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Re: Please Advice!! My Sister Needs Urgent Help. by naijainstinct: 10:34pm On Jan 09, 2015
May I use this opportunity to say a very big thank you to all of you who contributed and gave an advise or the other. Truly, I feel a lot better now than I was yesterday.

My sister has been calm since yesterday, infact she has been extra-nice and more lively than she used to be. We are not letting that attitude deceive us anyway......We've ensured that she went through several spiritual counselling today. Several pastors have been calling in to pray for her and we are also monitoring her every move in the house. We have booked an appointment with a psychologist and a family friend have also helped us to book another appointment with a psychiatrist.

I just want to give her some time to be herself before I have a detailed conversation with her especially on what she intends to do next with her life.

Indeed, you guys have been very helpful including those who decided to castigate & pour the blame on me and my mum........ Thank you so much. I'm glad I'm a nairalander! God bless you all.

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Re: Please Advice!! My Sister Needs Urgent Help. by dorox(m): 11:23pm On Jan 09, 2015
naijainstinct:
you didn't proffer any solution though. Thanks for your contribution!
She should be taken to see a psychiatric doctor for treatment.
Re: Please Advice!! My Sister Needs Urgent Help. by shegsrules(m): 12:43am On Jan 10, 2015
naijainstinct:


1. I did a lot of summary.......there was no way I could give account of our individual and collective efforts (myself and my mum) and other details without ending up writing a very lengthy story. Which mother wouldn't at least take a step to correct her daughter?

2. She stood up for an altar call in a service that I was present. She attended the foundation and maturity classes and joined a service group afterwards. She attended church religiously and changed her lifestyle including the way she dressed. Before that time, she always skipped family prayers and was non-challant about church things. After she got born again, she never skipped her personal mid-night prayers. That's how I knew she got born again.

3. Yes, I was bothered but I have my own issues to deal with too.......my mum always sat her down and advised her, pray with her and even monitored her on several occassions. My mum fasted and prayed (and still do) over her case. My mum calls several pastors weekly to join her in prayers. If you noticed my earlier story, I said my mum called the senior pastor of the church branch we attend, thats to show you how she keeps in touch with pastors she trusts and believes in. Do you want her to be flogging her daughter who is almost 30 years? Well, I may not be so spiritually or religiously inclined but my mum is and she's trying her best.

Thanks for your advise........We'll tighten up. We are also combining medical and spiritual therapy as you have suggested. God bless you.

Are you saying we should abandon her?

We have made arrangements for medical assistance.......Thanks for your advise. I'm sorry about your cousin and I pray my sister's case doesn't end this way. God bless U bro.

okay. I sent you a PM. thanks!

thanks bro



We should encourage her to continue destroying her properties and that of others too? I don't think that's the right thing to do. Thanks for your contribution.

Amen! Thanks a lot.

By encouragement I mean seeing all what she is doing makes no sense.
Re: Please Advice!! My Sister Needs Urgent Help. by naijainstinct: 1:34am On Jan 10, 2015
The worst has finally happened.
Re: Please Advice!! My Sister Needs Urgent Help. by Alexk2(m): 3:49am On Jan 10, 2015
naijainstinct:
The worst has finally happened.

what happened?
Re: Please Advice!! My Sister Needs Urgent Help. by Alexk2(m): 5:54pm On Jan 11, 2015
naijainstinct:
The worst has finally happened.

...His eye is on the sparrow and i know He is watching over you and your family...i dont know the current situation but be sure that God is ever there for you...shalom!
Re: Please Advice!! My Sister Needs Urgent Help. by naijainstinct: 11:06pm On Jan 18, 2015
Alexk2:


...His eye is on the sparrow and i know He is watching over you and your family...i dont know the current situation but be sure that God is ever there for you...shalom!

I cannot thank you enough bro.........the storm is over now. Thanks to God! I'm sorry I couldn't reply ur mails quickly. Last week was indeed a hell of a week. The events that took place are just beyond words. God has been faithful though.........your words of encouragement and your prayers really helped a great deal. God will bless you beyond measure.
Re: Please Advice!! My Sister Needs Urgent Help. by Alexk2(m): 2:53pm On Jan 19, 2015
[quote
author=naijainstinct post=29917938]

I cannot thank you enough bro.........the storm is over now. Thanks to
God! I'm sorry I couldn't reply ur mails quickly. Last week was indeed a
hell of a week. The events that took place are just beyond words. God
has been faithful though.........your words of encouragement and your
prayers really helped a great deal. God will bless you beyond
measure.[/quote]

glory be to God. i'm happy to hear that. this testimony shall be parmanent in Jesus name..amen.
Re: Please Advice!! My Sister Needs Urgent Help. by Tranglatar(m): 3:05pm On Jan 19, 2015
naijainstinct:


I cannot thank you enough bro.........the storm is over now. Thanks to God! I'm sorry I couldn't reply ur mails quickly. Last week was indeed a hell of a week. The events that took place are just beyond words. God has been faithful though.........your words of encouragement and your prayers really helped a great deal. God will bless you beyond measure.

@ Naijainstinct
I knew Ps 116 would be your song and prayer for all time when you take up the cross, step into the flame to rescue your sister. May the Almighty GOD continue to fan into flame the light of CHRIST HE has rekindled in you. We are conquerors in HIM. God bless !!!

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Re: Please Advice!! My Sister Needs Urgent Help. by naijainstinct: 10:42am On Jan 29, 2015
Tranglatar:


@ Naijainstinct
I knew Ps 116 would be your song and prayer for all time when you take up the cross, step into the flame to rescue your sister. May the Almighty GOD continue to fan into flame the light of CHRIST HE has rekindled in you. We are conquerors in HIM. God bless !!!

Thanks a lot.......God bless U bro

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