990's cos some parents use maids and relatives to take care of their kids and the "helpers" use the kids as sex experiment.
Please don't insult me or anyone because a lot of us may claim it didn't happen to them since we are online.
But how can we prevent this generation from suffering the same thing?

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proper orientation and deliverance should stem the negative tide

My dear we all have stories to tell except if we will be deceiving ourselves. We can always trust God for His help; and sex education at a very early age should help, our parents shied away from this and this affected a lots of us. It is well

May God forgive us all

Hahahahaha what a laugh,ur uncle ruined ur life nd u decided to take it on ur brother and ruined his,are u happy now,,,mtchew abeg carry ur brother go mountain of Fire for deliverance joor

It happens sha. But why?

Wow! I op ur story wil elp pple. Its strange to me tho, honestly. V heard abt uncles n al, bt neva heard of siblings.
Sex education n prayer m sure wil elp a lot for ur bro n ur own kids.
Sex hormones r quite strong rili bt it tkes a lot of grace n discipline. Most social gatherins dnt even elp(even sm churches dez days). May God elp us al

Hmmmmmm!

my current gf was raped by her uncle @.d age of. 10. when she got to secondary school she became a lesbian.... Thank God now...like I'm what she needed cos she's changed completely

Most children did it because they were ignorant and some people took advantage of them like relatives and maids

may God forgive us

May God grant us de grace to put a stop to most of de bad tins dat are befolling our yong genaration and most of dis kind of tins are curs by our parent most of dem are to buzzy to understand wat is going on in there familes

As long as you've begged God to forgive you,then have peace of mind,be rest assured that you are forgiven,the only thing remaining now is that u must try to change your brother's mind about this,try and show him the right way,if he is still persistent,dont mind,pray for him,you made a mistake when u were young,all u have to do to rectify it is to never stop praying for and advicing ur bro

#may ALLAH be with you and the rest of your household

My cousins took turns to bang the life out of me at 7. Tho I was oblivious, I enjoyed it. It was a bath, feed me, and bang me galore.. Till I was 10. It affected me cos I got used to chicks making the 1st move on me and so I started dating late.

I think parents shld nvr leave their little sons wif ny girl above 11 yrs. Were so vulnerable then.

Hmmmm!!!..... Konji is a respecter of nobody..... Even family

olubukola07:
My dear we all have stories to tell except if we will be deceiving ourselves. We can always trust God for His help; and sex education at a very early age should help, our parents shied away from this and this affected a lots of us. It is well

so was urs a brother or an uncle?

My dear, i understand the pain and depression you are going through. But bear one thing in mind, is not entirely physical. Go and seek spiritual help. Ince*t is a kind of act that opens a doorway for demons to enter. Seek for deliverance so that the demon will be cast out and the doorway closed.

pray for forgiveness and u would b free Amen

I can relate with this




...And the effects is felt later in the future(around ones 20's)

Guykhena:
Hahahahaha what a laugh,ur uncle ruined ur life nd u decided to take it on ur brother and ruined his,are u happy now,,,mtchew abeg carry ur brother go mountain of Fire for deliverance joor

St. Matthew... Your biggest problem is not age, but turning adult when you aren't ready. And your having issues on how to read and understand is top-notch, l suggest you understudy a basic six student.

Guykhena:
Hahahahaha what a laugh,ur uncle ruined ur life nd u decided to take it on ur brother and ruined his,are u happy now,,,mtchew abeg carry ur brother go mountain of Fire for deliverance joor

Get sense naaa

Why are Nigerians always ascribing religious deliverance to matters which are obviously psychological?!