Since at some point in a couple's life especially when children come into the picture Help is often needed as the work load increases, opting for a male or female house help which is wiser to reduce sexual abuse(to the child) or sexual provocation(to the spouse).
Please Nairalanders I need your opinion.
*Rosebud*

....Do we really need house-help??.....When we were growing, did our parents make use of any house-help what-so-ever??......I believe no matter how busy a woman is, she should always have time for her family.....

..Infact her family should come first before work......


..Well, to answer the question......A male house-help is still managable......He wont be staying with moi....It ll be a part-time work....I cant afford to expose my kids to a stranger...

marycoolrose:
Since at some point in a couple's life especially when children come into the picture Help is often needed as the work load increases, opting for a male or female house help which is wiser to reduce sexual abuse(to the child) or sexual provocation(to the spouse).
Please Nairalanders I need your opinion.
*Rosebud*

A female househelp as long has u trust ur husband not to visit her fountain when he is lonley

a female house help but she must not have big bosom, ukwu or big yansh

none

Do you really need one? Is it necessary considering the dangers involved? With a female house help, your husband is at risk. With a male, your kids. But if you really must, a female is better. You can trust your husband to control himself but can you trust a male house help to control himself with your kids?

I will choose none....to avoid headache!

If its unavoidable, then most people go with female househelps if they have young children.


Doesn't mean males also can't do the job, it all depends.