24 SOLID ADVICE FOR EVERY WOMAN BEFORE YOU GO
INTO ANY RELATIONSHIP...TAKE THE PAIN TO READ THROUGH... YOU MIGHT FIND SOMETHING INTERESTING.
•My daughter, don’t cause a separation between your
man and his siblings; it could be dangerous for you
when they finally speak with one voice.
• My daughter, I know that some of you girls don’t wish
to marry a man whose mother is still alive, don’t ever
think like that, if you do, well, I think your son’s wife-to-
be should start wishing you're dead now.
• My daughter, listen to me, when I married your father,
he was as tiny as his salary but I chose to grow with
him and today, those cars out there are some of the
results of what we started so little, together, and we’re
proud looking at them.
• My daughter, there is this thing i see happening in
your time, some of you girls now get pregnant before the
wedding day, well, it never happened in our time
because no matter what, we never opened our laps
before the wedding.
• My daughter, well, yes, I once locked up the cloth of
your father because I got to my limit of patience and
that was the only thing I could do, but one thing I
haven’t said was that we settled the issue that same day
and that was the last time I tried that.
• My daughter, look up there. That’s the wedding picture
of your father and I, look at him smiling, I know you've
seen it many times but what you did not know is that
your father was angry before taking this picture, I hope
you find a man whose anger doesn't last till the next
day.
• My daughter, when your Father was riding a bicycle, I
was always happy to hop on it and ride with him, not
because I didn't see those men in their little cars but
because my eyes also saw those men trekking to their
farms.
• My daughter, if you and your husband eat a little food
with love, you both would be satisfied. Times are not
always the same; support him in every phase he’s
passing through.
• My daughter, don’t ever close your laps to your
husband in bed , the day he paid your dowry was the
day you lost your will to do so, don’t be stiff and try to
satisfy him even if you were angry with him.
• My daughter, a man would respect you and be more
proud of you if you’re learned and not totally dependent
on him. Strive to make your own money and while
you're at it, be humble.
• My daughter, under the cocoa tree that I did meet with
your Father was open and good enough for our
discussions, yes; it was open and good enough if you
understand what I mean.
• My daughter, in our time, we had sexy legs and firm
bosoms to show our men , in fact, we had the
finestones, yet, when we dress, we cover those parts of
our body, not because we were not civilized as you
people would call it, but because we know that the
eyesof men are hungry, many of them would only come,
touch and go their way.
• My daughter, there is this thing you girls now practice,
they say it’s feminism. Well, you can prove to be
equal to a man in the society but please, not in your
marriage because at my old age, I don’t want to start
counting your husbands.
• My daughter, marriage is not a Rehabilitation Centre, if
he’s not good enough for you before marriage, nothing
he does would be good enough after marriage.
• My daughter, you can see I still wear my night gown ,
yes, because to my husband; your father, I still want to
look sexy. So, take good care of your body, look good
for your man and don’t look like a grandma
after giving birth.
• My daughter, I’m your mother and still, I'm not
interested in you coming to me always if anything goes
wrong with your husband. Though nowadays I see some
mothers controlling the homes of their sons and
daughters, I would only say; shame on them!
• My daughter, for you to have a peaceful home and
well-trained children, have one voice with your
husband, join him to say NO when he’s saying NO
before the kids but later when you both are alone, you
can plead with him for a YES, if not, the children will
see a loophole to misbehave, either to you or their
father.
• My daughter, if you chose to live together with a man
that you’re yet to be married to , and you are
complaining that he hasn't proposed to you, oh, he
already did. Whatever he said that made you start living
with him was his proposal.
• My daughter, your generation does not see any pride
in been a virgin before marriage, it’s a shame! Your
father met me a virgin and he brought more yams to my
parents and up till today, he’s still proud of me when we
discuss in that direction.
• My daughter, I know that no man out there is
complete, but when you are looking for your tall, slim,
fair
and handsome, if he’s a woman beater, please, go for
the short, fat, dark and ugly that will give you the
respect you deserve as a woman.
• My daughter, know, learn and respect the culture and
lifestyle of whoever you chose to marry . In some part of
Africa, you knee down to greet your man’s parents while
in some part outside Africa; you can
even call them by their first name and ask for a
handshake. Whatever they believe in, if you've chosen
him, believe it with him also.
• My daughter, don’t ever try to date a married man,
whether his excuse was that he doesn't find happiness
with his wife or he would have married you if he had met
you first, if you ever try it, I curse you already.
• My daughter, when I say over 52 years of marriage , it
wasn't that I did not see any reason to leave your
father, I saw a lot of them but I bear his faults, I forgave
him to stay married.
• My daughter, these are part of the wisdom i have
gathered over the years. and If I had taken my time to
tell you all these, and your marriage doesn't last like
that of your father and I, then I had wished I never gave
birth to you.

Tell them sir, A word is enough for the wise.

The aforementioned are words of value, Use them well.

I hope they see it the way you just did.

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