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After two months in Zamfara, my libido had dropped a great notch. I could pass for a monk in thought and deed. These ladies were graciously and totally wrapped. No curves to behold, no stray cleavage and bra strap, no
busts, no bum; nothing to mess with your head or thoughts and get your mind trying to figure out whatever is under that see-through top. Living there had some sort of purging effect on my sight and consequently my mind.
The sacred parts of a female’s body gradually started to become sacred again and seemed to earn a right to be covered, and for once, I began to admire and respect both the Hijab, and the ladies who make a habit of wearing it. And oh yes: I did find that brazen immorality
was very low in this part. The vibe was more like – ‘if-you-want-her,-marry-her’ rather than the ‘if-you-want-her-then-get-in-her-pants’ idiosyncrasy that’s predominant down South.
It seems our ladies just want to go naked. We’ve watched the skirts grow shorter and ‘huggier’. We (everybody) let them wear two-legged apparels for sports and better covering; they turn it to ‘bum shorts’…perhaps for want of fabric. They change from pants to tight as undies, but knowing they had tights on...they
started to sit anyhow. The tight is now leggings which they used to wear with a long top to cover the bum. Today, in our faces, the long tops disappeared, leaving us with plain skin tight - a brazen case of underwear going to school, work or church. Nowadays they don’t even wear pants with it, and it’s getting even more transparent! Today they wear see-through tops with a flawless bra underneath.
Their tops must reveal bra straps somehow, and the cleavage must come pouring forth! Truth is, a lady who ‘shows some flesh’ torments a man’s senses far more than a totally nude one, for men are turned on hard
by sight. Their imaginations run wild; they get hooked; soon they become willing victims all their lives. Women know this, I am sure.
I sometimes wonder how many young men out there are addicted, perverted, and sexually bedeviled by a few stray sights they happened upon on the street all because a sister wants to be called ‘sexy’. We lament that faithful husbands have flown from amongst women, we decry ill-gotten wealth. We lament that
standards have fallen, that men ask for sex to give women jobs, roles, marks, admissions, favours, contracts, money. And the United Nations cries – emancipate the woman!
However, by your dressing you suggest that ‘sex’ is a currency you are willing to pay in and start up this vicious circle of promiscuity that’s killing the society. Jay-Z sings fully clothed from skull to foot; the ‘add-on’ lady simply wears thongs and wiggles her butt? I feel certain that if a bill is passed banning certain clothes in public, women will vehemently protest their right to be naked, tell us we are living in the stone ages all over
again; and fill us with all that ‘woman emancipation’ mantra.
Consequently, our three-year-old boys have learnt to poke at their sisters and classmates, because you showed them how. Our sons approach puberty, the site of nudity on the streets pushes them ‘pornward’, and by 15, they have pierced themselves with many sexual sorrows. Such a boy will grow to be a philanderer, a pedophile, an abuser of women and an unworthy father. See how you make perverts out of us. See why you must stop!
We all are culpable. From the man who calls her ‘hot and sexy’, speaking more from lust than love, to the lady who courts attention at all costs, selling womanhood
short. From the father who’s not always there, to the mother who feels she’s just being like her generation…and refuses to scream, correct and insist. From the media or marketing professional who feels – sex sells, to the customer service and public relations peeps
who think this lewdness is the best way to reel in customers. From the designer of these kinds of clothes, to the ‘stars’ who teach our kids that this is how to be. We all are! Hence, if women cannot all wear Hijabs like
the Moslem women do, at least get a moral
one, dress modestly! • Nnaemeka, a youth corps member in Zamfara State.
This was published in guardian newspaper in Nigeria, last week Tuesday, back page(December, 2014)

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Wonderful , very wonderful.
Please I'm going to steal this and input in my dairy

True! I lived in Egypt for some time and my lust for women was gone, I losed form just like Torres in fact I knew it was wrong to tap current from a lady in a bus.

I hope the mods, Seun will do the needful. ....This piece needs to reach millions of girls in NG

This is a front page piece! .....but it'll never make it, you know why? there's no "Tonto dike, ini edo" shits

dastranger:
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na u be op na u still dey book space.ok how much u dey sell?

overdrive:

na u be op na u still dey book space.ok how much u dey sell?

There's no way I could av deleted the post totally. Hence I had to put a dot... .I think it's high time NL put delete button on threads

Good article, may God bless your wisdom.

Flye:
Good article may, God bless your wisdom.

You too

The op is on point,they wear rag in the name of fashion and the worst part of it is the one that are bleaching............I hate bleaching more than anything.

Kolade354:
The op is on point,they wear rag in the name of fashion and the worst part of it is the one that are bleaching............I hate bleaching more than anything.

Is it your skin?

Stupid article. Naked we came, naked we shall go.

sonOfLucifer:

Is it your skin?

curse be on you and your owner.

sonOfLucifer:
Stupid article. Naked we came, naked we shall go.

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