1)You must discover yourself-life is all
about
contribution,you must discover what you
have to
contribute to your generation. Until you
know your
gift/talent you cannot be a gift to your
world.
2)Learn how to use your gifting to solve
problems.
Continue to improve your problem solving
abilities.
3)Learn how to make money- you make
money
from other people's ignorance because
people
won't pay you to tell them what they
already know.
4)You must have known the definition of
love- you
cannot love someone you don't really
know, you
can only like the person you are just
seeing for the
first time not love. Love is a choice, love is
more
about giving,love doesn't try to take the
dignity out
of the other person. Love is patient, any
guy who
loves you should be able to wait for you.
Note that
it's expensive to take care of a lady.
Before a guy
turns 30,he should have learn how to
propose to a
girl. If you like somebody, tell the person-
be plain &
clear& articulate.
5) You must have read at least 30 books,
he who
doesn't read isn't better than he who
cannot
read. Empty minds attracts themselves &
Heavy
minds attracts themselves!. To look
beautiful
without having wisdom is a waste,add
value to your
beauty by investing in your mind.
6)You must have a pastor. Don't always
change
church, take your time to discover your
pastor and
stay with him.
7)You should have something you are
known for-
Great men are not known for everything
but for
something specific. Have you discovered
what you
would be known for? Write it down!
You should have a mentor-A day with a
great
teacher is better than 100 days of personal
search. A good mentor is someone who
seems to be
where you want to get to,you need to be
disciplined
to be mentored. When you stand on the
shoulders of
people who have gone ahead,you see
farther!.Locate your mentor, stay with
them,celebrate and respect them!Learn
from them
and apply to your own life what you're
learning.
9)You must learn how to say NO without
feeling
guilty because it's the highest height of
maturity.
Don't be too emotional about everything,
you are
where you are today because you are too
concerned about others feeling towards
you.
10)You must have conquered
procrastination-
procrastination is the lazy man's apology.
11)You should be free to use your mind- if
your life
isn't going well, try check who has been
doing your
thinking for you, Be free from the influence
of your
parents/peer etc. Live for what you want
to be. Life
is measured by the capacity of your
mentality, free
yourself in your mind!.
12)You should have a bank account- infact
if you
are really serious about life, you should
have more
than 1 bank account, 1 should be your
proposed
family account and the other one should
be your
personal account, become coordinated &
organized.
13)You should have an investment-one of
the
cheapest investment is to buy shares from
a good
company. An hint to know the company to
partner
with is to look out for those that produce
what
people consume daily.. Example is the oil
company
and network providers.
14)You must have developed stability of
character-
you should be taken for your words,say
what you
mean and mean what you say! Learn how
to keep
your tongue when you really have nothing
to
say. Put yourself under self control by not
going
after everything that glitters.
15)You should be able to choose your
friends-
decide who you want to keep around you,
an eagle
that hangout with chickens will one day
forget how
to fly.
16)Learn professional dining etiquette.
Some of the
big things of life are hidden in little details.
17)You should be able to define your
vision. In one
sentence define who you are and what you
want to
live for.
18)You should be able to know how to
drive a
car.Not knowing how to drive a car can
restrict you
from gaining big opportunities in life.
19)You must have a financial ability to
feed
somebody else.
20)You should be BORN AGAIN, know how
to love
God.Seek first the kingdom of God and it's
righteousness and all these things shall be
given to
you-Matthew 6:33.

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Love no 20

Still have a bit to work on myself!