ekel101:
finding a wife is one thing and getting a good wife is another.
Sometimes good girls turn bad while bad girls turn good. It just depend on the angel or devil that finds her , Sometimes the way a woman treats you is a reflection of how you must have treated her.

men keep shouting GOOD WIFE , GOOD WIFE how many of them are good? 80% of men dont even know how to treat a lady and they keep shouting bad wife . sometimes changing a situation starts with you. Why not love that girl even with her flaws and make her feel like the best in the world, make other girls jealous of her and see whether the devil in her wont leave.

The most important quality to look for in a wife is
1. God fearing - if she isnt God fearing nothing for you bro and i dont mean going to church/mosque, at least you have someone Almighty to report her to when she misbehaves
2. Care - if she isnt caring your life would suck, your chuldren would lack a good parental care
3. Attitude - Once she has a good attitude, respectful, loving and a good anger management
4. Intelligent- A little bit of intelligence will do she doesnt have to be an A student at least average, yu dont wanna marry a dully

Abeg if you have a gurl with this 4 qualities , abeg wife her and invite nairalanders for your wedding.

If you marry because of beauty. My guy you will see more pretty girls, go for something that can keep your mojo running for the next 70 years and you wont get tired.

The best time to find your heaven made wife is when you struggling, so as yoou are trying to make the whole money also take time to be looking for her. cos you will be more frustrated if she marries your money. One thing you cant fake till eternity is love

My broda..I love what you wrote here..But the anger thing is the reason why i did away with my ex.Yes,I loved her so much..But she nags,transfers aggression on people..I sat her down times without number and told her to be patient when dealing with people that this would go a long way in affecting her,but she no hear ohh.I tell her even if people see you around with Jesus,your attitude would determine how people relate with you..But she still no hear ohh..She has a very repulsive character..We broke up,but the last time we spoke,she said she used to tell a Guy that disturbs her now,that she used to blame herself for sending me away with her behaviour...

Leobreezy:
No, my dad went through stress before he could get my mom's affection. You can't get a good wife easily, at least not in this era. If you want a good wife you have to search REALLY well and do a lot of sieving. To find gold you need to be ready to get your hands dirty. So if you want to do it without stress hence my original post.

What do you mean by doing a lot of sieving? So if you happened to meet a girl who's compatible with you and all, because you feel you need to search and sieve, you'd let her go or keep her while still searching?

ekel101:
finding a wife is one thing and getting a good wife is another.
Sometimes good girls turn bad while bad girls turn good. It just depend on the angel or devil that finds her , Sometimes the way a woman treats you is a reflection of how you must have treated her.

men keep shouting GOOD WIFE , GOOD WIFE how many of them are good? 80% of men dont even know how to treat a lady and they keep shouting bad wife . sometimes changing a situation starts with you. Why not love that girl even with her flaws and make her feel like the best in the world, make other girls jealous of her and see whether the devil in her wont leave.

The most important quality to look for in a wife is
1. God fearing - if she isnt God fearing nothing for you bro and i dont mean going to church/mosque, at least you have someone Almighty to report her to when she misbehaves
2. Care - if she isnt caring your life would suck, your chuldren would lack a good parental care
3. Attitude - Once she has a good attitude, respectful, loving and a good anger management
4. Intelligent- A little bit of intelligence will do she doesnt have to be an A student at least average, yu dont wanna marry a dully

Abeg if you have a gurl with this 4 qualities , abeg wife her and invite nairalanders for your wedding.

If you marry because of beauty. My guy you will see more pretty girls, go for something that can keep your mojo running for the next 70 years and you wont get tired.

The best time to find your heaven made wife is when you struggling, so as yoou are trying to make the whole money also take time to be looking for her. cos you will be more frustrated if she marries your money. One thing you cant fake till eternity is love

@Ekel101. I completely concur with you. That number 3 referring to my ex. We dated for 2years, I had patient and tried to see if she can manage her anger and change her attitude but all proved abortive.... that is the reason I stopped calling her since June till date. I missed her though but not aiming to make it up to her anymore.

ekel101:
finding a wife is one thing and getting a good wife is another.
Sometimes good girls turn bad while bad girls turn good. It just depend on the angel or devil that finds her , Sometimes the way a woman treats you is a reflection of how you must have treated her.

men keep shouting GOOD WIFE , GOOD WIFE how many of them are good? 80% of men dont even know how to treat a lady and they keep shouting bad wife . sometimes changing a situation starts with you. Why not love that girl even with her flaws and make her feel like the best in the world, make other girls jealous of her and see whether the devil in her wont leave.

The most important quality to look for in a wife is
1. God fearing - if she isnt God fearing nothing for you bro and i dont mean going to church/mosque, at least you have someone Almighty to report her to when she misbehaves
2. Care - if she isnt caring your life would suck, your chuldren would lack a good parental care
3. Attitude - Once she has a good attitude, respectful, loving and a good anger management
4. Intelligent- A little bit of intelligence will do she doesnt have to be an A student at least average, yu dont wanna marry a dully

Abeg if you have a gurl with this 4 qualities , abeg wife her and invite nairalanders for your wedding.

If you marry because of beauty. My guy you will see more pretty girls, go for something that can keep your mojo running for the next 70 years and you wont get tired.

The best time to find your heaven made wife is when you struggling, so as yoou are trying to make the whole money also take time to be looking for her. cos you will be more frustrated if she marries your money. One thing you cant fake till eternity is love

You have said everything.
Summation of f of x

Leobreezy:
No, my dad went through stress before he could get my mom's affection. You can't get a good wife easily, at least not in this era. If you want a good wife you have to search REALLY well and do a lot of sieving. To find gold you need to be ready to get your hands dirty. So if you want to do it without stress hence my original post.

Ok now I get.

Please how do I post topics on nairaland?

pinkshell:
So now it feels okay for a lady to borrow a man she isn't married to some money.
But a lady who request to use her man's car for the mean time is termed a gold digger.

I hope to God u weren't among dose wu abused the lady wu ask her BF for a car yestady? Cos u men av 50mouths, u say 1 tin 2day n den change mouth 2mrw.

I consider the man selfish
But did the lady tell the complete story

pinkshell:
U neva jam!
Church is d worst place to find a gud spouse.
Workers are d 'worstest'.

den remain single

mattkelly:



My broda..I love what you wrote here..But the anger thing is the reason why i did away with my ex.Yes,I loved her so much..But she nags,transfers aggression on people..I sat her down times without number and told her to be patient when dealing with people that this would go a long way in affecting her,but she no hear ohh.I tell her even if people see you around with Jesus,your attitude would determine how people relate with you..But she still no hear ohh..She has a very repulsive character..We broke up,but the last time we spoke,she said she used to tell a Guy that disturbs her now,that she used to blame herself for sending me away with her behaviour...

The exact same thing has happened to me.

ekel101:
finding a wife is one thing and getting a good wife is another.
Sometimes good girls turn bad while bad girls turn good. It just depend on the angel or devil that finds her , Sometimes the way a woman treats you is a reflection of how you must have treated her.

men keep shouting GOOD WIFE , GOOD WIFE how many of them are good? 80% of men dont even know how to treat a lady and they keep shouting bad wife . sometimes changing a situation starts with you. Why not love that girl even with her flaws and make her feel like the best in the world, make other girls jealous of her and see whether the devil in her wont leave.

The most important quality to look for in a wife is
1. God fearing - if she isnt God fearing nothing for you bro and i dont mean going to church/mosque, at least you have someone Almighty to report her to when she misbehaves
2. Care - if she isnt caring your life would suck, your chuldren would lack a good parental care
3. Attitude - Once she has a good attitude, respectful, loving and a good anger management
4. Intelligent- A little bit of intelligence will do she doesnt have to be an A student at least average, yu dont wanna marry a dully

Abeg if you have a gurl with this 4 qualities , abeg wife her and invite nairalanders for your wedding.

If you marry because of beauty. My guy you will see more pretty girls, go for something that can keep your mojo running for the next 70 years and you wont get tired.

The best time to find your heaven made wife is when you struggling, so as yoou are trying to make the whole money also take time to be looking for her. cos you will be more frustrated if she marries your money. One thing you cant fake till eternity is love

I can relate with this as the frontpage material not what op put up. Op seems to be typing out what people usuallt say which is not always logical and correct.

If it were possible I would have asked oga Seun to replace op's post with this indepth comment.This is what I call thinking out of the box which comes with experience, observation and wisdom.

Op finding people in your line of work, dedication and aspiration doesn't necessary spell successful union.We have a lot of celebrities divorcing per hour.This is because they know their in and out and won't acccept lies like the common man.You can't tell him you went for audition in calabar when he has all the connections in calabar to verify.

Finding a girl in church choir doesn't make her good in character.

freecocoa:
What do you mean by doing a lot of sieving? So if you happened to meet a girl who's compatible with you and all, because you feel you need to search and sieve, you'd let her go or keep her while still searching?

If you find a compatible girl, keep her. But how often does that happen. When you go to a boutique to buy shoes, do you settle for the first shoe you see or do you look around to see if there's anyone better? The best you can do is keep that one in mind in case you don't see anyother. If I were to meet a girl who I felt was compatible I'd remain friends with her for a while as I searched for others. If I see she's the best then we can hit it off.

Leobreezy:
If you find a compatible girl, keep her. But how often does that happen. When you go to a boutique to buy shoes, do you settle for the first shoe you see or do you look around to see if there's anyone better? The best you can do is keep that one in mind in case you don't see anyother. If I were to meet a girl who I felt was compatible I'd remain friends with her for a while as I searched for others. If I see she's the best then we can hit it off.

Okay then, I take it to mean you don't have any girlfriends then, you only keep female friends hoping to choose a girlfriend out of them, a girlfriend who may end up as the wifey or not, no?

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kreezzy:
Abeg Иα how to find a husband I want

Just be caring, responsible, humble and loving you will.

johnstar:
dis kind period, wife nor scarce na for person to find gud wife na im sure pass oooo...
to find gud wife, entr church.. mfm
to find bad wife, na club dm dey

I just wanted to read but some one had touched my axiom point,

you twisted your jugdement brother

kreezzy:
Abeg Иα how to find a husband I want

Meet me for counseling

freecocoa:
Okay then, I take it to mean you don't have any girlfriends then, you only keep female friends hoping to choose a girlfriend out of them, a girlfriend who may end up as the wifey or not, no?

You're right. Currently I'm not even searching sef cuz I'm way too young make a good decision on who would make a compatible marriage mate. So till when I'm old enough to understand myself better it's all friends for now.

Leobreezy:
You're right. Currently I'm not even searching sef cuz I'm way too young make a good decision on who would make a compatible marriage mate. So till when I'm old enough to understand myself better it's all friends for now.

Good for you mate.

I dont think so, it will become much more difficult to find the right one when you have made it. I guess it will become much more difficult. A good women is the one that believes in your potential and where you are going, not what you already have. She will do every to support and remain with you. Check Tuface's wife I know her, we attended the same institution in the same department, she is not hungry at all, even while tuface was still struggling, she own a car and could decide to follow bigger boys then. No wonder Tuface went back to her amidst several others

Nonsensitudinal poooooo!!

Truth to be told...most gals nowadays are not wife materials..some are way too rude just cos they are pretty and some have lost their natural senses to materialism and money,,,many gals aint loyal...and are sadist to men....many dont love them self..and dont have a mind of their own..na folow follow ..dey kill them ..desperate..for everything...many are way too pompous just because ntey work in good firm and get paid they take a loyal caring guy as not their levels.....many even ashewo...for hotel better pass them in characters....and loyalty....omo sometimes i wonder which kind gal i go marry sef....

freecocoa:
Good for you mate.

Thanks

Finding a wife without involving God is like playing a match without training. I believe all ladies deserve a chance to be a wife. Until men brace up and stop bedding every girl that comes their way thereby the lady feeling used and seeking revenge, the institution of marriage will continue on its downward spiral.i strongly believe we are the architect of our fortune or misfortune. As you lay ur bed,so u lie on it when the time comes

And this shit is on FP while we have several interesting, education and informative thread on polics section and other section.
@OP, I will give you 10 solid steps to get a wife without stress.


So, Pack well.

iyisco2001:
Ok, how did this poo made fp, are you talking about any wife? Cos you can even get that without being successful. What about the fact that if you don't get a hustle mate, you might end up marrying a gold digger. Think bro. Ask p square, tuface, van Vicker e.t.c. other artist and even GEJ about how and when they've met there wives. Also, ask other celebs who married people they were both in limelight. You will derive a good response as to when to find a good wife.

Even the most professionals will make mistakes finding a good wife... Some ladies can pretend for as long has it'd take for a man to take them to the altar...

Most married and remarried couples make outrageous mistakes as well...

Conclusively, Having a helpmate is as well beyond the bounds of good taste... But it doesn't mean you've found a wife without a stress!

ekel101:
finding a wife is one thing and getting a good wife is another.
Sometimes good girls turn bad while bad girls turn good. It just depend on the angel or devil that finds her , Sometimes the way a woman treats you is a reflection of how you must have treated her.

men keep shouting GOOD WIFE , GOOD WIFE how many of them are good? 80% of men dont even know how to treat a lady and they keep shouting bad wife . sometimes changing a situation starts with you. Why not love that girl even with her flaws and make her feel like the best in the world, make other girls jealous of her and see whether the devil in her wont leave.

The most important quality to look for in a wife is
1. God fearing - if she isnt God fearing nothing for you bro and i dont mean going to church/mosque, at least you have someone Almighty to report her to when she misbehaves
2. Care - if she isnt caring your life would suck, your chuldren would lack a good parental care
3. Attitude - Once she has a good attitude, respectful, loving and a good anger management
4. Intelligent- A little bit of intelligence will do she doesnt have to be an A student at least average, yu dont wanna marry a dully

Abeg if you have a gurl with this 4 qualities , abeg wife her and invite nairalanders for your wedding.

If you marry because of beauty. My guy you will see more pretty girls, go for something that can keep your mojo running for the next 70 years and you wont get tired.

The best time to find your heaven made wife is when you struggling, so as yoou are trying to make the whole money also take time to be looking for her. cos you will be more frustrated if she marries your money. One thing you cant fake till eternity is love

A little bit of intelligence Why

Why would you just come here and write trash. If that is the way life is why do good people get rewarded with evil and vice versa?

coalcoal1:
we attract to ourselves exactly what we deserve so also are the ladies that come your way.
be the best that you can be and you'll find the best wife for you.
my 2 cents

Zikamax:
What if she found u spending so much on a mere wrist watch? Den she sees u as an extravagant type and with dis reason decides to stay with u. Will u call her a helpmate

U must be an angel

kreezzy:
Abeg Иα how to find a husband I want

Haba!. What about my guy emilo6. No tell me say you don sack him ooo

If i comment for dis thread ,make i know watin cause am.......... I still know d way to Rome

If you are the type that have lived a promiscuous life, because you now feel you want to get married and start looking for a "wife material", God is going to bless you with a promiscuous lady.