REDUÇED LIFESPAÑ
Recent studies suggest that the simple act
of producing and ejaculating sperm are
highly correlated to a shorter lifespan. It
doesn’t take much to connect the most
obvious dots: women live longer than men
and they produce no semen whatsoever.
Clearly this is only correlation but this idea
of sperm production linked to lifespan has
shown up in studies comparing male
nematodes. As mentioned in “ The Four
Hour Body” by Tim Ferriss, when comparing
a nematode
that had spread
its seed to one
that hadn’t,
researchers
found a
significant
change in
lifespan . The
research suggested that it was the simple
act of generating sperm that was linked to
reduced lifespan and not necessarily the
physical act of sex. In the book “Taoist
Secrets of Love” by Mantak Chia, other
signs from the natural world are brought to
ones attention. Some examples include:
The male butterfly often dies shortly
after mating.
Most animals mate only once a year
at most.
Many plants go into dormancy after
bearing fruit.
Taoism has long been associated with
longevity. There are many tales about
Taoist “masters” or “sages” reaching ages
well beyond that of the average person.
Taoism is a philosophy with roots on
natural observation that is literally
thousands of years old, and there is a
consensus among Taoists that preservation
and proper cultivation of male sexual fluid
is vital to lifespan. Ancient Taoists viewed
the male sexual fluid contained their “chi”
or “life force energy” and that every time
one eliminated their fluid, they also lost
some of that vital energy. This brings us to
our next topic:

DRAINAGE of ENERGY

The feeling of being completely drained of
energy after orgasm is not only common; it
is often joked about and brought up in
society and the media. The issue of “the
man falling asleep right after sex” is one
women deal with constantly, and many of
them are not happy about it. In fact, many
men use masturbation as a “shortcut” to
falling asleep at night because of the
draining effect it has.
Whether or not you believe that the
“sustaining energy of life” is lost during
orgasm, one cannot deny that the
experience taxes the system. I knew a
woman who once compared orgasm to “a
minor stroke”, and being a woman she had
obviously never experienced the effect it
has on a man’s body.

REDUCED CONFIDENCE
TO WOO LÀDIES:

In terms of both health and confidence,
there are many reports of famous boxers
and athletes who remain celibate before
participating in a match or game. One can
only speculate if there is any proof that it
helps their performance, but it may be
worth noting. If nothing else, one could
argue that their body hasn’t been taxed and
they may be more “fresh” and prepared to
compete. Perhaps a better example of the
effects of masturbation on confidence can
be found in the following:
Among the community of men’s dating
coaches and “pick up artists” there is an
increasing emphasis being placed on
reduced, controlled, or cessation of
masturbation. The idea is pretty simple.
Men who are masturbating frequently are
less likely to actually go approach a
woman that they find attractive. If you think
about it, every time you ejaculate semen
you are telling your body that you just
procreated. If you do this often, you are
less motivated to actually go do what it
takes to actually reproduce – meet the
opposite sex.
Mark Manson provides some advice in his
book “Models: Attracting Women Through
Honesty”. He explains how in his teaching,
getting men to stop masturbating is one of
the most effective aspects of his coaching.
Among other tips, he recommends setting
aside one day every week or every other
week where you are allowed to masturbate
– otherwise avoid it at all costs every other
day of the week.
Whether or not there is any “hard science”
behind this is debatable. A certainty is that
this is an idea that is catching on within
the community of men’s dating coaches. If
you are a man who masturbates frequently,
you might be able to verify this experience
from your own life experience.

DESENSITISATIOÑ

Another harmful side effect of an out of
control masturbation habit is that one can
easily become desensitized to real life
women and actual sex with a partner. Many
men find that masturbating too frequently
makes it more difficult to achieve or
maintain an erection, as well as having
various negative impacts on the actual act
of sex with a partner.
Compounding this problem is the rise of
pornography addiction. The website “ Your
Brain On Porn ” explains the drastic issues
being cause with the overload of highly
stimulating pornography available to us in
modern society. It is strongly
recommended that you read this report in
full as it is too important to summarize here
and leave anything out. It can easily be
argued that all men NEED to read that
article and understand exactly what
pornography is doing to their brain.
SPIRITUALITY
*Many men who are looking to stop
masturbating already have a religious
reason for doing so. This section is not in
place to convince or convert anyone to any
belief structure or religion. For those that
do have spiritual or religious beliefs, the
following may hit home.*
In this recent poll by Gallop, more
American’s consider themselves “Pro-Life”
than “Pro-Choice” for the first time in
years. When it comes to preserving the
sanctity of life and/or a potential future
life, consider the following: a healthy sperm
count contains between 300 – 500
MILLION sperm cells. Considering the fact
that the U.S. population is just over 300
million people, one ejaculation holds the
potential to repopulate the entire country. It
is not unreasonable to think that the
average man over the course of his life
could potentially spill enough sperm on the
bed sheet to account for every human that
has ever lived.
Guilt is also a feeling that often follows an
ejaculation that comes as a result of
masturbation. Although it could be argued
that this guilt is due to religious shame,
there are many men who are not religious
that still feel remorseful or depressed after
pleasing themselves. Without pushing any
moral view on anybody, it could also be
easily argued that the simplest way to
avoid this guilt would be to not do the act
in the first place.
Conclusion:
The above reasons should hopefully provide
a compelling argument as to why one
should at least consider putting an end to
their masturbation habit. If nothing else,
the simple choice to limit, or control a
masturbation habit can be great for one’s
sense of self-control and self-confidence.
Knowledge that one is in control of your
decisions and actions is important for
anyone to have.
So, what can you do about it? Becoming
educated about the issue is the first step.
Once you become aware of the “why” it
becomes easier to accept the “how”.
Building the willpower is the most
important aspect of breaking a habit. This
is easier said than done.
Another option could be to use meditation
to help you better control your thoughts
and emotions. Meditation has multiple
health benefits and is linked to improved
self-esteem and mindset. Self-control and
the ability to “let thoughts pass” are
absolutely vital skills to have when it
comes to breaking this habit, especially
considering the root of the arousal comes
from thought. Some people also find
hypnosis very effective.

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MrKontrovErsy:
shoki

what has Shoki got to do with this..

watchman111:
what has Shoki got to do with this..

u go kno later

bad habbit Naija boys started doing dis self servicing thing lyk 5-10yrs ago its sign of end time things
if u r doing it stop it and let dat demonic spirit leave u
Amen

funmilayoB:
bad habbit Naija boys started doing dis self servicing thing lyk 5-10yrs ago its sign of end time things
if u r doing it stop it and let dat demonic spirit leave u
Amen

girls also do it na.