You love your friend and adore her fiancé. In short, you’ve waited for her D-day to come but now that the day is fixed, you develop a cold feet. Why? It’s because she requested that you be on her list of bridesmaid.

Wedding events require a lot of energy, mental work and of course finance. And your shiver may be due to the fact you are not familiar with her other friends, you are having a hectic moment and plans, you are not financially ready for such at the moment or ….

Whatever your reason may be, do not say ‘yes’ unless you are very sure. So, to say ‘no’ without denting the friendly knot, check out these tips below…

1.Don’t give an immediate yes. When she ask you, tell her you will think about it and get back in few days. Make you you get back to her within a week. Do not delay your response till day is around the corner. A further delayed answer is presumed as a ‘yes’ and a ‘no’ days to the wedding can be very disappointing.

2. Don’t dribble in your answer. You don’t have to sound as if you are lieing or hiding something from her. Be straight. Tell her you feel honoured to grace such a list but your work schedule may not permit much time devotion required of a bridesmaid. Tell her you can’t afford the expenses for now.

3. Show your support in other ways. Tell her you will prefer to skip the title but maintain your expectations. This means you would be involved in other chosen ways by her.

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