I don't know whether it is the level of poverty in Nigeria that is making us shy away from marriage.I cant say I'm not appealing to men,but for some time i haven't come across any one serious enough to say the word marriage.All it is about is beneath the undies.It is sad.I need response.

I think most guys are not ready to get into marriage until they feel they are financially adequate. most guys in uni are definitely not ready to hop into marraige cause they are still students and in there are a lot of young cathes around why stick to one.
You are more likely to find a serious relationship with a guy who is out of uni and in his late 20's early 30's at this time they are more laid back and often secure.

Damsal, its nice to see you. I saw your comments about a couple of my posts. Needless to say, judging from your comments, you don't know me. But its all good. You would know a little better in the days to come.

excatly how long is it going to take me to know u? depending on how complicated  you are. . no offence intended.

for u,not for me,wheneva i want dem,dey flows like water for me

@ Afeni
actually i find you very amusing, probably one of the reasons i tend to keep having a go at you.

Damsal:

@ Afeni
actually i find you very amusing, probably one of the reasons i tend to keep having a go at you.

*coughs* He's taken.

retro:

*coughs* He's taken.

@retro
by you?

I think so.

don't worry i wasn't flirting with him, just having a go as usual.

I just realised you wrote you think so, aren't you sure? you waiting for him to ask or what?

J-Girl paired me up with him. I'm not sure anymore. Anyhoo, no flirting! Haha!

Afeni and Retro = hott sexy couple!

Kadeejah:

Afeni and Retro = hott sexy couple!

Hot and sexy? I don't think so, I think it's more like 'best couple'.

retro:

Hot and sexy? I don't think so, I think it's more like 'best couple'.

k fine
IBB and Deejah = hott sexy couple
Afeni and Retro = best couple
hah! im really bored where tha hell is my hubby

Me too, I'm bored.

Damsal:

I think most guys are not ready to get into marriage until they feel they are financially adequate. most guys in uni are definitely not ready to hop into marraige cause they are still students and in there are a lot of young cathes around why stick to one.
You are more likely to find a serious relationship with a guy who is out of uni and in his late 20's early 30's at this time they are more laid back and often secure.

wrong

I think ure all getting it wrong, there are enough guys ready for marriage.

What makes a guy thinks of marriage are

1. Old age
2. Wify Matterial desired gotten in his Gurl friend.
3. Pressure from Family

The reason why a player plays football is to be able to score goals and win medals. If he fails to score the goals he would continue to play until the final time is blown.

The player is the guy who is not ready for marriage, no matter his age (matured age precisley) or his presents status if he discovered the goals he hoped for in her gurl friend he would definately be ready for marriage. Cos he wouldnt want another man to snatch her away, but if otherwise, he would remain a player until he finds one.

Do you all agree with me ??

AM READ FOR MARRIAGE BUT I NEVA GET A WIFE YOU FIT HOLA ME,  NO SHAKING 

Now ure talking

hi baby i saw ur post i will like to ask u one question are u a wife material, if yes then u should have heard the word marruage wispered in ur ears. are u beautiful can see from ur pic u are loaded both front and back still thats not enough. are u submissive are u calm are u lovable are u prayerful and decent is your family a whala famaily are u d first daughter and are usomeone that can spur ur guy to greatness can u comfort someone when down.
these are some of the factors that men consider.
wen u lack all these the only think i can benefit from u is just sex and its bye bye.
however if u have all these and a player meetes u, cos u are unique he will stay and aftersome time wisper it in ur ears.
not money problemfor my co workers its just the wife material is just not available even if shes dam preety and sexy. so do u get me,

Heard this from some girl pals of recent. I guess its a case of you moving in the wrong circles. Believe me there are boys out there that are looking. You would just have to put urself in an environment where such boys are. Where I dont know, im trying to figure that out myself. Its a new year, and im very optimistic. Best of luck!!

what guys need is bueauty of the inner mind not of the flesh, When you talk about marriage u need to consider 2things, Its 4 beta and 4 worse,
We we are looking for mothers, cos a woman can be a wife but not a mother, LOOK 4 THE MEANING OF MOTHER.

Any girl out there ready for a serious relationship? then holla at me, am Tope, 32 yrs old and i live and work in Lagos. If u re looking for an aristo,pls do not mail me, i want a serious and decent chick. mail jiving2k@yahoo.com.

thanks