I need your response to this question o ye nairalander...

Which of these practices of choosing a life partner ( wife or husband) do you think is better?

1) the traditional way; by which the family of both the male and the female make their in - depth findings of occurrences (both present and past) before saying yes to the union in marriage.

2) the religious beliefs of praying until God reveal who one will marry.

3) taking two or more names to one religion leader or prophet to make a pick of one that is the best to marry.

Pls give reasons to your opinion. Thanks