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No man dumps a good lady or a good girl!!

mcdokwe:
Obviously for the wrong reasons. He had the fame, the cash and all what not. You prolly never allowed yourself to love the person but the things that surrounded his person.




What am I saying?

I honestly don't have a clue.

obviously you don't know what you're saying, Toni Payne was making her cool money. She made him

Richard6:
No man dumps a good lady or a good girl!!

a good girl una dey dump pass.

This one na wetin they dey call Poem for the gods. You cheated on your husband and yet have the effontery to come here and rap bullshyt. Don't know why women will f*ck up and when it dawns on them, they begin to play victim. Most Nigerian women need toto-lock. Serial cheats

Well said young lady. She is really growing into her own woman. Its really mature when a person recognizes and admits their shortfalls and are not afraid to go public with it. I wish her well.

Sorry bae. U married a very heartless guy. Even as I no like to dey judge people. From the picture I see,9ice remians one of the most callous humans God decided to create but it is well sha. Be strong and moce on with your life

But the babe sabi English o.

Could nice av put lines together like this in English?

So deep. Even i can feel the pain deep in her heart. What if she didn't do what she was accused of? What if...she was wrongly accused? What if this was all a set up? What if

This is going to be a stigma she going to live with for the rest of her life. I pray she have the strength and comfort to carry on.

Hmmmmmm,I wonder what's wrong with some girls,when u were acting like a groupiee,u expect the relationship to last? You follow follow a star and the star come disfollow u

Decryptor:
This one na wetin they dey call Poem for the gods. You cheated on your husband and yet have the effontery to come here and rap bullshyt. Don't know why women will f*ck up and when it dawns on them, they begin to play victim. Most Nigerian women need toto-lock. Serial cheats

Where U there? Learn to keep your cool if U dont know what happened

yorke1:
So deep. Even i can feel the pain deep in her heart. What if she didn't do what she was accused of? What if...she was wrongly accused? What if this was all a set up? What if

This is going to be a stigma she going to live with for the rest of her life. I pray she have the strong and comfort to carry on.

God bless U o jare

VenusBetty:
obviously you don't know what you're saying, Toni Payne was making her cool money. She made him

well, I already said I had no clue. But she still fell for the wrong reasons, that you can't take away

Bimffo:
She fūcked RuggedMan, and we sang about it.. What is the rumour about that

What is she feeling like sef A Celeb Foooooollllish Slut!

Forgive me but U mumu gannn o
I swear foolishness is embedded in ur DNA

story for nairaland

Nobody is agreed to be at fault

mcdokwe:
well, I already said I had no clue. But she still fell for the wrong reasons, that you can't take away

Its fine to see someone with a bright future and stay with him. She didn't fall for the wrong reasons rather the wrongest person. 9ice is an animal..

Odunharry:
ok

It is high time women knew that its not a man's job to cater for her needs. You've just made me remember a girl who never responded to my whatsapp msg(es) until I sent her fake credit, the silly girl replied my asking of the network . The same thing this bítch was after before she met her waterloo.

she should move on abeg,the dude she's even writing that epistle for don't give a rat asss about her anymore.

What did she do? To me 9ice acted childish,am not saying what she did is good..if twas 9ice that did what was accused..Nigerian men you all have a problem wt maturity when u r married....there is nobody above mistake,ever since then has 9ice sang any hit song....most pple don't really like what he did especially me....

LyfeJennings:


Where U there? Learn to keep your cool if U dont know what happened

I wasn't there. Her ex-husband was

I need a woman who can love me for me and not for my wealth.

I need a man who can truly love me and be dedicated to me.

When you want to marry, marry someone who truly loves you. That’s the most important thing in marriage.

Once you marry someone you love and someone who loves you, you will have a happy marriage

Bla bla bla!

Hogwash!

Those are some of the statements people make about love and marriage. Love is over-rated, over-blown, and over-hyped.

If indeed we want more happy marriages, we need to be debriefed and rebriefed about marriage. Love does not make a marriage succeed! Yes, I said so.

Mutual respect makes a marriage succeed. Mutual respect makes a marriage happy.

When it comes to marriage, the attitude of every married person should be: “I don’t need your love! Gather your love like rags, stuff it in a bag and fling it over the Third Mainland Bridge into the Lagos Lagoon! It means nothing to me. Absolutely nothing! Just show me respect and I show you respect.” End of discussion!

Some would ask: But you can’t respect someone you don’t love? Fa-fa-fa foul! You can. When strangers walk into the office to make enquiries or purchases and you show them first-class courtesy, respect, and warmth, is it out of love? Do you know them from Adam? When strangers stop you on the street for enquiries and directions, and you pause to attend to them, or even take them to their destinations, even though you may never meet them again in your life, is it done out of love? When did the love start?

Now, let’s look at the other side of the coin. Have you not seen a man and woman so much in love that they can barely spend a minute without each other divorce within a month or a year of marriage? What happened? Did the love die so fast? I thought we were told that love cannot die?

Have you not seen or heard of a man who loves his wife so passionately but still panel-beats her every day, and then makes love to her passionately afterwards? Is that love too? Is love violent? Have you not heard of a man kill a woman he loves because of jealousy or anger, and vice versa? Can love kill its own beneficiary? This love sef!

Now, what can you say about this? While I was at the Nsukka campus of the University of Nigeria, I lived in Zik’s Flats, Block A2, Room 206 for four years with Chimezie Otuonye (a.k.a. One Man). Were we friends? No. He had his friends and I had mine. Were we enemies? Not at all. But for one minute, we never quarrelled in those four years. How did we do it? Simple. If his friends visited him when I was having my siesta, he knew that he should take them out of the room. I did the same thing for him. We both loved to play music, but we were mindful not to play it when the other was sleeping or reading. We kept our mattresses side-by-side to form a big bed. If I washed the bed sheet this Saturday, nobody would tell him to wash the bed-sheet the next Saturday. If I mopped the floor this Saturday, nobody would tell him to mop the floor the following Saturday. It was never discussed for one day.

He smoked occasionally. I never told him for one day not to smoke in the room; and he never smoked in the room, except when we had a party in the room. We had water regularly in our hall of residence, but in the mornings when everyone was in the bathroom, the water pressure would not be strong enough to push the water to the first or second floor. So, we always filled our buckets and cans in the afternoon or evening. Whoever was in the room did that. Whoever wanted to use the water used it but always refilled the containers.

If I needed money urgently, I borrowed from him. He would not need to ask before I paid him back. He treated me the same way.

For one day, we never discussed these things. But we watched each other and also talked to the human spirit inside us and consequently treated each other with mutual respect. We treated the other the way we would like to be treated.

To ensure that we continued to live in the same room, we always returned to campus on resumption day to pay for our accommodation and get the same room. Even without GSM phones, if one of us did not return on the first day of school, the other person would pay the hostel fee for the other roommate to secure the room.

That’s not Intelligence Quotient at work but emotional intelligence.

Yet, I heard many people complain about their roommates making life miserable for them.

How can a couple that claim to love each other go to work, church, mosque, parties, or markets and show strangers and casual acquaintances respect, watch their words when they talk to them, make all efforts to be nice and courteous to these people, apologise easily, forgive easily, but when they get back to their spouse, they are rude, sarcastic, caustic, stubborn, unapologetic, contentious, etc? How can partners call each other “useless, wicked, devil, witch, beast” and other unprintable names and still claim to love each other? How can partners make every effort to hurt the other, disregard each other’s wish, take selfish decisions and actions, and still claim to love each other?

No, that is not love. Sexual love (Eros) is ephemeral and unpredictable but Agape is constant. That is the love Paul of Tarsus spoke about: “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonour others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.”

Therefore, the Golden Rule in life or the greatest principle of peaceful coexistence is: Do unto others as you would want them to do unto you. That is the same law that makes a marriage happy and successful. If you would feel betrayed by your spouse’s unfaithfulness, don’t be unfaithful; if you hate rudeness, don’t be rude; if you love to be apologised to when wronged, apologise when you are wrong; if you love to be pampered, pamper your partner; if you love to be appreciated, appreciate your spouse. There is no magic in it. It is commonsense. But then, is it not said that commonsense is not common?

That is why a couple who had no love for each other (but no hate for each other) – who did not know each other, had no dealings with each other – could marry, treat each other with mutual respect and have a wonderful union, while a couple who had a pulsating courtship for one year could marry and have an unhappy marriage or even a bitter divorce within five years of marriage.

You can love someone who respects you. But you cannot love someone who claims to love you but shows you no respect. That is why love turns sour shortly after marriage. That is why marriages crash so fast.

Therefore, the luckiest and happiest couples are not those who are madly in love during courtship, but those who deeply respect each other and love each other during courtship and after walking down the aisle. They hardly wear each other out, neither do they easily irritate each other...

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vivaciousvivi:
Well said young lady. She is really growing into her own woman. Its really mature when a person recognizes and admits their shortfalls and are not afraid to go public with it. I wish her well.

She did not admit any "shortfall". She is still playing victim. Read the trash she typed there

Modesayo:
What did she do? To me 9ice acted childish,am not saying what she did is good..if twas 9ice that did what was accused..Nigerian men you all have a problem wt maturity when u r married....there is nobody above mistake,ever since then has 9ice sang any hit song....most pple don't really like what he did especially me....

How would you like what he did? Because it's Tony "Pain" that cheated. If it was 9ice that cheated now, the tables would have turned and all you NL ladies would not allow us to rest about how Nigerian men are cheats and all the usual blah blah blah

Decryptor:


She did not admit any "shortfall". She is still playing victim. Read the trash she typed there

I read the "thrash" and its obviously you who didn't read it. She reacted negatively pertaining to a recent happening and she is apologizing for the way she reacted. Additionally, Did you ever even stop to think that may be she actually didn't cheat on 9ice? Is that such a far-fetched and impossible thing to have happened? Is it? She is playing the victim? Really? and you are what Mr. Decryptor - her judge and executor? Pleaseeeee

What if she didn't do it? The lesson for married women is not only to be clean, but must be seen to be clean. Never be found in anything that could be suggestive of infidelity. The world is looking for such stories and will gladly make it up for you if you give any room for that.

LyfeJennings:


Forgive me but U mumu gannn o
I swear foolishness is embedded in ur DNA

Oya goan die..

Beeches be crying over spilled milk, move the phuck on already...shyt is dead & buried.

Well people have no idea of the vanity in love.. They feel that love in itself is so perfect.. Well our mind fathoms various prognosis in love... These imaginations alienates us from the very concept of the reality in love.. To the extent that when love shows its bad side.. They refuse to believe that its been love all the way acting out and showing its oda side.. What am I saying
Am saying that in as much as love brings great happiness, it brings even greater sadness.
In as much as love feels so pure and divine, it is can also feel so evil...
Love in itself has its bad sides... And we all should really start accepting and believing this reality.. Instead of giving the word other names....
In marriages we should look for oda tins to make it work.. relying on jst love is extremely stewpeed..

But why is she saying these now?.. Go to ur man n tell him if U̶̲̥̅̊ did nt do wht was said,!?.. Let ruggued man come talk his story.. In all both of you can figure it out if any of U̶̲̥̅̊ still care.. So stop the internet talk n face the reality...

U owe no 1 an explanation...just keep muving on as u ve said. People can only talk but God knows all