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Help: My Husband Sleeps With My Relatives by iamtomiymb: 5:09pm On Sep 06, 2014
I have been married for 10+ years and thought I was happily married till some weeks ago. From the fourth year into my marriage my mom advised us to take on 2 female relatives. One was 22 and the other 13 at that time. In 2010, we noticed that the older of the girls had become so close to my husband to the point that anyone could easily conclude they were intimate.\

She became rude to me but got closer to my husband and he never saw anything wrong with her attitude. He would take her to school (UNILAG) and pick her up regularly.

He would gladly buy the exact items for her and myself whenever he traveled. Several times he gave her large sums without my consent or knowledge but thankfully it all came out through her mom.


He blurted out once that she had STD and I continue readin here http://ibilenaija..com/2014/09/help-my-husband-sleeps-with-my-relative.html

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Re: Help: My Husband Sleeps With My Relatives by Truckpusher(m): 5:12pm On Sep 06, 2014
How do we come in then? undecided

Girls nowadays don't take their girlfriends on a date ,how much more having two live-in relatives and of course your randy husband couldn't keep his tom inside his pants ,oya na carry your tongue count your teeth.

Ipatago motor buru ajah shocked shocked

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Re: Help: My Husband Sleeps With My Relatives by McWhillion(m): 5:17pm On Sep 06, 2014
Seriously I can't blame men who have to live under the same roof with their wives and other grown up females who are not in any way related to the men.
Re: Help: My Husband Sleeps With My Relatives by Caracta(f): 5:20pm On Sep 06, 2014
I think i should start a blog and post fabricated stories there. Nigerians sha. Anything for traffic.

Make we continue reading on that link abi? Na textbook?

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Re: Help: My Husband Sleeps With My Relatives by Nobody: 5:24pm On Sep 06, 2014
The two posters above Caracta didn't get your jinx.
You're not the one in that story if not you wouldn't be diverting people to a blog,you would have finished the story.
Re: Help: My Husband Sleeps With My Relatives by Truckpusher(m): 5:26pm On Sep 06, 2014
Caracta: I think i should start a blog and post fabricated stories there. Nigerians sha. Anything for traffic.

Make we continue reading on that link abi? Na textbook?
I use to think that women like gossips. cheesy
Re: Help: My Husband Sleeps With My Relatives by Caracta(f): 5:28pm On Sep 06, 2014
Truckpusher: I use to think that women like gossips. cheesy

Am i a woman?

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Re: Help: My Husband Sleeps With My Relatives by Caracta(f): 5:29pm On Sep 06, 2014
Odilafta: The two posters above Caracta didn't get your jinx.
You're not the one in that story if not you wouldn't be diverting people to a blog,you would have finished the story.

I just tire.

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Re: Help: My Husband Sleeps With My Relatives by Truckpusher(m): 5:55pm On Sep 06, 2014
Caracta:

Am i a woman?
O! I see, So girls likes to gossip? tongue

Are you afraid to be addressed as a woman? cheesy
Re: Help: My Husband Sleeps With My Relatives by Caracta(f): 5:57pm On Sep 06, 2014
Truckpusher: O! I see, So girls likes to gossip? tongue

Are you afraid to be addressed as a woman? cheesy

Am i a girl?

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Re: Help: My Husband Sleeps With My Relatives by Nobody: 6:53pm On Sep 06, 2014
stupiid op
Re: Help: My Husband Sleeps With My Relatives by cocoberry(f): 7:22pm On Sep 06, 2014
Was actually eager to comment on d topic, only for d OP to redirect me to another link.............. silently hisssssssssss and walk out of thread.
Re: Help: My Husband Sleeps With My Relatives by Nobody: 7:36pm On Sep 06, 2014
Well just to prevent traffic on this blog with his cheap attempt at publicity, I took it upon myself to copy and paste the story here. Here you go

I have been married for 10+ years and thought I was happily married till some weeks ago. From the fourth year into my marriage my mom advised us to take on 2 female relatives. One was 22 and the other 13 at that time. In 2010, we noticed that the older of the girls had become so close to my husband to the point that anyone could easily conclude they were intimate.\

She became rude to me but got closer to my husband and he never saw anything wrong with her attitude. He would take her to school (UNILAG) and pick her up regularly.

He would gladly buy the exact items for her and myself whenever he traveled. Several times he gave her large sums without my consent or knowledge but thankfully it all came out through her mom.


He blurted out once that she had STD and I was quite embarrassed that he would know that about her if nothing was going on. In the end we decided she couldn’t go on living in my house and my mom came to take her away even though my husband kicked against it furiously. The younger one stayed on and that is now my greatest undoing.

She grew up quickly and she is now 20 and in her second year in University...
She recently sent her Dad (who lives in Lagos) a suicide message stating that she was going to kill herself if she is allowed to continue staying with us. Her dad has now called me to say he followed up with the suicide message and she confided in him that my husband dis-v!rg!ned her at 15 and had continued to sleep with her till she put up some resistance late last year.

She said he is also with her roommate and claimed to have seen a message from the girl to my husband implicating him. She also said that she had caught my husband and the older girl that left in 2010 in suspicious positions before the girl was sent away.

I have confronted him with all these and he is not giving tangible reasons to disbelieve the girl. Truth is I know he did these things because of other things the girl told me that I have since confirmed one of which is that he brought a stray girl (18 yrs) into our home under the guise that she was a distant cousin’s daughter. It turned out he met her randomly and merely chatted her up.

My Pastors have intervened and told me all these are true but that “he is a man and will never openly admit it now”. They are asking me to let go for the sake of my children and the marriage. I am however upset that he will get off this easily and the innocent girl will not get justice. Should I cover his sins and appeal to the girl’s father who has indicated that he will do as I advise or should I insist that he is made to apologize to the girl?

I keep thinking what if she is my own daughter!! I am at my wits end trying to figure out if I should act as a wife or a mother! Will a good wife cover her husband’s sins

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Re: Help: My Husband Sleeps With My Relatives by EfemenaXY: 7:37pm On Sep 06, 2014
Caracta: I think i should start a blog and post fabricated stories there. Nigerians sha. Anything for traffic.

Make we continue reading on that link abi? Na textbook?

You beat me to it.

Was just going to say it's getting easier to spot the fakes from a mile off. Anyway, reading stuff here should be purely for entertainment and nothing more.

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Re: Help: My Husband Sleeps With My Relatives by EfemenaXY: 8:00pm On Sep 06, 2014
jennykadry: Well just to prevent traffic on this blog with his cheap attempt at publicity, I took it upon myself to copy and paste the story here. Here you go


Lol, Jenny cheesy
Re: Help: My Husband Sleeps With My Relatives by Nobody: 8:03pm On Sep 06, 2014
EfemenaXY:

Lol, Jenny cheesy
hello
Re: Help: My Husband Sleeps With My Relatives by egopersonified(f): 8:28pm On Sep 06, 2014
Eya, see story. Matrimonial home turn brothel. Na all this kain one dey manufacture HIV for. Just a matter of time for him to continue his rubbish with his kids.
Re: Help: My Husband Sleeps With My Relatives by Ucheosefoh(m): 9:21pm On Sep 06, 2014
I have read this news on Lindaikeji blog sometime ago so the op should have credited the right source instead of directing us to his blog for traffic
Re: Help: My Husband Sleeps With My Relatives by rofemiguwa(f): 10:57pm On Sep 06, 2014
Leave him o! Run away ! Don't be like my aunt.
Her husband kept defiling most Young female relatives in the house
She turned a blind eye. Refusing to belive
Till I broke his head when he tried it with me.

Am so sure that idiot of man is waiting for his daughter to mature small before he starts defiling all.
All lemme baff u will soon mature
Waiting to hear the story

Maybe na then her eye go open. When her he goat husband make her daughter pregnant.

A man that doesn't respect ur bloodline, ur matriomonail home is not worth being with.

Run for ur life before you leave with a terrible disease.

My 2 kobo if this story is true

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