I'm going to be careful as I don't know who might see this. took up teaching job just to pass time . here is what happened recently.

I was in my class somewhere last week when a colleague, another teacher, was walking pass my class with a female student who is not her pupil. they both look disturbed. I asked what happened and she beckoned to me. she said the proprietor asked her to check the girl,that she complained that blood was coming out of her private part. immediately I grew interested . note this girl is 5years.
we moved towards the toilet ,I removed her panties,behold it was blood soiled. I asked her to urinate,she did and said it was painful. I asked her what happened, she said she fell down. I told my colleague that falling couldn't have resulted into her bleeding and feeling pains. I sat her down and spread her legs to look into her virginal,the place was so open that I could see inside. my small niece who is 7, her virginal hole is so close and you will never see inside. this I got to see whenever she spreads her legs on the bed-playful things (correct me if I was wrong). At first she didn't want to talk,so I hugged her and told her she could trust me. then she told me uncle T touched her bumbum. uncle T is her teacher I asked her since when has this been happening,she told me since she started the school. (this means as far as she could remember). we reported this to the proprietor who was surprise and kinda annoyed . uncle T is the proprietor's cousin. in a way the issue kinda die out. nobody talked about it. the girl's parents were not informed. I don't know what to do next . but want to use this medium to tell parents to be watchful on their girl child. you could ask them questions about what happen in school each day. tired of typing. but at the long run,the matter was dismissed on the ground that the girl lied. something tells me she was not lying.

so uncle T molested her niece this world is very funny. I don't know what works in Nigeria again and I think the school have an obligation to report the matter to the girl's parent. If this were to be a civilised society, your school would report the matter to the police for persecution of uncle T. But really this is bad? why molest an underage? I'm sure uncle T have been molesting other children

That was how a girl of 10 yrs old was molested by a 60 yr old man....only God knows what this world is turning to....

@poster you have a moral obligation to report this
You are going to be a parent one day too!

I know that in Nigeria, sometimes the reportee becomes the accused, so I can undertand your fear, however you could have still anonymously let the parents know and they will know the steps to take when they talk to their daughter.

You cant not do something about this. Please! or yeye Uncle T will continue to do this to other innocent kids, plus the school needs to be investigated too.
If they didnt know then that is a differnet thing, but the proprietor knew and choose to do nothing. That is unforgivable. Our kids are supposed to be safe in school.

Veralaw:
Things like that would continue and would wax stronger if everyone keeps quiet just like you did

I always advice that anyone who suspects anything foul should alert SARS ,their knocks have a way of restoring sanity...
And then,a rabid injection to their dicks

U mayb ryt , but her job is also at stake...i think dey shud just set a trap 4 "uncleT" ...wen caught red handed den 4da steps mayb taken

Why didn't you tell her parents when they came to pick her up? I'm so darned annoyed at you. Why are you telling us? You should have instructed the little girl to tell her mom when she gets home and make her understand that if she doesn't,uncle T will continue to hurt her but if she does,her family will help keep her safe from uncle T.

You should have called her mother aside and told her to question her daughter very well when they get home, you should have told her mom what the girl told you,then I'm pretty sure the parents would have taken up the case. You saw and said nothing. You are partly responsible for whatever damage that girl will go through as a result of this trauma.

Edited. If you're concerned about your job,you can tell the parents that they don't have to mention you. They can always and truthfully say that their daughter confided in them about what uncle T does to her. If the proprietor wants to let you go still,then better for you than to sit there and not know how many cases of child molest you're covering up because you don't want to rat on uncle T. I'm pretty certain she's not the first.

I wonder how teachers are trained in Nigeria.

You have to inform her parents as soon as possible and also the authorities.
A doctor must also be consulted!!!!

DAMN!

Please inform her parents and the police as soon as possible.

You should have informed the parents. You are covering up a crime. You don`t need to tell us to be warned we know what is out there. You should rather look out that you do the right thing.
So much evil exists today because good men/ women remain silent!

chaircover:
@poster you have a moral obligation to report this
You are going to be a parent one day too!

I know that in Nigeria, sometimes the reportee becomes the accused, so I can undertand your fear, however you could have still anonymously let the parents know and they will know the steps to take when they talk to their daughter.

You cant not do something about this. Please! or yeye Uncle T will continue to do this to other innocent kids, plus the school needs to be investigated too.
If they didnt know then that is a differnet thing, but the proprietor knew and choose to do nothing. That is unforgivable. Our kids are supposed to be safe in school.

I don't intend keeping silent though. I have plans on what to do. I don't mind loosing the job as I am planning to quite teaching soon . is boring. I just do not want to start pointing fingers, as the girl might not talk again . my colleague told me the girl was taken somewhere and was threatened to be flogged by uncle T 's mum. she is a teacher there too. but I promise I won't let it go off like that.

Please, OP I beg you, notify the parents and the police. Do everything in your power to get uncle T out of that school. If possible get the proprietress fired or let the school be shut down. Report to whatever body gives the license to run a school. What kind of proprietress knowingly harbors a pedophile that molests 5 yr olds in a school? Is she mentally deranged? That girl you saw is likely not the first and will not be the last. Can you really live with knowing that there's a sick monster defiling and destroying 5 yr old girls where you work and you did nothing about it? Please help save those children, save their innocence, save their futures. Those bastards need to be held accountable.

May God bless and reward you immensely as you look out for those kids.

Godspeed.

I hope all the rabid Nl anti-nannies/babysitters/daycares have seen this story and will not be sending their kids to school since they can get molested there too.

Or have they developed sudden onset blindness?

The poor innocent girl has gone tru so much. To the extent that she was even threatened not to tell by someone that should be old enough to be her grand mother. My heart really bleeds. Its really unfortunate in for our society these days.

Please OP, you owe the little girl a right to protect. Coz u will also be a mother someday. If u loose d job, GOd will provide another that will be better to compensate you for ur firm stand for justice.

ohaleoghene:



I don't intend keeping silent though. I have plans on what to do. I don't mind loosing the job as I am planning to quite teaching soon . is boring. I just do not want to start pointing fingers, as the girl might not talk again . my colleague told me the girl was taken somewhere and was threatened to be flogged by uncle T 's mum. she is a teacher there too. but I promise I won't let it go off like that.

OP, I don't know when this happened but I join other posters to appeal to you to report this matter without further delay. No long or medium term plan is required to report. Don't wait till you are about resigning plsss. Inform the parents and the police immediately. Everyday that this animal is on the loose, this same girl or some other girl is suffering the same fate, and they are just babies for Christ sake. The girl does not even have to talk again, medical examinations will reveal forceful penetration.

The proprietress will surely get mad at you for reporting her cousin, but there comes a time in someone's life when he/she just has to damn all consequences and do the right thing and trust me, you will have more fulfillment at the end. Plss save these childrens' lives, their future is in your hands now. I am so disturbed right now.

ohaleoghene:



I don't intend keeping silent though. I have plans on what to do. I don't mind loosing the job as I am planning to quite teaching soon . is boring. I just do not want to start pointing fingers, as the girl might not talk again . my colleague told me the girl was taken somewhere and was threatened to be flogged by uncle T 's mum. she is a teacher there too. but I promise I won't let it go off like that.

oh thank god. I'm relieved. Pls don't take my earlier harsh comment to heart . I was just feeling for the poor girl. Doo

This is terrible! You just have to let the parents know or uncle T will continue to molest that little girl and when he is done with her he will move to another girl. Such wickedness! You can imagine those other women covering up such a hideous crime. Horrible people they couldn't even sack him.

They should all be locked up.

the issue is just so complicated that is why It seems like I am in a tight conner. the little girl told me it was his hand he used. the proprietor said it was uncle T who reported that she was bleeding so there was no how he could have been responsible. now the question is,if the little girl said he has been doing it,how come that was the only day she felt pains and got blood in her panties? and why did uncle t report the case of blood by himself. mothers in the house,is it possible for a girl child to bleed because she fell ? secondly is it possible for her age to lie with that ? because uncle t mum said she lied.

ohaleoghene:
the issue is just so complicated that is why It seems like I am in a tight conner. the little girl told me it was his hand he used. the proprietor said it was uncle T who reported that she was bleeding so there was no how he could have been responsible. now the question is,if the little girl said he has been doing it,how come that was the only day she felt pains and got blood in her panties? and why did uncle t report the case of blood by himself. mothers in the house,is it possible for a girl child to bleed because she fell ? secondly is it possible for her age to lie with that ? because uncle t mum said she lied.

Let the parents and authorities answer these questions, that's thier job. But why were they also threatening the girl if it was just a fall? Moreover, you saw her privates yourself and noticed the abnormally.

ohaleoghene:
the issue is just so complicated that is why It seems like I am in a tight conner. the little girl told me it was his hand he used. the proprietor said it was uncle T who reported that she was bleeding so there was no how he could have been responsible. now the question is,if the little girl said he has been doing it,how come that was the only day she felt pains and got blood in her panties? and why did uncle t report the case of blood by himself. mothers in the house,is it possible for a girl child to bleed because she fell ? secondly is it possible for her age to lie with that ? because uncle t mum said she lied.

You should not even be the one investigating this case.
Take her to a certified doctor and let them do their thorough investigations.
And tell her mother ASAP
Stop asking questions and planning and tell the girl's mother! Let her do her investigations henceforth. Y'all poking into a young girl's vagina in the name of investigation without her parent's knowledge is even wrong.

I know you're trying to help but IMO, you ain't acting fast enough!

ohaleoghene:
the issue is just so complicated that is why It seems like I am in a tight conner. the little girl told me it was his hand he used. the proprietor said it was uncle T who reported that she was bleeding so there was no how he could have been responsible. now the question is,if the little girl said he has been doing it,how come that was the only day she felt pains and got blood in her panties? and why did uncle t report the case of blood by himself. mothers in the house,is it possible for a girl child to bleed because she fell ? secondly is it possible for her age to lie with that ? because uncle t mum said she lied.

the earlier the better. If she was penetrated by anything, a doctor is in better position to tell. If yes,then they take it up and investigate uncle T

OP this baby could be yours,please tell her mom. Investigation will reveal the truth. Mothers pls be close to your little ones. This is so sad.

Pls report to the parent and let the appropriate authority ask that question biko 5yrs? what has this world turned into

ohaleoghene:
the issue is just so complicated that is why It seems like I am in a tight conner. the little girl told me it was his hand he used. the proprietor said it was uncle T who reported that she was bleeding so there was no how he could have been responsible. now the question is,if the little girl said he has been doing it,how come that was the only day she felt pains and got blood in her panties? and why did uncle t report the case of blood by himself. mothers in the house,is it possible for a girl child to bleed because she fell ? secondly is it possible for her age to lie with that ? because uncle t mum said she lied.

My dear its not complicated. You are the one making is sound complicated with all these questions that you are asking. You are not a experienced teacher, talk less of a social worker, child specialist, or law enforcement officer so you cant even process the responses from this poor kid. You are not qualified/experienced/trained enough to do so.

This is a 5 year old. What does a 5 year old know about sex and what does a 5 year old stand to gain by fibbing?

All of you even checking her privates dont have the right to do so and why were you also checking the girls privates if you werent going to do anything about your findings? If you had done that here, both you and uncle T would have both been arrested.

That little girl has no mouth and no justice and the adults who should be protecting her are against her or loking the other way.

God punish uncle T and his stupid propietor aunty. Its not her fault, when any fool can open a school.

We have told you what to do, which is to inform the kids parents, but my gut feeling tells me that you wont do anything about it. If you dont, let your concscience be the judge. You will have kids too one day.

You said you saw how wide her v.agina was as compared to your niece's own now you are back tracking, saying its complicated.You need to trust yourself on this and inform her parents.

ohaleoghene:
the issue is just so complicated that is why It seems like I am in a tight conner. the little girl told me it was his hand he used. the proprietor said it was uncle T who reported that she was bleeding so there was no how he could have been responsible. now the question is,if the little girl said he has been doing it,how come that was the only day she felt pains and got blood in her panties? and why did uncle t report the case of blood by himself. mothers in the house,is it possible for a girl child to bleed because she fell ? secondly is it possible for her age to lie with that ? because uncle t mum said she lied.

Jesu!

What is wrong with some people biko nu? OP please please please and please, do as you've said, please don't let them go Scott free.

Chei! How can people be this cruel?

@ op, better inform the parents and ensure they get the girl to a doctor's. Interrogating the poor girl is torture! She is not really in position to tell stories and checking her privates should be done by a certified personnel and not you guys. I bet uncle Tormentor will tell the police what happened when the abuse is confirmed by a doc. I hope it's not too late.

I check my boys from head to toe everyday, I ask them questions about school and I assure them they can tell me what anybody does to them, including their teachers. Call me paranoid, I'd rather be safe than sorry. I no want wahala.

Hmmmmmm!

How many cases we wan judge?
Abeggi. . . na una GOD go take care of children for this world!

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please op, help an innocent soul by telling her parents, (1) Get their phone no (2) get a guy to do the call (3) hide ur phone no tell the parents what happened or u tell them to ask their daugther what happened to her vagina in school. Think about this.

How can the parents (mom in particular) not notice this?

Who bathes the girl in the morning?