There have been reports that delectable
actress, Stella Damasus snatched Daniel
Ademinokan from his pretty wife, Doris
Simeon.
But since then, the actress has kept a sealed
lip over the allegations. She and Daniel have
claimed what they have between them is
strictly business. Both of them now live in the
US and attend events together like lovers.
However, in a recent interview with Golden
Icons, Stella, a mother of two, finally
confirmed having an affair with Daniel, a
respected filmmaker and director. She also
spoke on how she moved on after the death
of her first husband, Jaiye Aboderin about 10
years ago and the real reason her second
marriage crashed.
On tying the knot with Jaiye Aboderin at the
age of 21, Stella said: “I always wanted to
start early. I always wanted to have children
early. I wanted to have a marriage early. I
wanted to grow with a family. I wanted to
learn the inside of it, I didn’t want to wait and
grow, and mature, and become big and
famous then start to wonder ‘oh, will anyone
marry me now’. “I didn’t want that to happen
because at 16, I was already popular. I was
making money, I was travelling.
So at that point looking at my life, I said, ‘if I
do this for another five, six or seven years,
and I don’t start a family, it will become more
difficult for me later on. And so, I decided if I
find somebody who I love, who will love me
back, we will go together. We will fight all the
fight, make up, we will do whatever, but we
will grow old together. And that’s what
happened. “And I am happy I made that
decision, because today, I have a 15 year old.
I grew up with my children. When you see the
three of us, and you see my daughters, you
will think we are sisters. We talk as friends.
So it was an important thing for me. To have
a family, and have that…I needed something
to check me. “We have a tendency to be
crazy and do whatever we like because we
could get away with anything, we could travel
all over the world, we could get people to like
us like this (snaps finger), we had money to
throw around. “If I don’t have that family unit
to check me, I don’t know what I would have
become and I won’t lie about that.” She spoke
about how she recovered after losing her
dead husband.
“They say time heals. I say, I have a different
definition, I say time numbs. It is not
something that heals, and then that’s it, it’s
gone, it’s gone, No. This is someone you
planned to spend the rest of your life with, and
grow with. “We made plans, like every other
couple. And when that happened…he died
when I was 26 with two children. I just felt
that my life had ended. So, but with time, this
year, December 3rd will 10 years, one full
decade.
“So it is not healing, I won’t call it healing but
I will say it numbs it and once in a while, it
comes up and the pain is as fresh like
yesterday but it is how you deal with it that
matters. “And that’s what I have had to do for
the past 10 years but I am very grateful for
the family I have, for the people I have around
me. For that, you need a lot of strength. God
helped me through it all.” Stella also cleared
the speculation that her movie ‘Widow’ was
her true life experience. “’Widow’ is a true life
story but not my story. The woman who I
played lives with her children in the UK.
I did Widow, months before my husband
passed away. So I saw the lady that I played,
so when the movie came out, the movie
came out after my husband had died. “It
didn’t come out before. So when it came out,
everybody thought ‘oh that’s her story, she
was telling her story’. It wasn’t my story. I
wasn’t upset, I was actually grateful that I did
such a great job that people believed that it
was me. Because as at the time I was doing
it, my husband was, in fact he was the one
dropping me off on location. So it means I
must have done a very good job for people to
actual feel it and say oh that’s her story.” On
her relationship with Daniel Ademinokan:
“Let me put it this way. Let me help you hit
the nail on the head. One of the comments I
have seen consistently, over and over again,
is ‘Stella snatches somebody’s husband’,
‘Stella the husband snatcher’, which is what
has been going on. And I had sworn that I
would never talk about it, or even listen or
stress myself about this thing but I have
decided to do this now, so that I end this once
and for all. “First of all, let me paint a picture
for you and you let me know what makes
sense to you. When I looked up the word
snatch or steal, ehh, let’s go to the dictionary.
It means, forcefully taking something away
from its original position; forcefully from its
original position to another position;
something that does not belong to you. That’s
what I gathered from the word snatch or
steal. So, I looked at me, Stella, and I
wondered to myself, how is it possible to go
to somebody’s home, and take a man, and
take his son, away from his home and say
follow me. You are a man, and according to
their story, he is happily married inside his
home. With his family complete and I walk
into that home, to forcefully take a man, able
bodied man, and a kid, away from
somebody’s hand and you are there looking
at me.
How does that work? “Did they accuse me of
using voodoo? Yes or no? They said no.
Okay, did I put a gun on anybody’s head and
remove somebody from somewhere? They
said no. So logically, if people actually sit
down and think about it intelligently, how do
you snatch somebody from somebody and
the person is there looking at you? “So, when
you see a man who has settled ties with a
woman and decides to move on with his life
and you feel that there is something in this
man that you like and he likes you. I am not a
kid. I am 36 years old.
I am not about to start hiding myself. I was
waiting for somebody to actually ask me this
question, because all I have heard for the
past two, three years are rumours. “They
said, blogs said, this said. Nobody has been
bold enough to confront me and ask me. So I
say, if I steal something from somebody, and
the person is really the owner of the thing,
you come and ask me, ‘you took something
from me, give me back’. “But nobody was
able to that. And I am like, ‘if I meet an able-
bodied man that has left and moved on’.
Source: 9javibes.com/gist/cares-sleep-50-men-nollywood-actress/

Oh Yes, and of course, I ain't sure anyone gives a rat ass who slept with, who you're sleping with or who gonna sleep with?

Eeya! poor Doris. Her mr right will surely find her

don't mind them dearie..haterz will.alwaz hate

You're right sister,it doesn't add or remove from me whether you enlarge ur ass.hole or not