Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,195,079 members, 7,957,024 topics. Date: Tuesday, 24 September 2024 at 04:51 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / hello? (2258 Views)
Hello Nairalanders!! Meet My Mom And I / Hello! Nairalanders, Tonye001 Just Got Married!!! / Hello My Nairaland Family (2) (3) (4)
hello? by cinderellla(f): 5:20pm On Jun 29, 2014 |
Re: hello? by angelTI(f): 5:23pm On Jun 29, 2014 |
Take heart sis Let him go! Time will definitely heal you |
Re: hello? by temi4fash(m): 5:41pm On Jun 29, 2014 |
Its difflicult but take heart... All is well... U don wana experience what sickler parent experience... Its a blessing in disguise.. 1 Like |
Re: hello? by Waspy(m): 5:47pm On Jun 29, 2014 |
Now Playing; Neyo- So sick. Op, you just gat to take heart and move forward, take it that God doesn't want you to be a widow with sickling children so early in your life |
Re: hello? by Meestique: 5:51pm On Jun 29, 2014 |
'He wants someone who is AA'... This should be ur line not his. All thesame thank ur stars he made it easier for you even tho it hurts bt trust me, it's better this way cos IVF & adoption stuff might sound quite cool now bt would av posed a threat to ur marriage eventually. Move on sis..! 7 Likes |
Re: hello? by 5minsmadness: 6:07pm On Jun 29, 2014 |
cinderellla: Hello, Isn't it obvious that someone is putting pressure on him not to marry you, probably his parents? They probably were in the dark about your genotype as well and he just told them and they are putting the squeeze on him to drop you. Confront him with this and encourage him to talk about what has made huk change his mind then tell him you've been through the same doubts and you are ready to go through any difficulty with him. Don't just give up, fight for your man! 1 Like |
Re: hello? by MARKone(m): 6:09pm On Jun 29, 2014 |
My sister if ur story is true, then that guy is very heartless and wicked, and does not deserve you. I don't why some men are very insensitive, is he a baby, can't he think!!!, so after meeting with ur parents over his intentions, sends word out, he now decides to chicken out via txt msg, the dude no even get "balls" to say it in front of u, very immature person. Babe just move on, God might just have saved you from one crisis. Pick up the pieces of ur life and move, don't look back o, no time... God will give you ur partner, and AA for that matter. |
Re: hello? by 5minsmadness: 6:11pm On Jun 29, 2014 |
^^^^of course, this is the romantic me speaking. Girl are you sure you want to marry an SS? Its tough o. I've seen sicklers in crisis and its not a pretty sight, pretty depressing. Then knowing that they have a greater probability of dying...girl. I dunno. He might actually be doing you a favour o. 6 Likes |
Re: hello? by cinderellla(f): 6:23pm On Jun 29, 2014 |
He is not a bad Person.. He is a good Person, although he has some challenges. I just hate myself for not sticking to my initial decision and sometimes, I wonder if I was a Plan B in his life. I've had men that are AA ask me out but I really loved him. I always wanted to marry ssomeone I love and understand that's why I chose him. He convinced me when I had doubts, when I was confused, he exPlained it all. I'm just sad. |
Re: hello? by MARKone(m): 6:30pm On Jun 29, 2014 |
5minsmadness: Which man? The man no be "man" jare. What I find revulsive is that the man is supposed to be learned, a medical doctor, I mean he should have known what is/should be involved. He was the one that convinced her, he was not forced to meet the lady's parents, and he made his intentions known. Why get every bodies hope high, and ends up dashing it. OP should just ignore him kpatakpata. |
Re: hello? by Nobody: 7:39pm On Jun 29, 2014 |
Such a 'funny' twist. Move on dear. |
Re: hello? by Nobody: 7:50pm On Jun 29, 2014 |
That's really harsh - Take heart dear but please, don't be hasty to make any irrational decision. I think you should talk, face to face, Eye ball to Eye ball. He need to say it to your face. |
Re: hello? by cinderellla(f): 8:10pm On Jun 29, 2014 |
We've told my parents. He sounds confused but I do not care. He said he is just being real, I wonder if he was fake before. I blame myself for everything. The annoying fact is that he is a resiident doctor and he is 10years older than me. He should be more enlightened. I blame myself for iit all. 1 Like |
Re: hello? by parismarc: 9:34pm On Jun 29, 2014 |
So sorry about all this, please don't blame your self, that's life for you, we win some, we lose some, just trust that there is a reason all this is happening now, u will look back and smile in future and say thank God it went this way. Worry not, someone better will come your way. |
Re: hello? by Nobody: 9:40pm On Jun 29, 2014 |
5minsmadness:this is the worst advice you should give to your fellow woman. Don't advice someone else on what you will never do. You didn't bother to think about the health of the children they will bear if they start having kids. That's too bad! @op,please move on with your life,you will surely meet another man with a better and matching genotype who will love you more. 3 Likes |
Re: hello? by baby124: 9:50pm On Jun 29, 2014 |
Always think with your head and hold on to your convictions. Why will he tell you to hide such a serious issue from your parents. That was clue 1. If anything happens to him, who will take over the burden of taking care of your immediate needs! Those same parents. If you cannot be open with your parents about important things on your intending, then you are not looking out for your best interest. But for the other person's interest and this is the result when he decides to leave you. Just move on. Your match in the first place was very very unreasonable |
Re: hello? by cinderellla(f): 5:56am On Jun 30, 2014 |
Thank you all. |
Re: hello? by zeb04(f): 9:26am On Jun 30, 2014 |
Hahahahaha my dear you are AS and you want to marry SS....you better consider the break up as a blessing in disguise. I guess you havnt seen when an sS person is having crisis....a vey terrible thing to see Am also AS lol I ask the "what is your genotype question" after asking your name. |
Re: hello? by mystiqueDZ(f): 11:04am On Jun 30, 2014 |
I know how you feel...trust me I do! But the truth is this guy did YOU and himself a big favour... Cry all you want,look morosely at things but you ve got to move on #eHug |
Re: hello? by egopersonified(f): 5:36pm On Jul 01, 2014 |
There are alot of AA guys out there, he that is SS know what he has been thru, pls cont wit yr search for mr right, he is just helping u avoid future heart ache, sometimes love alone is not enough, pls move on and always find out genotype b4 gettin close to the opp intimacy |
Re: hello? by nurey(m): 6:50pm On Jul 01, 2014 |
There is nothing bad in marrying ss. my sister is ss and we did not know until she was 24yrs when she had severe malaria attack prompting blood test. also, ss can be managed but as we all know some pips can take some while others cant. if u marry as u will likely have 1aa, 2as and 1ss but the prob is that all ur children can be either of the 3 |
Re: hello? by Rubyrose: 7:44pm On Jul 01, 2014 |
1 Like |
Re: hello? by Ariyke: 12:49am On Jul 02, 2014 |
My dear take heart because he actually saved you the trauma of caring for sick babies |
Re: hello? by Islie: 6:48am On Jul 02, 2014 |
cinderellla: We've told my parents. don't blame urself........ but thank ur star because he made it easier for the break-up you don't choose who to fall inlove with, but its ur head that we will tell you who u stay inlove with.... So u fell for him and its time to rise up and move on |
Re: hello? by Nobody: 12:25pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
My dear, if you love yourself , you should run for your life . |
Re: hello? by shizzle11(m): 5:46pm On Jul 02, 2014 |
Is this supposed to be an issue? that someone made a very wise decision that is best for the both of you, aren't you supposed to be grateful to him? you should appreciate Gods mercy in your life |
Re: hello? by 5minsmadness: 3:43am On Jul 04, 2014 |
nurey: There is nothing bad in marrying ss.Please retest your sister. That's not SS. Either the lab made a mistake or she is SC. Test your sister again in a teaching hospital before she mistakenly gets married to an AS or SS man. I have warned you o, I know what am saying. 1 Like |
Re: hello? by thorpido(m): 6:49am On Jul 04, 2014 |
It's a good thing you both broke up.The pain for you was that it shouldn't have lasted this long in the first place but it's better for you.All that story about IVF,PGD whatever ain't worth all that trouble. You really don't wanna know what stress you've been saved from. |
Re: hello? by nurey(m): 9:51am On Sep 06, 2014 |
5minsmadness:She is already married to AS and their daughter is SS. No major issues for now and the child is 2yrs plus, but it is hard to get penicillin for the child. |
Re: hello? by okirewaju(f): 11:06am On Sep 06, 2014 |
You might be feeling heartbroken now coz its still kinda fresh(the break-up) I mean Year(s) or months from now when you are married to someone else and start having children, you would realize the great favour he did to you Move on jare, it's his loss not your's!! |
(1) (Reply)
Men/women Can We Really Love/submit Respectivelly As The Bible States? / What A Husband Needs From A Wife Is Never Sex / My Encounter With A Girl From Village
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 43 |