YOU LOOK SEXY" IS AN INSULT
Ladies,do you always feel happy when people see
the way you dress and say you look sexy?
"You look sexy" is not a greeting, it is not a
compliment, it is an insult.
They are telling you, you are good for sex only,
they are telling you you have something good
under your skirt, but nothing tangible under your
Cap.
They are saying you are a bed professional,
bedroom expert and nothing more.
They are saying your greatest asset is under your
pant, what an insult, never allow anybody to tell
you, you look sexy again, because that simply
means they are saying you are boys toy and guys
pleasure tool, sex symbol and not a great
personalty, not somebody to be respected.
They are simply saying you are closer to been a
prostitute than to been a Virtuous, quality and
exceptional woman. So always dress to look pretty
and beautiful, don't dress to look sexy.
Queens and FIRST LADIES don't dress to look
Sexy, they always dress to look beautiful, adorable
and pretty.
But BED LADIES will dress otherwise because like
whores their value and biggest asset is in bed.
Always remember that good product are always
well covered, branded and well packed, but
worthless product are always exposed for all dick
and harry to see, make yourself valuable, cover up
girl, let your daughter be proud of you in future,
stop been object of Lust and passion.
So when you are dressing tomorrow morning ask
yourself, am I dressing like a FIRST LADY or like
BED LADY, let your dressing answer for you

tobechispeaks./2014/12/19/you-look-sexy-is-an-insult/

in your mind.

Some threads should never be opened.

I concur.. I always get goose bumps when told I look beautiful. What happened to you look good,gorgeous,pretty etc

hmmm , i simply agree it is neither a greeting nor a compliment but an insult in a seductive manner! i pray for such ladies

carefreewannabe:
Some threads should never be opened.

its true though.. telling a girl she looks sexy is an insult, its being sexually objectized.
i get offended when guys refer to my gfs as sexy, its an insult.

dablazor:

its true though.. telling a girl she looks sexy is an insult, its being sexually objectized.
i get offended when guys refer to my gfs as sexy, its an insult.

When a guy tells a woman that she is hot, it is up to her to decide whether she takes it as a compliment or insult.

carefreewannabe:


When a guy tells a woman that she is hot, it is up to her to decide whether she takes it as a compliment or insult.

when a guy tells my gf she is hot to her face in my presence, i'd slap his face in and make a face drum out of it, what an insult.
u need to know what actually goes through the mind of we men when we say 'hot' or 'sexy'.. then u might segue, once u understand.

dablazor:


when a guy tells my gf she is hot to her face in my presence, i'd slap his face in and make a face drum out of it, what an insult.
u need to know what actually goes through the mind of we men when we say 'hot' or 'sexy'.. then u might segue, once u understand.

How often does it happen that a guy tells a girl that she is se*xy in the presence of her boyfriend? Never?

carefreewannabe:


How often does it happen that a guy tells a girl that she is se*xy in the presence of her boyfriend? Never?

that is because they view it as insulting too, and would only say it to the girl cuz she doesnt know what it actually means.
"you are sexy" is an insult.. depends on the context too, maybe.

dablazor:


that is because they view it as insulting too, and would only say it to the girl cuz she doesnt know what it actually means.
"you are sexy" is an insult.. depends on the context too, maybe.

They don't say it because it's an insult but because it would mean that the guy is trying to flirt with a girl that is already taken.

My boyfriend often tells me that I am hot and it's not an insult so PULEAAAASE!

Oh,okayyy,so if you say someone's voice or legs are sexy.its means you want to have sex with....

carefreewannabe:


They don't say it because it's an insult but because it would mean that the guy is trying to flirt with a girl that is already taken.

My boyfriend often tells me that I am hot and it's not an insult so PULEAAAASE!

'your bf' that is a big distinction.. thats okay.

dablazor:


'your bf' that is a big distinction.. thats okay.

Why is it ok? According to the OP my boyfriend thinks that I have nothing upstairs when he says so.

buccal:
Oh,okayyy,so if you say someone's voice or legs are sexy.its means you want to have sex with....

'nice set of legs'

carefreewannabe:


Why is it ok? According to the OP my boyfriend thinks that I have nothing upstairs when he says so.

well there I disagree, he is your bf, not just a random guy tossing compliments.
i just hope he calls you beautiful, gorgeous too tho

dablazor:


well there I disagree, he is your bf, not just a random guy tossing compliments.
i just hope he calls you beautiful, gorgeous too tho

He does.

carefreewannabe:


He does.

no worries then

OP,


That your definition no longer works and we use 'sex.y' and 'hot' for well dressed, intelligent colleagues.

The circumstances would determine if it is an insult or not. If I am called s.exy when well dressed amongst my peers who know my worth, I will see it as a compliment

If I am dressed like a s.lut with breasts hanging out, s.exy would sure be an insult

tobechi74:
YOU LOOK SEXY" IS AN INSULT
Ladies,do you always feel happy when people see
the way you dress and say you look sexy?
"You look sexy" is not a greeting, it is not a
compliment, it is an insult.
They are telling you, you are good for sex only,
they are telling you you have something good
under your skirt, but nothing tangible under your
Cap.
They are saying you are a bed professional,
bedroom expert and nothing more.
They are saying your greatest asset is under your
pant, what an insult, never allow anybody to tell
you, you look sexy again, because that simply
means they are saying you are boys toy and guys
pleasure tool, sex symbol and not a great
personalty, not somebody to be respected.
They are simply saying you are closer to been a
prostitute than to been a Virtuous, quality and
exceptional woman. So always dress to look pretty
and beautiful, don't dress to look sexy.
Queens and FIRST LADIES don't dress to look
Sexy, they always dress to look beautiful, adorable
and pretty.
But BED LADIES will dress otherwise because like
whores their value and biggest asset is in bed.
Always remember that good product are always
well covered, branded and well packed, but
worthless product are always exposed for all dick
and harry to see, make yourself valuable, cover up
girl, let your daughter be proud of you in future,
stop been object of Lust and passion.
So when you are dressing tomorrow morning ask
yourself, am I dressing like a FIRST LADY or like
BED LADY, let your dressing answer for you

***Yawns***

Okay.

Tiring mehn...

Ewoni gbo gbo were yi gan



must you create thread. Is it by force. Oga o

carefreewannabe:


How often does it happen that a guy tells a girl that she is se*xy in the presence of her boyfriend? Never?

You once called me 'sexy ' in the presence of my e-wives. Remember?

iykedare:


You once called me 'sexy ' in the presence of my e-wives. Remember?

To be honest, I don't but did you feel offended?

I think people abuse the use of the word nowadays. You could be decently dressed yet be told you are s.exy. Ive never taken the word seriously though.

carefreewannabe:


To be honest, I don't but did you feel offended?

Offended that I'm sexy? Why should I be?

Sophyrocks:
I think people abuse the use of the word nowadays. You could be decently dressed yet be told you are s.exy. Ive never taken the word seriously though.

That's cos the word is no longer tied to sex. Sexy car, sexy computer, etc. It is more a reflection of the attraction you feel for something than how much you want to have sex.

I tell female colleagues you look hot but I have never had one get angry and take it as an insult or think that I am hitting on them. It's a compliment and it should make a lady feel good about herself. Of course a "toaster" can used the very same words and the same lady will be creeped out or feel like he is merely flattering her, that's where context plays a role.

iykedare:


Offended that I'm sexy? Why should I be?

I don't know.

Not in and of itself, no. But depending on the context - the words, the manner, and the man - it can be uncomfortable, or insulting. If you've never gotten a distasteful "you're sexy" comment before, you should thank your lucky stars.

EnlightenedSoul:
It depends on the context for me - the words, the manner, the man.

u have sexy eyes

dablazor:


u have sexy eyes

Likewise

EnlightenedSoul:


Likewise

why did u have a black rectangle covering half of your face?