Society has convinced most
women that the pinnacle of
their existence revolves
around marriage to a man and
bearing his children.

That is the reason we see so many
desperate women getting married to the
next available man and cry later in their
marital relationship.

Please, Abeg, It is time you begin to think
high about yourself and tell yourself that
you are complete. In as much as you
need a partner,let go of the idea or
thought that you are not complete if you
do not have a mate.
When he/she comes along, he/she will
complement you.

He/she will come as an addition, a plus to
you and not to complete you because
God made u a complete person.

Lets not out of desperation and seeking
for "completeness" fall into the wrong
hands and regret.

You are wrong. Men or women are not complete untill they re binded with the opposite sex. @Op, I don't think ur mum or dad made u alone, they complimented to make u.

Not where I live o!
Black AMERICAN women dey forbid marriage o!!!
Abegggggggi, NA BABY DADDY DEY REIGN!!!
Shioooooor!

Only in places like NIGERIA of course, FULL OF HYPOCRITES AND PHAGOCYTES!!!!

Not to mention Pharisees, SADDDDDUCEEEES, and IJEBUSITES!!!!

Alikaxon: You are wrong. Men or women are not complete untill they re binded with the opposite sex. @Op, I don't think ur mum or dad made u alone, they complimented to make u.

Rubbish!!!!!

lady gogo:


Rubbish!!!!!

....that doesn't stop u 4rm going to pastor for husband finding prayers.

Alikaxon: ....that doesn't stop u 4rm going to pastor for husband finding prayers.

It is well.

Ladies of this generation will not kill us with men wahala. Instead of you dealing with your heart breaks you are here discouraging other ladies. Plssss babe, go sort yourself out.

vivien_obidike: Society has convinced most
women that the pinnacle of
their existence revolves
around marriage to a man and
bearing his children.

That is the reason we see so many
desperate women getting married to the
next available man and cry later in their
marital relationship.

Please, Abeg, It is time you begin to think
high about yourself and tell yourself that
you are complete. In as much as you
need a partner,let go of the idea or
thought that you are not complete if you
do not have a mate.
When he/she comes along, he/she will
complement you.

He/she will come as an addition, a plus to
you and not to complete you because
God made u a complete person.

Lets not out of desperation and seeking
for "completeness" fall into the wrong
hands and regret.

Perfectly stated

mgbeketoto: Not where I live o!
Black AMERICAN women dey forbid marriage o!!!
Abegggggggi, NA BABY DADDY DEY REIGN!!!
Shioooooor!

Only in places like NIGERIA of course, FULL OF HYPOCRITES AND PHAGOCYTES!!!!

Not to mention Pharisees, SADDDDDUCEEEES, and IJEBUSITES!!!!

black americans with no brains. And u sef carry ur head go join them.

Check and see if the whites there that supports this laws do it more the way black monkeys do it. Una go suffer.

first_lady: Ladies of this generation will not kill us with men wahala. Instead of you dealing with your heart breaks you are here discouraging other ladies. Plssss babe, go sort yourself out.

oh God. This is the first lady i have ever loved in nairaland.

Many ladies dont think like this. They always want to discourage innocent ladies to follow their failed part.

God bless you my dear

Will they hear, no body is discouraging marriage ooo but at least be a bit "careful" when getting married...d type of society we are in looks down on a divorced woman....so once u are in ur are in....

There is need for your kids to grow up with both parents, that is why you have to get married and try to remain married. It is a duty you owe your children and not just societal pressure. Your parents did it for you, your children deserve it.


You only have to watch and be careful who you are getting married to. Marriage is a necessity not an option, your parents paid a price to stay together so you will become psychologically balanced while you grow. The story wouldn't have being the same if you were raised by a single parent.

Alikaxon: ....that doesn't stop u 4rm going to pastor for husband finding prayers.

Words on marble.
Bullet of the year.