IrishKez:

Lmaoo @ 99 questions

Actually dear I still have a long way to go and many more goals to attain to(at least I'd have tried). Cannot pause someone's life cos I selfishly want them to wait for me till when I don't even know. It's pure wickedness and should I even think of doing it, it'll derail me too.

Frankly however, I must say you're good and deserves better, if things actually appear like they seem.

crackhaus:
Honestly, you've lost me... was I asking you to marry me?

You're a funny chic, interestingly weird

MizMyColi: 5 Reasons Not to Judge People:

1. You don’t know what is going on inside another person.
How many times have you been asked how you are, and said “fine,” even though you weren’t? We all know this is true. We mask our pain. We suffer in silence. We put on the happy/smiley face when we are dying inside. Just because you don’t see it, doesn’t mean another person isn’t hurting. A person’s actions or behaviors may not be any indication of what is going on inside of them.

2. People are doing the best they can.
I know this is sometimes difficult to believe about another person. I get that. It’s hard for me at times to believe that about others. But think about it. You know it’s true. It’s complicated! Life is complicated! People are complicated! There are a lot of moving parts inside and outside a person. Aren’t we all a little off – carrying pain, unhealed wounds, ways we protect ourselves, and other dysfunctions we have picked up a long the way?

3. You don’t have all the answers.
At times we can look at another person’s life and just see all this stupid stuff it appears they’re doing. On the outside looking in, another person’s life seems pretty cut and dry to us in terms of what they should be doing or not doing or how they are handing a situation or whatever. It’s amazing how quickly we turn into the infallible personal life coach when it comes to another person’s life!

4. Being judged hurts.
It’s quite possible that the most painful human feeling is one of being judged. There’s so much involved – silent pain; being misunderstood; rejection in the very moment we most need understanding, love and acceptance.

5. Every human being is worth love and acceptance.
Judging people often leads to objectifying them. People are not objects. A suicide happens every 20 seconds. People will often show up in our lives at the end of their rope… hanging on by a thread. The expression of love, acceptance, understanding and kindness to someone who is struggling or hurting may be the difference between them giving up on themselves and life or finding the courage and hope to keep living.

Give Everyone Grace.

Source

goofyone:

I was pretty convinced you wrote this until i read to the end and saw "source". Nevertheless, I'm pretty convinced this describes your cute and warm thinking.

This you?!
Where you been, Phil?
You should come around more oft joor
Of course, I missed you!
Thanks for those glowing compliments.

IrishKez:

Lolz
I sure can tell you don't know me.

You see, I believe that every relationship between opposite sexes should have a prospect and for me marriage should be it unless it doesn't work out. That has been where I disagree with some guys. Unfortunately for them, I don't believe in bf/gf understanding of the system we find ourselves. So whenever a guy ask for friendship I mentally calculates that our understanding of that word differs and I try to explain why It would not hold but for some that understands and sincerely want it my way I tactfully decline based on the reasons i gave earlier.

Seriously I didn't 'lost' you as postulated, rather we're simply coming from a world(personal belief and ideology) apart.

crackhaus:
Lol...okay o

Good morning to you

MizMyColi:

This you?!
Where you been, Phil?
You should come around more oft joor
Of course, I missed you!
Thanks for those glowing compliments.

goofyone:
Lol. Certainly missed you too. Just been around sha, but our timezones are opposite now. Hope you doing great.

Oh!
Really?

No wonder.

Yeah, I'm doing pretty well, better even.
How has it been?
The experience, the weather, cuisines, ladies :-x

Will you be back anytime soon?
Where you at exactly?

MizMyColi:


Oh!
Really?

No wonder.

Yeah, I'm doing pretty well, better even.
How has it been?
The experience, the weather, cuisines, ladies :-x

Will you be back anytime soon?
Where you at exactly?

goofyone:
Been good. You really wanted to know about the ladies, right? well, I've got only weather stories, if you want to listen.
Been raining, not seriously. Just mildly. Weather's been really friendly.
Soonest hopefully. I'm somewhere in the Occident.

LoLzz
C'mon, don't be a spoilsport jorey
You've tactfully taken out the part I'm more interested in.

Oh, I take it it's the UK or France or Spain

It's strangely comforting you'll be back soon. LoL

You be good and stay safe.