Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,165,295 members, 7,860,723 topics. Date: Friday, 14 June 2024 at 02:56 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / Should I Say Our Women Are Lazy In Western World Or What? (1091 Views)
House: Is This True Of Our Women / Family Tips For 'lazy' African Women. / Why Do Our Women Prefer Perming, Fixing, Jerry Curls To Plaiting Their Hair? (2) (3) (4)
Should I Say Our Women Are Lazy In Western World Or What? by coolboy100(m): 11:53am On Nov 02, 2008 |
why is it that any time a man come back from work and decied to help in doing some house work like wash the baby or clean any part of the house, the next day the woman will take that to be your work, upon she is not working i am talking of people living in europe or america, should i call it that our women are lazy when the come to western world or what? |
Re: Should I Say Our Women Are Lazy In Western World Or What? by LadyT(f): 11:58am On Nov 02, 2008 |
Stop making up stories and tell us what really happened. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Say Our Women Are Lazy In Western World Or What? by coolboy100(m): 12:08pm On Nov 02, 2008 |
noting much that is what i have just said, when you do any domestic work the next day your woman will ask you to be doing it or are you one of them? |
Re: Should I Say Our Women Are Lazy In Western World Or What? by plappville(f): 5:56pm On Nov 02, 2008 |
You dont have to generalise it, not all women does that, my hubby do come back from work and do the cooking or even help in clearing the table and washing the dishes volunterily , that doesn't mean i will take that as an advantage by waiting for him to do that every time. Do u find pleasure helping ur wife at home, ?? because the way u sound here seems u . |
Re: Should I Say Our Women Are Lazy In Western World Or What? by chika98: 6:02pm On Nov 02, 2008 |
Plappville: Your son looks so cute! |
Re: Should I Say Our Women Are Lazy In Western World Or What? by iice(f): 6:05pm On Nov 02, 2008 |
LadyT: |
Re: Should I Say Our Women Are Lazy In Western World Or What? by plappville(f): 6:23pm On Nov 02, 2008 |
chika98: Thank u, its the lords making |
Re: Should I Say Our Women Are Lazy In Western World Or What? by asitis(f): 11:40am On Nov 03, 2008 |
Not all women in the western world are like that, my husband cooks, clean, bath the kids, run errands etc. We both help each other out, he doesn't consider me doing everything on my own and does what hasn't been done, there are days i might not feel like cooking, he'll cook or we eat takeaway, i don't consider all this as his job and neither does he consider it as mine. |
Re: Should I Say Our Women Are Lazy In Western World Or What? by coolboy100(m): 7:03pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
Please don't tell me you dont know what i mean, if your hubby is doing all that as you say, and one day he come back home very tired and tell you that he can't do any of those be/live me you will make the house hot 4 him or not? I am not saying all the women are the same, but, |
Re: Should I Say Our Women Are Lazy In Western World Or What? by asitis(f): 7:54pm On Nov 03, 2008 |
coolboy100: I wouldn't at all, if i can i would do it if not we'll leave it till say maybe the next day, we've never had an argument because of such, it'll just be too petty, but i do understand what you're talking about though. |
Re: Should I Say Our Women Are Lazy In Western World Or What? by Leilah(f): 11:57am On Nov 04, 2008 |
Hey hay stop there, I work FT so does my husband, he sweeps the floor once a week and washes the dishes maybe once a week. He cannot even boil water. When it comes to the kitchen its like there is some form of juju in it. Note* I am irish. Any nigerian lady I know of here in Ireland works like a horse hwile her husband sits down (even though they both work the same hours) 1 Like |
Re: Should I Say Our Women Are Lazy In Western World Or What? by coolboy100(m): 12:23pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
Ok irish wowan, thank you, are you married to an african or irish like yourself before i know what to tell you? |
Re: Should I Say Our Women Are Lazy In Western World Or What? by Leilah(f): 8:52pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
No what I'm telling you is Nigerian men need to stop to being lazy. I mean in cases where both parties work 9-5. Its different when the woman doesn't work at all, bt even when she does, its obvious they do still NOTHING. |
Re: Should I Say Our Women Are Lazy In Western World Or What? by coolboy100(m): 9:03pm On Nov 04, 2008 |
hello leileh, you did not answer my question,take care of your husband ok |
Re: Should I Say Our Women Are Lazy In Western World Or What? by coolboy100(m): 10:10pm On Nov 20, 2008 |
why is it that no body is replying, i am still waiting,can some one tell me why this kind of thing is happening? |
Re: Should I Say Our Women Are Lazy In Western World Or What? by sistawoman: 10:55pm On Nov 20, 2008 |
Not all women act like that. My husband helps around the house when I am sick. He works nights so by the time he comes home the house is picked up and cleaned up so there is really nothing for him to do. We have children and they have thier chores and really there is nothing for hubby to do with the only exception being when I am sick then he caters to me and takes care of the kids and the house. But because he does that when I am sick I dont expect him to always do it. Most Saturdays if he is not working he will pitch in and help out with the special "saturday" chores. |
Re: Should I Say Our Women Are Lazy In Western World Or What? by Hotstepper(f): 1:59am On Nov 21, 2008 |
and who said domestic work is only 4 women? abeg, wake up oooooooooo, in the western world is where both da woman and the man gat to to things together, that is collaborate |
Re: Should I Say Our Women Are Lazy In Western World Or What? by coolboy100(m): 10:59pm On Nov 21, 2008 |
@sistawoman,you are the type of woman anyman will pray to have, as a wife,joining you in doing domestic work is normal but leavingthe work for him to come back from work and do is what i am against, do you understand? |
(1) (Reply)
. / Is This Alright? / Pls Help Me!!!
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 19 |