Agrika:
I don't believe in that word "love"...you know as in terms of "loving" someone who is not related to you by blood....i feel they are a lot of other important ingredients like Tolerance, patience, mutual respect, loyalty, being content with what you have, TRUST,etc which should be in a relationship other than the so called overated love....so many sad stories on family section, with one of the partners claiming she (it's mostly a she)still loves the man despite what he did to her....my advice to ladies out there...most especially the unmarried ones is to drop this notion of a fairy-tale marriage...where u live happily ever after with a handsome Denzel Washington-look-alike Prince Charming with 16 packs ,...try to be realistic and practical in life. Nobody knows u better than yourself...you know wat u want, knows what qualities u desire in a partner, and most especially should know when to have the courage to say No to a relationship that lacks these ingredients mentioned

so true, very insightful

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How many 'DUDES' get money before marriage?
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Even the bible says sharing is caring and 'KIARRING IS SHIAAARRRING' abi?

Were they marrying for love before?

Agrika:

Hahahaha, you are a clown

HARDDON:

U speak like a child

Most of them go old for their papa house.

Agrika:
Seems nobody understands me here, sad ...please mods close this thread

I do my dear Cs I'm a practical example.i never loved my hubby bfr I married him but saw qualities in him dat could enable me tolerate him in d case of difficult situations and it has helped me built my family.Though he loves me but he has hurt me so many times dat I question d love factor howbeit,i look at dose traits dat brought me into d marriage and forgave him.so love is not d sole reason Fr marriage in fact not evn major but compatibility,understanding then atom of love.Those who depend solely on love are not being realistic and it's d major cause of break ups cos once a child comes d love is split.so pls sistas I'm speaking frm experience look beyond love and ask ur self if Ds love depreciates wat other thing can i hold on to.it cud be money yes money,cud be d look yes I lov tall muscular dark guy,it cud fame yes he is frm Obi of Onitsha's family,it cud be his job,yes I love navy guy or air force. .all Ds are realities

Ama80:
I do my dear Cs I'm a practical example.i never loved my hubby bfr I married him but saw qualities in him dat could enable me tolerate him in d case of difficult situations and it has helped me built my family.Though he loves me but he has hurt me so many times dat I question d love factor howbeit,i look at dose traits dat brought me into d marriage and forgave him.so love is not d sole reason Fr marriage in fact not evn major but compatibility,understanding then atom of love.Those who depend solely on love are not being realistic and it's d major cause of break ups cos once a child comes d love is split.so pls sistas I'm speaking frm experience look beyond love and ask ur self if Ds love depreciates wat other thing can i hold on to.it cud be money yes money,cud be d look yes I lov tall muscular dark guy,it cud fame yes he is frm Obi of Onitsha's family,it cud be his job,yes I love navy guy or air force. .all Ds are realities

God, we were u all my life....u re like my siamese twin sis....finally someone understands....i was trying to tell these people to expect other things in marriage other than tea parties and sh!t...to go into marriage not clinging solely and mainly on love but on other things even though na money sef...so that you have something to "cling" on incase the so called love turns sour but Mbanu dem no wan hear....anyway sha God bless u for me

Agrika:

God, we were u all my life....u re like my siamese twin sis....finally someone understands....i was trying to tell these people to expect other things in marriage other than tea parties and sh!t...to go into marriage not clinging solely and mainly on love but on other things even though na money sef...so that you have something to "cling" on incase the so called love turns sour but Mbanu dem no wan hear....anyway sha God bless u for me

my dear people don't face reality.i told my younger sister to look Fr something else to hold on to if Ds love/infatuation fails but no,she wouldn't listen.d love/infatuation didn't just expire after wedding in fact my sister hates him now cos her hubby is very short while my sis is very tall and she became so shy to introduce him to her new friends.d money is not evn available any longer.if she had listened n considered contingency plan/factor in case love fails it wudnt hav BN Ds sour.she has left him oo.I'm having a very peaceful home cos something brought me to marriage and it's not def money or love.so let dose dat hav ears hear.though money is soothing factor.I married a handsome man n girl I hav beautiful kids n wt dat alone.im ever forgiving.