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Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by Lalaity: 2:03pm On Aug 21, 2020
Oga Serabuwon,

I logged on to nairaland today after several years off it.

I am thrilled to see how good the years has been to you and our Olori.

Please continue to bask in God favour and peace.
Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by serubawon(op): 2:51pm On Aug 21, 2020
Lalaity:
Oga Serabuwon,

I logged on to nairaland today after several years off it.

I am thrilled to see how good the years has been to you and our Olori.

Please continue to bask in God favour and peace.
Thank you. All things work together for good, for those called according to His purpose. Sometimes bad things happen, but God has a wonderful way of making things so right again.
Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by serubawon(op): 9:25am On Sep 18, 2020
Amopeekun:
It's a sis, sir smiley
Eya, I apologize for that ma'am. I truly meant no disrespect. smiley
Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by serubawon(op): 10:57pm On Dec 01, 2020
Happy Holidays everyone!!!

Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by PuZZyNegro: 8:04am On Dec 02, 2020
Okay
Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by bellong: 8:07am On Dec 02, 2020
serubawon:
Happy Holidays everyone!!!
Happy holidays sir... The kids of yesterday are now full blown adults cheesy
Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by NoToPile: 9:39am On Dec 02, 2020
serubawon:
Happy Holidays everyone!!!
Oshey!!! kiss kiss kiss

Nice pix
Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by Nobody: 5:33pm On Dec 02, 2020
Nice story.
Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by serubawon(op): 7:34pm On Dec 02, 2020
bellong:
Happy holidays sir... The kids of yesterday are now full blown adults cheesy
Yes they are and I give all the glory to God for a long journey that continues in happiness. smiley
Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by peacefulhome(f): 8:34pm On Dec 02, 2020
serubawon:
Yes they are and I give all the glory to God for a long journey that continues in happiness. smiley
Sir, you deserve all the happiness that God has in stored in this life. I could remember how I cried the first time I came across your thread. And am so happy seeing how far you have gone in strength and happiness
I pray happiness will never depart from your household. My regards to Olori , for a job well done.
Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by serubawon(op): 10:25pm On Dec 02, 2020
peacefulhome:
Sir, you deserve all the happiness that God has in stored in this life. I could remember how I cried the first time I came across your thread. And am so happy seeing how far you have gone in strength and happiness
I pray happiness will never depart from your household. My regards to Olori , for a job well done.
Thank you. That means a lot.
Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by serubawon(op): 8:08am On Jan 01, 2021
Happy New Year everyone!!!

Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by prestigiouslady: 10:14am On Jan 01, 2021
Happy new year to you and your family...
Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by JGracious: 7:07pm On Nov 01, 2021
I recently stumbled on your thread and gained a lot from your testimony. It was a long read but full of many lessons.
May you continue to enjoy God's favour and grace.
Happy birthday to you as you celebrate today. May your life be filled with more joys and great accomplishments.
Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by serubawon(op): 5:46am On Nov 04, 2021
JGracious:
I recently stumbled on your thread and gained a lot from your testimony. It was a long read but full of many lessons.
May you continue to enjoy God's favour and grace.
Happy birthday to you as you celebrate today. May your life be filled with more joys and great accomplishments.
Thank you for the birthday wishes and God bless!
Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by serubawon(op): 8:25pm On Dec 31, 2021
Happy New Year Everyone!!!
Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by peacefulhome(f): 8:59pm On Dec 31, 2021
serubawon:
Happy New Year Everyone!!!
Same To You Sir. How is Olori and the children doing? My regards to them.
Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by serubawon(op): 7:20am On Jan 01, 2022
peacefulhome:
Same To You Sir. How is Olori and the children doing? My regards to them.
Thank you! They're all doing great. My compliments to your family too!!
Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by prittigrrr(f): 9:48pm On Jan 23, 2022
Awwww Happy New Year!!!
Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by serubawon(op): 2:13am On Jan 27, 2022
prittigrrr:
Awwww Happy New Year!!!
She's back!!!!! Happy New Year Pretty Girl!! Long time no hear. How's life?
Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by Hosea148: 4:52pm On Sep 26, 2025
serubawon:
She's back!!!!! Happy New Year Pretty Girl!! Long time no hear. How's life?
I often remember this thread after stumbling on it years ago. Your story has been truly inspiring. Egbon, I hope you and yours are well. Blessings!
Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by Ishilove: 7:08pm On Sep 26, 2025
serubawon:
I lost my wife almost 2 years ago and I'm trying to make a new life for me and my 2 kids. My late wife and I had a fantastic relationship (and i really mean fantastic). I've found out that I'm not really interested in starting a new relationship, even though everybody tells me i should. I'm 37, have a very good job and very protective about my children. Right now, I build my life around them. Is there anybody who has had a similar experience? I would really like to now how you were able to overcome it, because I'm not finding it particularly easy, especially with the fact that women have almost turned me into a product that has to be purchased at all costs. Right now, i am practically terrified of women (based on experience) and I find that a bit disturbing. Hope some people could help me out. Thanks[/b]
19 years since this thread was created... And this makes you 56 years old now. Doesn't time just FLY??!
Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by serubawon(op): 1:19am On Dec 09, 2025
Ishilove:
19 years since this thread was created... And this makes you 56 years old now. Doesn't time just FLY??!
Yes, time does fly. I actually just turned 57, and Olori turns 50 next week. Daughter number 1 graduated from university last year and is going to medical school next year. She's also a lieutenant in the US Army. The other 2 kids are both in college, studying Architecture and Public Health Services, respectively. I almost can't believe this started in 2006......... 19 years ago. Wow.

I truly hope this platform does give someone somewhere hope; that life does continue happily, even after tragedy. I'm living proof of that.

Wishing everyone a merry Christmas and happy holidays ahead. Serubawon out!
Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by Ishilove: 3:15pm On Dec 09, 2025
serubawon:
Yes, time does fly. I actually just turned 57, and Olori turns 50 next week. Daughter number 1 graduated from university last year and is going to medical school next year. She's also a lieutenant in the US Army. The other 2 kids are both in college, studying Architecture and Public Health Services, respectively. I almost can't believe this started in 2006......... 19 years ago. Wow.

I truly hope this platform does give someone somewhere hope; that life does continue happily, even after tragedy. I'm living proof of that.

Wishing everyone a merry Christmas and happy holidays ahead. Serubawon out!
I'm glad it ended in praises.
Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by Onegai(f): 6:56pm On Dec 09, 2025
No
serubawon:
Yes, time does fly. I actually just turned 57, and Olori turns 50 next week. Daughter number 1 graduated from university last year and is going to medical school next year. She's also a lieutenant in the US Army. The other 2 kids are both in college, studying Architecture and Public Health Services, respectively. I almost can't believe this started in 2006......... 19 years ago. Wow.

I truly hope this platform does give someone somewhere hope; that life does continue happily, even after tragedy. I'm living proof of that.

Wishing everyone a merry Christmas and happy holidays ahead. Serubawon out!
What a wonderful thread. 19 years, wow!

May your family remain blessed

Merry Christmas and have a happy new year
Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by 2mch(m): 1:25am On Dec 10, 2025
Wow. I see I commented on this thread in the early days and was one of the first to suggest our brother consider a single mom. I am happy you opened your mind to the possibility. At your age and with children of your own, you needed an almost complete person not someone just starting out. You also needed someone much more mature. Olori owe me a Lamborghini Diablo.

Your experience with your ex-wife prepared you to be there for someone who needed you like Olori. I strongly believe we all go through things in the present for a future purpose. A lot of people get stuck in the present and cannot move from there. I also experienced a huge loss once that really almost took me down. But I learnt a certain level of detachment after the person died. Now, no loss in this world can take me to such depths again. It took me at least 10yrs to get over that loss. So, anyone dealing with loss, may God help you to look to what the future holds and realize that what you are feeling will not last forever.

Also, always learn to keep at least 40% of your heart for shock absorber because life happens in the worst way to the best of us and all we can do is brace for the impact to survive the disaster. I am happy for you Broda Serubawon and our wife, HRH Olori 1 of Houston.
Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by 2mch(m): 1:29am On Dec 10, 2025
RTFM, hope you are fine. Been quite a while. I hope you have a wife, family and lovely kids now. All the best.
Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by prittigrrr(f): 4:04am On May 03
Wow! I popped in to see what is happening these days and the thread is still alive! Best wishes to all, especially Serubawon!
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