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Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by Nobody: 7:33pm On Nov 17, 2014 |
I have a little baby nt up to 2yrs and I took in again. I and my hubby didn't wnt d bby to come then so I took sm pills. But after takin d pills I still feel like am pregnant so I went to d hospital aftr a scan d doctors discovered dt I was actually carryin twins bt d drug affected only one. The other one is doing well. Now I regret takin d drug am so confused should I leave the pregnancy or ... My hubby suggests we end it bt am rily confused need ur advice |
Re: Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by ZACHIE: 7:45pm On Nov 17, 2014 |
check into a good hospital that can manage this condition. Your safety and the kids are paramount at this stage. Hear it, depending on the kind of birth control pills you took, both kids may actually be affected mentally. You do not want to bring a mentally challenged child to the world. So, go for further test, get proper advise and please, do not be emotional about your decision. Do the best thing in the worst circumstance. Good luck 2 Likes |
Re: Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by Nobody: 7:48pm On Nov 17, 2014 |
ZACHIE:Thanks |
Re: Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by GogetterMD(m): 8:04pm On Nov 17, 2014 |
I won't scold you for attempting an abortion cause I don't know the situation you are in. But keep the pregnancy, the other twin should develop normally while the late foetus shrinks. And as the poster above said, what drug did you use so as to know if it had any effect(teratogenic) on the live twin. Do a scan every 2 months at least 1 Like |
Re: Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by dunhill27: 6:43am On Nov 18, 2014 |
I don't know why some married people are so ungrateful. Do u know what those babies will be in future if u let them live. Why would remove what God has blessed u with. There are women who are looking for what u have. |
Re: Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by austine4real(m): 9:46am On Nov 18, 2014 |
God wll 4giv u&av mercy on u |
Re: Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by kalet55(m): 6:43pm On Nov 18, 2014 |
This is the worst thing i have heard so far |
Re: Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by ZACHIE: 6:12am On Nov 19, 2014 |
Did you judgemental folks bother to read her story? Rubbish. 3 Likes |
Re: Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by ExpressBooking(m): 7:27am On Nov 19, 2014 |
whatever our reason,abortion is a deadly sin against God.married or Single.There is always one million reason to do what is wrong but certainly always one reason to do what is right. God is calling for repentance today,will you heed? tomorrow might just be too late. |
Re: Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by Nobody: 2:36pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
Hi there, I can tell you are very worried and probably scared, take a deep breath ok, no one is perfect. You need to carry out further tests to see if any damage has been done to the remaining fetus, hopefully the tests will turn out fine. Discuss further with your husband, maybe God knew you would attempt abortion and gave you twins, there's a reason for that. Remember no one knows tomorrow, if the fetus is healthy, please give it a chance to live. You're a submissive wife, I know and I appreciate that about you. Use your gentleness to plead with your husband, remember a wise woman builds her home, he will listen but please don't quarrel with him. May God give you the wisdom, strength and patience you need this time. Best of luck |
Re: Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by Nobody: 6:35pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
ExpressBooking: The op asked for matured minds, And please not everybody is a christian or any kind of believer, if you didn't read what she posted, pls do and stop castigating her. Jeez! |
Re: Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by Nobody: 6:44pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
austine4real: If your so callled 'God' is for real, then he's not as wise as you portray him to be. Do you know the financial situation the op and her husband are going through? Do you know the plans they have for their future kids? Do you feed them? Do they believe in your 'God' ? People like you are one of the reasons most africans give birth to plenty children with no plans to care for the children, hence some of the children will end up fending for themselves by hawking petty things instead of being in school. Is that the plan your 'God has for them? Or some of the unplanned but born children will be sent to other peoples homes to become house helps to those who already planned and has kids that are in school being well-fed. And please the op asked for matured minds, not religious sentimental and judgemental minds. Thank you. Oga o! |
Re: Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by Nobody: 6:53pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
GogetterMD: This kind of advice is enough to give the op hope that something good will still come out of a bad situation. All you judgmental and and and annoying religious know it all folks should do some meditation on that book you call a bible, becos it clearly states 'he who hasn't commited a sin should cast the 1st stone' , 'no one is a judge except 'God', and the lords prayer said 'forgive us our tresspasses'. And Jesus in the bible said pray for others and your enemies. For goodness sakes what kind of people are you! Gogetter you're cool. Lol |
Re: Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by GogetterMD(m): 7:49pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
andyallor:Thank you |
Re: Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by GogetterMD(m): 7:56pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
But OP, your story doesn't add up considering you opened this thread just 2 weeks ago https://www.nairaland.com/1984789/urgent-answers-matured-mind-please |
Re: Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by Nobody: 10:02pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
I want to thank all d matured minds that hav givn me sm piece of advice I appreciate. And those of u who had used d opportunity to castigate me I pray u dnt find urself in my shoes or worse situation than mine. I jus wanted to run another test bfor makin any further comment. The other baby is doing perfectly well and am happy that God secured him for me. I and my husband hv decided to keep the baby. Aside d doctor's advice I alredy decided to keep it. Ur advice pulled me through,I am strong n happy cnt wait to hav my bby. I hop to inform u all when it finally arrives. |
Re: Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by Nobody: 10:03pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
xcelsia:thank you 1 Like |
Re: Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by Nobody: 10:04pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
ZACHIE:thank you |
Re: Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by Nobody: 10:15pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
GogetterMD:thank u |
Re: Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by Nobody: 10:22pm On Nov 19, 2014 |
GogetterMD:dnt b confused I had my first bby bfor I did my white wedding dis year.Did my traditional marriage bck when I was still schooling. Had to elaborate more because of d kind of comments I got bk then and because I needed advice. |
Re: Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by austine4real(m): 2:23pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
andyallor:i ddnt blame her 4 abortion try& get me ryt& wot she dd was morally wrong& i knw u'v bin abortin 2 daz y u'r sayn dz |
Re: Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by Nobody: 3:28pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
[quote author=austine4real post=28189668] i ddnt blame her 4 abortion try& get me ryt& wot she dd was morally wrong& i knw u'v bin abortin 2 daz y u'r sayn dz[/quote Me aborting..... Am only going to reply once - Never done it before. And I will do it if am not prepared to catar for the child because I don't want the child to suffer what I am suffering. Morrally! Oh pulease we all have a sence of what is right and wrong. Am not a religious person, I'm just a realistic person. Aborting should not be encouraged but incase where it has to be administered for future of the child n medically, financially , E.T.C reasons then it should be done. Abeg religion hasn't done very much but for little wisdoms that's all |
Re: Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by ExpressBooking(m): 4:21pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
[quote author=andyallor post=28191501][/quote]may God teach you the truth,in this life time,Amen. |
Re: Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by austine4real(m): 4:45pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
[quote author=andyallor post=28191501][/quote] ok noted hw u dey? |
Re: Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by Nobody: 5:45pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
ExpressBooking: If he exist, ok Amen, if not may your mindset not lead anybody in depressed states to commit suicide or worse . AMEN! |
Re: Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by Nobody: 5:48pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
austine4real: I de ok thank you and you? |
Re: Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by austine4real(m): 6:48pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
andyallor:same&hw was work? |
Re: Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by Nobody: 7:04pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
[quote author=austine4real post=28197192] same&hw was work?[/quote Works good Urs? |
Re: Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by austine4real(m): 8:01pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
[quote author=andyallor post=28197660][/quote]kul&ur area? |
Re: Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by Nobody: 8:23pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
austine4real:Lol We don de derail thread hia My area is fine and I believe yours is cool as well. Ciao |
Re: Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by austine4real(m): 10:07pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
andyallor:nawti u!! I wnt use style chyke u |
Re: Pls I Need Help From Matured Minds And Doctors by austine4real(m): 10:08pm On Nov 20, 2014 |
andyallor:nawti u!! I wnt use style chyke u...gud9t |
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