Here IT is!!!

I moved to abuja last year for NYSC and I stay with my aunt...
Now, I stay at the BQ but I don't cook...I eat the main house food...
I have a strong issue with the taste of my aunt's food..it's not bad but I believe it's due to the fact that I'm a Core Southerner (Rivers girl) and she lived most of her life in the north (Kaduna).

I really try to eat the food cooked but I end up vomitting it or have a date with the toilet...

When Johesu was on strike, I made my Indomie, fried plantain and fried yam by myself...I was left with this choice because I lied to her that I don't eat eba, beans and stew because I really I could not tolerate the way she prepared these dishes...

Anyway, I work now and I really don't have much time to myself anymore...I rarely go to the main house for food anymore because I go to work by 4:30am and get back by 7.00pm on a good day....I've been feeding on bread alone for the past three weeks...

Please, how do I make her realise I have to start cooking my own stews and soups without causing a problem between us...