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Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by Hollyb(f): 7:32pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Sophyrocks:I agree with you, marriage is meant to be enjoyed and not endured 1 Like |
Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by Hollyb(f): 7:34pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
onirugbon1:What i mean by "Blackmarket" is that in marriage what you see is sometimes not what you get at the end of the day |
Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by Nobody: 7:38pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
pickabeau1: hehehehe |
Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by esmeralda1(f): 7:44pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
I will say yes and no Yes because u cannot know a person perfectly until u live together. My hubby n I dated for sm years b4 we wedded but I never knew he gets cold so easily till we started living together he didn't tell me thruout our dating period so u can imagine my surprise d second day we wedded and he sneezed about 15 times consecutively, what!! I was shocked wot was that, "I'm feeling cold" was his reply and he did same thing everyday in a week u can imagine and I never knew thruout wen we dated, thank God it isn't a bad surprise Situations at times make pple change in marriage, sickness, money, barrenness etc dts y prayer is necessary No becos 2pple that have made up their minds to make a marriage work will get everything they put into it. Faithfulness, help, support, care and all, to them it will just be wot they foresaw while they were dating |
Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by Hollyb(f): 7:48pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
esmeralda1:thanks for this experience. Please we need more experience from married people |
Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by Nobody: 8:04pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Hollyb: Actually in blackmarkets most of the time what you see is what get. They sell quality but through illegal means. What you are describing is Gbanjo market. Thats where what you see is sometimes not what you get |
Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by Nobody: 8:05pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Hollyb: Our ladies should unsubscribe gender equality Women should also adopt bible teaching on marriage @sophyrocks...should we discontinued the old belief of staying married and getting old together, then divorce should be encouraged as a norm in the emerging new world. Like I said, no one is perfect so it's possible a woman will have 5 husbands in her life time and this is totally unacceptable and unwise if religion should factor in. 1 Like |
Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by Hollyb(f): 8:06pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
onirugbon1:alright o |
Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by Dayjhihannon01(m): 8:12pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
MzMariah:hian.. D way u dey see am be say na ur turn finally.. ... So buckle up join d wagon.. |
Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by Nobody: 8:13pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Dayjhihannon01:Shooooo..na by force? |
Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by Nobody: 8:16pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
SeaGold: No. we cannot discontinue the belief but it depends on what one faces in marriage. For example, can you forgive your wife if she cheats on you and then decide to work on your marriage? |
Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by Dayjhihannon01(m): 8:16pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
helen4:this is the point... Dis is what marriage is.. No perfect marriage.. Adaptation and beliv dat u ar made for eachother, for better for worse.. Character, attitudes,, till you grow old and just bliv she's dat best friend u can't do without.. I wish it could be as simple as this... |
Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by Dayjhihannon01(m): 8:20pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
MzMariah:hehehehhe.. Nor b force ooo na ur turn... .. We all wished it doesn't come sooner, but here is it @d back'f ur leg.... |
Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by Nobody: 8:22pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Dayjhihannon01: Do you know if I'm married? |
Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by Nobody: 8:23pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Hollyb: you can never build a happy home/family with such a mentality, no matter who you are married to. there're equally a lot to enjoy as well as endure as far as marriage is concerned. ....... ask Mom. |
Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by Dayjhihannon01(m): 8:24pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
MzMariah:ne nah.. Jst suspected u are not yet... Am I wrong? |
Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by Hollyb(f): 8:26pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Scyllapatron:really? |
Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by Nobody: 8:26pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Dayjhihannon01:Hahahahahaha. Nah. |
Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by Nobody: 8:28pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Sophyrocks: The bible stated that's enough reason for divorce |
Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by Nobody: 8:29pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Hollyb: yah! |
Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by Hollyb(f): 8:30pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Dayjhihannon01:abi o, if wishes were horses! |
Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by Nobody: 8:31pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
SeaGold: That means your wife is free to divorce you if you cheat on her right? |
Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by Dayjhihannon01(m): 8:36pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
MzMariah:u seeeeeeee |
Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by Nobody: 8:36pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Sophyrocks: Hahahahahahahha...that's right. |
Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by Dayjhihannon01(m): 8:38pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Hollyb:yea... Until partners see demselvs as best friends or brothers nd sisters.. Not d feeling like ''dia a lotta better men nd women out dia'' den marriage will be d best institution.. |
Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by Hollyb(f): 8:40pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Dayjhihannon01:yes ooooo. Tru talk |
Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by Nobody: 8:41pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Dayjhihannon01:Limmi jor. |
Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by 2CatWoman: 8:43pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
What has the Bible got to do with anything? I'm not a christian but is the whole "submission" sermon just too convenient for you? |
Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by Nobody: 8:56pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
SeaGold: Cool. So since you can divorce because of infidelity, why condemn others who have done the same? have we walked in their shoes? You can see that a vice such as Cheating is rampant around us as a result of low moral values. And as a result of this, countless stds abound even the ones that never existed before.. I, for example, have zero tolerance for cheating. I love my wellbeing and my health soooooooooo much that i cannot put up with it. I can't even stand the sight of sucha man so i would consider divorce since the bible allows it. I do not always judge people who go for divorce based on very good reasons because im not in their shoes. Each one of us will decide what will be best for ourselves as long as we are happy. But when we live our lives to save face, to please people we will never be happy. |
Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by Nobody: 8:59pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
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Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by Nobody: 9:06pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Sophyrocks: Great analysis. Easier said than done with a palpable cause to justify it. Glad to know you uphold marriage in high esteem. |
Re: Is Marriage Truly A Blackmarket? by Dayjhihannon01(m): 9:23pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
MzMariah: |
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