How can someone effectively apply withdrawal method when a couple want to stop child bearing . There are other methods from pill taking to injection . Over time there has been complaints of side effects of these and numerous disadvantages. Even condom has its own side effect like "break in action" when the man wants to put on the condom. As natural as withdrawal method is and the enjoyment at the peak of action, is it possible for couple to effectively use this method and achieve their aim not producing a child? Or what method do u think is most effective in family planning?

Abstinence is the key.
Beside, first to comment.

The effectiveness depends on how disciplined you are during the act. If you can be disciplined enough to withdraw at the peak of pilgrimage, then it is 100% effective.

You should also take time to study your wife's menstrual cycle to understand the safe days when you don't need to withdraw.

Gwazah: Abstinence is the key.

Abstinence in marriage? Are you this silly or you just rush to comment without reading.

Withdrawal should be used only if you have mastered the Control of your pelvic muscle, could be natural or through exercises.
If you are through with child bearing, you can take the pills and damn the consequences. If not, use a condom

"Withdrawer" ke?
From which toto-bank?
Depositer method nko?

All these "ADEMEJI" peeps don come again o!
Bros make you speak Yoruba na. . . . .HABA!!!!

Withdrawal method is the best if you can learn not to get carried away wit the sex cos it can be hard. I know cos I use withdrawal method and I've not gotten my girlfriend pregnant. Not that I know of anyway

kultimate009: Withdrawal method is the best if you can learn not to get carried away wit the sex cos it can be hard. I know cos I use withdrawal method and I've not gotten my girlfriend pregnant. Not that I know of anyway

So you've been fornicating and even proud to announce it? Change your ways.

PassingShot:

So you've been fornicating and even proud to announce it? Change your ways.

Lol... Abegy... I am not some hypocrite that will hide behind a wall and deny things I do... And who says itz not good to have sex? And b4 you say the bible, let me ask you this.... Can you say for sure that everybody that lived b4 christianity came to Nigeria are in hell now?

Well, I can assure that withdrawal method is very safe. Just know when to withdraw and clean very well before re-inserting because a tiny fluid can get her pregnant.

Another surest method is to practice Karezza. Using that, you will know the untimate goal is not to arrive but will still enjoy your lovemaking and even last longer as time goes on for even up to 20 mins....

The choice is urs... its all about self control... that is taught as first steps in karezza.

@Op na only withdrawer? What of withcupboard? typing withdrawer over and over shows it all, if PEJ drop one now you'll be the first to laugh

kultimate009: Lol... Abegy... I am not some hypocrite that will hide behind a wall and deny things I do... And who says itz not good to have sex? And b4 you say the bible, let me ask you this.... Can you say for sure that everybody that lived b4 christianity came to Nigeria are in hell now?

Enjoy your life. But be careful.

Its called withdrawal method, not withdrawer.

Anybody can make mistake, you guys should stop being asses about it.

@Op withdrawal method is all about self control. Its very effective as long as you do not mistakenly deposit anything. Also good to wipe clean before re-insertion or better yet don't reinsert. It has minimal side effects.
Also learn your wife's safe period so you can play and not have to withdraw during that time.
Have fun.

PassingShot:

Enjoy your life. But be careful.

Gracias... You too

Sipping d baby oku drink while I listen to d xpert

I don't do withdrawal.
What about billings method?
During the unsafe period, you use condom.
Pills,injectable, implant and surgical has side effect at the long run.

Abstinence is the best and safest.

freshdude2: Abstinence is the best and safest.

For married people too?

KanwuliaJara: "Withdrawer" ke?
From which toto-bank?
Depositer method nko?

All these "ADEMEJI" peeps don come again o!
Bros make you speak Yoruba na. . . . .HABA!!!!

hehehehe be nice my tomato. You know how long it took yours too to smoothen up when you first came to yankee.

withdrawal method is not effective, look for other more effective methods of family planning

Dont get u , are u trying to abuse or contribute reasonably like other posters ?

KanwuliaJara: "Withdrawer" ke?
From which toto-bank?
Depositer method nko?

All these "ADEMEJI" peeps don come again o!
Bros make you speak Yoruba na. . . . .HABA!!!!

bellong:

For married people too?

In terms of birth control/family planning, yes.

I never believe i could be a victim of "wrong word" batching ....... But poo happens, shit happens. We learn everyday and sometimes at the expenses of mistake. Come see prof. Wole soyinkas . Lol

It's quite risky on days on which the female is ovulating and therefore fertile. Even if the man withdraws, some drops of precum may be released before and get the lady pregnant.

ademega: Dont get u , are u trying to abuse or contribute reasonably like other posters ?

You ALL are the ABUSIVE POSTERS!
I only find humor in "slips"!
I will insult only when I am insulted!

kultimate009: Withdrawal method is the best if you can learn not to get carried away wit the sex cos it can be hard. I know cos I use withdrawal method and I've not gotten my girlfriend pregnant. Not that I know of anyway

...what if she's infertile?

Gwazah: Abstinence is the key.
Beside, first to comment.

Abstinence ke? In marriage?

slimyem: ...what if she's infertile?

Naaaah.... Shez very fertile

freshdude2: In terms of birth control/family planning, yes.

So if you plan to have a 4years spacing between your children, then no sex for 4years or what?

Withdrawal?!

I thought it is effective too until I got a call from village that my father's friend needed my attention.

You know, I used to teacher a course whenever am in the town, one thing led to the other and I went into practicals with my dad's friend's daughter. Being a quick and unexpected one, I seized that opportunity and relied on the withdrawal method, that resulted to that early Monday morning urgent call.
Honestly, I withdrew it, but I can't just explain how I lost a drop inside the honeywell till today.

It resulted to my carbon copy, 'Ayotomiwa (alias: who-go come,go-come)', I can't deny the semblance.

Hmmmm......,i tot dey said early akamu can impregnate someone?(pls dnt mind my lang).

ledafaze:

Another surest method is to practice Karezza. Using that, you will know the untimate goal is not to arrive but will still enjoy your lovemaking and even last longer .

Which one come be Karezza, una don come again.
I just googled that up, that thing na suffer abeg

ITbomb:
Which one com be Karezza, una don come again.
I just googled that up, that thing na suffer abeg

Haw e take b suffer? If u get a good guide wey dey kampe and simple... Na sufree u go dey go.

The best guide I can give u is www.reuniting.info/karezza_four_easy_steps