lanxlot:
u go advice ur brother Make e marry number 5? xcept the brother u detest.

FrancisTony:


LMAO!

You prolly don't know me. You think all my life with women revolve around pus.sy or how to get them laid?

Sigh! Real men indeed

FrancisTony:


LMAO!

You prolly don't know me. You think all my life with women revolve around pus.sy or how to get them laid?

Sigh! Real men indeed

Sophyrocks:


Dnt mind him jare!! To him, being a real man is all about sleeping around and beating records of how many women to sleep with. just imagine this kind of man marrying. he will jsut cause havoc in the life of hiis wife. That is how many people bring all sorts of problems into marriages. You are just among the very few sane men on Nairaland in the midst of horrible creatures.

I dnt blame these women for their phobia. The many stories that touch surrounding nigerian marriages nowadays is enough to make singles cringe. So why bother so much about it? Its this kind of post you will see men saying these women are deceiving themselves. When they hear a female talkng about marriage, they complain she is desperate and wants to marry by fire by force then they run away from her. when she is saying she has phobia, they say she is deceiving herself. Even women in this thread who have husbands treating them like sh1t will open mouth and talk when they are frustrated. Now you wonder why they are all a confused bunch. People are too obsessed with marriage here in naija yet some of the marriages are nothing to write home about, with them having extramarital affairs up and down, exchanging stds and deceiving others that they are happily married. only few people get it right. Nigerians are huge hypocrites and many of what they say should not be taken seriously. Which is why nobody should be pressurized to get married because people forcing you to marry have huge problems they cannot sort out in their own marriage. Marriage isnt by force. There are people wo dnt fancy it or do not consider themselves marriage worthy. God did not make it compulsory. Whoever wants to marry should marry. whoever doesnt want to should stay away from it. Its that simple. But trust the ever judgemental nigerians with their horrible mentality, to stick their nose into what doesnt concern them. Its this same horrible mentality that has led many into bad marriages.

FrancisTony:
These ladies don't care about marriage but Nigerians, with their pathetic nosiness would ne'er allow them to rest.

Atleast, they have shown some ego-driven men that women are not being favoured by getting married to them.

Only if some African men will change their archaic way of reasoning and stop being full of themselves and chauvinistic.


Yours Sincerely-

francistony(m)

Pyrrho:
What's your point?

Pyrrho:
What's your point?

Kachisbarbie:


You know some guys/men boys rather are myopic like that?
They actually define their self-worth based on the women they have laid, and it gets me wondering how their brain/conscience is wired. Instead of them to be bothered on how to be successful - since they have concluded that women like money...lol

The pressure on the average Nigerian lady to get married is too much!
Everyone isn't destined to get married abeg.

Kx:
Funmi Iyanda- Antelope nor get old age

lalasticlala:
5 Gloria Doyle

lalasticlala:



But they admitted having phobia for marriage

neoapocalypse:

Singer turned evangelist shuoo

KingBish:


But it's very difficult to trust illiterates na.
Your incoherence is epic!

obowunmi:
Am I the only one in love with SophyRocks?

Sophyrocks:

cupidhero:

you just fell inlove with her yesterday and you are asking questions,i have loved her from distance before i saw her on NL and been crushing on her ever since. i swear she if she a rock she gotta be the finest diamond ever. sophy you rock.

yaskarahyelhope:
I don't blame dem. Not once. If I'll av my way. I'll go thru IVF and av my babies. I don't need a man to av sex wt me to av babies. Neither will I be a lesbian. Godforbid!