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The Secret To Success by Dotwillis1(m): 1:31pm On Jan 17, 2015
The secret to success is to believe in yourself. For when you believe in yourself, no matter what obstacles you encounter, you will prevail.
And there is a reason for this, in fact language
itself gives us a clue: The words “belief / believe” literally mean “to love and trust, all around, from all sides.” When you believe in yourself, you surround yourself, or rather, you encircle yourself with your own love and trust–so much that there is no opening in this trust.
And that is a crucial point. For as soon as there is a “crack” in this circle of trust, doubt can and will enter. Doubt splits apart; in fact, the word doubt originally meant “two” as in “split in two” And it is doubt that leads you to think you have failed, and subsequently give up. But when you fully believe in yourself, and thereby surround yourself with all-enclosing love and trust, no doubt can and will enter your mind. Instead, you are “confident,” which literally means to go “with trust.”
Then, if things go badly in life, as surely they will from time to time, your belief, that love and trust you place in and around yourself, and the confidence that results from this will carry you forward.


Plan your actions according to your skills.
If you plan too far beyond your skill-level, you
may struggle; if you plan below your skill-level,
you may get bored. Instead, set it up so that the task at hand is just slightly challenging, but you will still be able to master it. If so, working towards the goal will be rewarding in itself, and by meeting the challenge you subsequent prove to yourself that you can do it and thereby build your confidence.



Always celebrate and reward good outcomes! Take heed of bad ones. but never punish yourself for them. Now let’s look at the flip-side, being overly confident. You also have to guard yourself against a sort of “blind faith” that extends from believing in yourself
to believing that anything you do is correct and the only way to success. As just pointed out, things will not always go your way–that is a fact, and you have
to acknowledge this. Now, I just told you to
believe in yourself and keep on going; but if something you do “fails” repeatedly, keep doing it



[b]So trust yourself! Believe in yourself! But heed the warning signs if your ways are failing. Learn from your mistakes and have the courage and wisdom to make adjustments to your path. Overall, once you know your Vision, these are but minor tweaks to the path of this ship called Life. There always are infinite
paths that lead you to and from the same place[\b]
.
Be true! Be Happy! And have a great life!

https://dotwillis./2014/05/05/the-secret-to-success-believing-in-yourself/

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