I think its high time we started changing our naming conventions for the current phenomena of perceived "suicide bombers" in Nigeria. Put in context, a suicide bomber is someone who, as a result of personal resolution, has decided to kill other people while giving his life in the process. This definition conveys the thought of a conscious and intentional effort at martyrdom.
The question is, how many of the little girls, boys, women and men who are deployed for the purpose terror operation really desire to die in the course of what they believe in? What do they know? Until we are able to decipher the difference between intention and coercion, we will almost always feel hate in our hearts for the hundreds of helpless people who are murdered by terrorists for their selfish end. I wish we could just pause a moment and give this a second thought.