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Tomboy And Effeminate by Nobody: 3:04am On Aug 02, 2014
Hi everyone. Don't know if I posted this in the right place. Well I've kinda noticed one thing. People(some) prefer when a girl is a tomboy than when a boy acts like a girl. They even go ahead to say the boy is gay α̇nd hardly call the tomboy a lesbian. They see the guy as a weak person which he might not be. Well why is it so?

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Re: Tomboy And Effeminate by Dygeasy(m): 3:26am On Aug 02, 2014
It's usually acceptable when a girl wants to be like a boy. Even we were subconsciously taught as we grew up "WHAT A MAN CAN DO, A WOMAN CAN DO BETTER" and not otherwise. It's no brain surgery.

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Re: Tomboy And Effeminate by mstik(f): 3:46am On Aug 02, 2014
A woman is supposedly the weaker sex and when a man is effeminate, he is supposedly showing weakness and does not fit into the image that is depicted of a typical manly man- strong and in charge. It's however okay for a girl to aspire to be like a man.

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Re: Tomboy And Effeminate by Swiftboy(m): 5:43am On Aug 02, 2014
Tomboys are sexy when they're not homosexual. A guy behaving like a girl is a no no.
Re: Tomboy And Effeminate by Nobody: 7:30am On Aug 02, 2014
A girl who wasn't born as a 'tomboy' can be influenced to become one by her environment or decide to change by herself.

Effiminate boys are born that way and there's possibility that 90% of them are gay. No man desires to be effiminate.

Being 'effiminate' doesn't make them weak but high percentage of them are weak.

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Re: Tomboy And Effeminate by AtheistD(m): 9:19am On Aug 02, 2014
Why is lesbianism accepted while male homosexuality is not accepted?

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Re: Tomboy And Effeminate by Nobody: 9:42am On Aug 02, 2014
AtheistD: Why is lesbianism accepted while male homosexuality is not accepted?

None is accepted. angry

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Re: Tomboy And Effeminate by AtheistD(m): 9:48am On Aug 02, 2014
FrancisTony:

None is accepted. angry

Some people accept lesbianism and abhor male homosexuality.

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Re: Tomboy And Effeminate by Nobody: 9:51am On Aug 02, 2014
AtheistD: Why is lesbianism accepted while male homosexuality is not accepted?


It's a subconscious culture.

Refer back to mstik's post above. It explains it
Re: Tomboy And Effeminate by Nobody: 9:52am On Aug 02, 2014
AtheistD:

Some people accept lesbianism and abhor male homosexuality.

Okay. Some people sha.

Excluding me. undecided

DEDUCTION- They are hypocrites. Same people that will say it ain't our culture.
Re: Tomboy And Effeminate by Nobody: 9:54am On Aug 02, 2014
onirugbon1:


It's a subconscious culture.

Refer back to mstik's post above. It explains it

Mstik post didn't explain anything.

Both are bad. Say the truth and shame devil. angry
Re: Tomboy And Effeminate by Nobody: 10:00am On Aug 02, 2014
FrancisTony:

Mstik post didn't explain anything.

Both are bad. Say the truth and shame devil. angry

Don't get it twisted. A masculine female or a feminine guy is not wrong. Thats their own nature caused by hormones playing tricks on their bodies.

Whats wrong is faggism/homosexuality. Thank God for Naija. 16 years straight up in the kirikiri hole.
Re: Tomboy And Effeminate by mstik(f): 3:29pm On Aug 02, 2014
Are you confused
FrancisTony:

Mstik post didn't explain anything.

Both are bad. Say the truth and shame devil. angry
Re: Tomboy And Effeminate by Alikaxon(m): 4:20pm On Aug 13, 2014
A tomboy girl is not really attractive. A girl must be a girl before she can be sexy; a guy is not sexy to a guy (except gays, I know). I don't see how a guy would find a tomboy attractive..... She is very strong physically, very bold, less emotional(like men), I mean you 'll be so bored courting with your typical fellow boy, 'cos those weak and tender nature of girls, are what makes them attractive to men, and I know girls too don't like effeminate guys............ No filmtricks here; FACT!

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Re: Tomboy And Effeminate by Nobody: 6:38pm On Aug 13, 2014
I love tomboyz

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Re: Tomboy And Effeminate by Seun(m): 10:26am On Aug 16, 2014
AtheistD: Some people accept lesbianism and abhor male homosexuality.
In Nigeria they are both hated.

Tomboys are rarely as tomboyish as they think they are. Even if they dress/play like men, the way they think is still obviously very feminine.

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Re: Tomboy And Effeminate by GSKing: 4:28pm On Aug 16, 2014
Seun: In Nigeria they are both hated.

Tomboys are rarely as tomboyish as they think they are. Even if they dress/play like men, the way they think is still obviously very feminine.

hmmm @bolded, SAYS YOU.

Thank your stars you said "rarely".
Re: Tomboy And Effeminate by GSKing: 4:34pm On Aug 16, 2014
FrancisTony:

Mstik post didn't explain anything.

Both are bad. Say the truth and shame devil. angry

You're in no position (neither is the devil nor god) to say whether homosexuality is good or bad.

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Re: Tomboy And Effeminate by Nobody: 4:37pm On Aug 16, 2014
GSKing:

You're in no position (neither is the devil nor god) to say whether homosexuality is good or bad.


I know.

Just stating the obvious.
Re: Tomboy And Effeminate by GSKing: 4:40pm On Aug 16, 2014
FrancisTony:


I know.

Just stating the obvious.

@bolded, VERY GOOD.
Re: Tomboy And Effeminate by Seun(m): 5:23pm On Aug 16, 2014
GSKing: hmmm @bolded, SAYS YOU.
Thank your stars you said "rarely".
Which exceptions to what I said have you met?
Re: Tomboy And Effeminate by Pr0ton: 5:29pm On Aug 16, 2014
FrancisTony:


I know.

Just stating the obvious.

grin

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Re: Tomboy And Effeminate by Pr0ton: 5:40pm On Aug 16, 2014
mstik. Try to use reasonable pics as your dp and stop fooling yourself with the pic you have there, ok? Thanks.

Yours sincerely,
Pr0ton.
Re: Tomboy And Effeminate by GSKing: 7:54pm On Aug 16, 2014
Seun:
Which exceptions to what I said have you met?

Me
Re: Tomboy And Effeminate by Nobody: 8:59pm On Aug 16, 2014
I love tomboys. Not the furgly ones sha.

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Re: Tomboy And Effeminate by uchihahinata: 10:35pm On Aug 16, 2014
Well. Most tomboys I've seen are quite sexy, they are fun to be with and all.
But boys who act like girls....I do not know the word to use for them. They are all shades of wrong.
And people do consider both parties lesbians and gays.
Re: Tomboy And Effeminate by Nobody: 12:08am On Aug 17, 2014
Alikaxon: A tomboy girl is not really attractive. A girl must be a girl before she can be sexy; a guy is not sexy to a guy (except gays, I know). I don't see how a guy would find a tomboy attractive..... She is very strong physically, very bold, less emotional(like men), I mean you 'll be so bored courting with your typical fellow boy, 'cos those weak and tender nature of girls, are what makes them attractive to men, and I know girls too don't like effeminate guys............ No filmtricks here; FACT!
You haven't come across a sexy,sweet tomboy before.

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Re: Tomboy And Effeminate by uchihahinata: 7:18am On Aug 17, 2014
Alikaxon: A tomboy girl is not really attractive. A girl must be a girl before she can be sexy; a guy is not sexy to a guy (except gays, I know). I don't see how a guy would find a tomboy attractive..... She is very strong physically, very bold, less emotional(like men), I mean you 'll be so bored courting with your typical fellow boy, 'cos those weak and tender nature of girls, are what makes them attractive to men, and I know girls too don't like effeminate guys............ No filmtricks here; FACT!
A tomboy is usually more sexy and attractive than an effeminate.
No matter how they(effeminate) tries to be sexy, it doesn't jell at all.
Probably you haven't met a sexy one.
Re: Tomboy And Effeminate by Illuminatus(m): 11:37am On Aug 17, 2014
onirugbon1:

Don't get it twisted. A masculine female or a feminine guy is not wrong. Thats their own nature caused by hormones playing tricks on their bodies.

Whats wrong is faggism/homosexuality. Thank God for Naija. 16 years straight up in the kirikiri hole.
You wrote your own act, ba? People saying what they don't know.

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Re: Tomboy And Effeminate by mstik(f): 7:43pm On Aug 18, 2014
What's your business? Who are you by the way
Pr0ton: mstik. Try to use reasonable pics as your dp and stop fooling yourself with the pic you have there, ok? Thanks.

Yours sincerely,
Pr0ton.
Re: Tomboy And Effeminate by Pr0ton: 7:50pm On Aug 18, 2014
mstik: What's your business? Who are you by the way

>>> click here
Re: Tomboy And Effeminate by mstik(f): 11:34pm On Aug 18, 2014
Smh
Pr0ton:

>>> click here

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